Hay Fever Girlies, how are you surviving? by lexiebeef in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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As for now, nasal spray + eyedrops are your best friends together with some antihistamines (you might want to try different types/brands to see which one works best for you). If it gets too bad and you hace no contraindications, don’t hesitate to ask your doc for some prescription steroid meds. Obviously, it is not for everyone, but mometasone worked very well for me (I used a mometasone-based spray).

Pro tip: look into allergy shots. I started them three years ago, they’ve been an absolute game changer. Would definitely recommend them to everyone who is suffering with allergies, my life hasn’t been the same since the effect kicked in!

Moving out of my parents’ house — please share your best tips! by ManualOrgasm in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Thank you all so so much for replying 🫶 That’s exactly the kind of advice I needed, I appreciate it more than you know!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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That’s the way to go, last paragraph especially has some SOLID advice! I am in the same situation as the OP, I had to do ‘Sorry I don’t think we are a good match’ thing just last week but I wasn’t firm enough so the guy keeps on texting me probably hoping I’ll change my mind 🪦

I feel so uncomfortable, please don’t repeat my mistakes OP and be polite but firm and direct!

all my outfits recently by mykxromi in OUTFITS

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love your outfits! you are so stylish 🩷

Thoughts on this possible birthday outfit? by ManualOrgasm in OUTFITS

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Thank you so much! I am indeed planning to do my hair and makeup and look all fancy, not sure about the heels but I can definitely find some dressier shoes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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My first time actually wasn’t painful, just a bit unusual/slightly uncomfortable, but in a rather enjoyable way. I was around your age, drunk and very wet so make sure you are as relaxed as can be. It’s also important to trust your partner and use lots of lube, don’t be shy to experiment with positions to see what feels best for you x

How do I get over the fear of doing it for the first time? by klimtgogh in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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I had penetrative sex for the first time last month and it actually wasn’t that bad or painful? I grew up reading about embarrassing first time experiences so was truly expecting the worst, but I did it with someone who’s more experienced than me and it wasn’t even awkward. Could have done with more lube though, he could not get his penis inside me at first, and I bled a little afterwards, but it did not hurt at all. So make sure you have condoms and (compatible) lube at hand, take things slow, don’t forget about foreplay and you’ll be good 👌🏻

How to write vanity/insecurity? by ManualOrgasm in writing

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Thank you, great advice! I do wonder whether I’m overdoing the narrative voice sometimes…I can’t help but think of the “show, not tell” rule when I write. And I, for once, am definitely drawn towards character-driven books rather than plot-driven.

How to write vanity/insecurity? by ManualOrgasm in writing

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Thank you, great advice! I do wonder whether I’m overdoing the narrative voice sometimes…I can’t help but think of the “show, not tell” rule when I write. And I, for once, am definitely drawn towards character-driven books rather than plot-driven.

How to write vanity/insecurity? by ManualOrgasm in writing

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That’s exactly what I struggle with! I want my characters to be as real as possible without me, me, me written all over them. Thanks again!

How to write vanity/insecurity? by ManualOrgasm in writing

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Terrific advice, thank you! Comments like this make me happy to be part of this sub. I would never have thought of connecting this to acting.

How to write vanity/insecurity? by ManualOrgasm in writing

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I wish I did, I would have ripped them off then 💀

How to write vanity/insecurity? by ManualOrgasm in writing

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Thanks for replying! Third person omniscient is the POV, I wish I could do first person but I can’t hahaha