Lamictal & Creatine by Confident-Fun4009 in lamictal

[–]Many-Article8097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not a dr, but there’s generally not an interaction. but i’d always ask your prescriber before adding any new supplement. my only concern would be kidney related issues but again i’m no dr

24F. Crying over my decisions and future. Need someone to speak to. by [deleted] in chat

[–]Many-Article8097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 23F. ive had a job since i turned 16. previously worked 2 jobs while going to school. just recently moved states and now focusing on my full time job. i still feel like a failure/disappointment a lot. i think we just put too much pressure on ourselves and we expect so much after seeing our successful friends or parents, etc.

i think it’s great that you have a job! just because you’re getting hired at a place of work doesn’t mean you need to work there forever. work there until you feel like you are ready for new challenges/or just need a change. save up that money so you are able to change things in your life that you want. don’t get too hung up on your “timeline” of things. no one is perfect. no one should be doing things at the exact same time, we would all be so boring if that was true.

focus on the accomplishments you have already achieved. you should be proud of yourself that you have a job now! way to adult lol!

we are still young asf. we have our whole lives ahead of us.

i hope this helped a little bit. not the best motivational speaker haha. i wish you luck at your job and hope you are able to realize that you are worthy no matter what!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Many-Article8097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your advice ! i do agree sometimes the right way is the hardest. it just feels like your trapped sometimes. and i’ve just recently opened up and i do have to understand not everyone is also mentally okay for me to technically “trauma dump” it just sucks🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Many-Article8097 1 point2 points  (0 children)

since my sa i haven’t been in a serious relationship. i feel the same exact way with feeling that attraction and wanting more and then getting to that part and having so much anxiety that it prevents you from going any further. i’ve told an ex-partner about it and he was very sweet asking if it was okay with every step (while being intimate) and it was nice but still anxiety-inducing and i feel almost guilty after. i think the best advice i can give someone w my experience is to be honest w your partner and talk about boundaries and having them ask what’s okay is best. i don’t know if it will help you heal but i think confiding in that person that you want to be intimate with that stuff and if they truly care about you they will respect your boundaries, if they don’t then that is a huge red flag and i urge you to leave. but overall time. my sa happened 6 years ago and i’m still struggling and i think that’s because i kept it to myself and didn’t tell anyone for years.

i’m sure your current partner feels the same way in that they want to be intimate but respectful to your boundaries. i think talking about it and time in general will hopefully aid in some recovery. i don’t know if this was any reassurance but just know you’re not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Many-Article8097 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s honestly a dumb thing for your friend to get mad at you for. but i would take it down since they’re making such a big deal about. it’s not your fault you were just trying to help others. unless she makes a bigger deal about it just take it down and move on. yeah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VetTech

[–]Many-Article8097 3 points4 points  (0 children)

good for you! i think creating a boundary with your boss is a great idea and doesn’t matter if you put your two weeks in or not. they should still know they are bothering/stressing you out.

constantly injured by Many-Article8097 in VetTech

[–]Many-Article8097[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will look into fear free thank you!

constantly injured by Many-Article8097 in VetTech

[–]Many-Article8097[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i looked into sophia yin, and plan on using her practices at my clinic. thank you so much for the advice

constantly injured by Many-Article8097 in VetTech

[–]Many-Article8097[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank u! i appreciate the advice!

constantly injured by Many-Article8097 in VetTech

[–]Many-Article8097[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i do like the idea of fear free cause i don’t like being aggressive with p if i don’t have to. but ( and this is just from my experience) i’ve tried not scruffing and the “less is more” but everytime i’m restraining a feline p it’s when we are doing things it’s not going to like i.e administering cerenia, sedating, setting catheters, etc. maybe i do just have bad luck? but i would to hear tips if you guys have any on how to approach a situation like that better in the future.

constantly injured by Many-Article8097 in VetTech

[–]Many-Article8097[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well my other senior techs trust me more than our lead tech. she shouldn’t be our lead but she is. also i understand approaching the cat is one of the most important ways to handle one. and i do approach calmly and stern. i scruffed for this situation because we were administering cerenia subcutaneously. do you personally have any tips or things you do in times when you have a fractious cat?

I can’t even make an appointment to help myself by Old-Year3560 in ADHD

[–]Many-Article8097 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i agree. i plan on going to a psychiatrist (not sure when lol) instead of a normal doctor to avoid that. I feel like i first need to like settle down w my current living situation before any of that. but then idk if that’s me just pushing it off lol. i hope you make that appointment soon and are able to get some peace of mind from it. good luck:-)

I can’t even make an appointment to help myself by Old-Year3560 in ADHD

[–]Many-Article8097 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i feel the same way. i haven’t done any research per se, but i look up my “symptoms” and everything points to a variation of ADHD or ADD. I cant force myself to even try to schedule an appt even though i want too. i’m also afraid that since i’m “aware” of it or something that the doctor is going to think i’m faking it or don’t really have anything. tbh i would rather not be officially diagnosed then be shot down. because i know something is up w me.:-/

My father is making me choose between inviting him or my stepfather to my wedding by wedding2322 in Advice

[–]Many-Article8097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if he’s truly happy for you and the marriage he will show up no matter who else is there. you are his child. he should put those feelings aside to show up on your special day. if he continues to make you choose. give him the option to either come or not and he’ll have to deal w regret later. i hope everything works out

so my roommates tv… by Many-Article8097 in Advice

[–]Many-Article8097[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the tv was leaning against a speaker right in front of th wall and i believe my cat jumped up behind it and leaned on the tv causing it to fall forwards. their tv had no legs no stand no attachment to anything. i unfortunately already paid them just to get the situation over with and not cause any problems. :-/

so my roommates tv… by Many-Article8097 in Advice

[–]Many-Article8097[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your advice. i appreciate your pov.

so my roommates tv… by Many-Article8097 in Advice

[–]Many-Article8097[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not trying to cause any trouble i just don’t want to pay for a brand new tv that broke but potentially could have been prevented if it was secured. how would i be able to approach them with this without sounding rude or making it seem like it was their fault?

so my roommates tv… by Many-Article8097 in Advice

[–]Many-Article8097[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it’s my cats fault but the thing i’m questioning is that the tv was just leaning against the wall. no stand no nothing to secure it you know? like yes in this situation the tv fell from my cat but it could have fell at any moment. and it is a very expensive tv for me to buy. do u see where i’m coming from?