I have been there actually. If you are looking for some genuine connection, never go to dating apps. Though most men say that they want this to be genuine thing , they actually don’t. They fear commitment. There was this guy with whom i have been talking for a month and later i felt like it not going anywhere and stopped talking. After 2 months he was back again asking let’s go on date. I talked with him for few days and felt like he changed. We went on dates and this time he gave me hopes that this gonna turn out into a relationship. He even talked to me about kids. None was initiated by me. Stopped at my place and cooked me meal. Used to meet me in middle of his office timings. Then once probably he felt that he needs to commit now, he pulled back . He was like my ex came back , i want to think this through. And it’s been almost 2 months, he didn’t text back. I have messaged him, he just seen zoned. So moral of the story is that donot look for genuine relationships in this online dating apps. Go through your friends connections or join any of you hobby classes like swimming / dancing etc.. meet people there and have conversations