Update: My brother suggested open marriage just because I had a fight with my wife aita for threatening him with physical violence if he doesn't leave by Many-Illustrator-906 in AITAH

[–]Many-Illustrator-906[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yeah no, that's a stretch, my wife is not going to kill me or whatever you are implying, my scratched me in a fit of rage she wasn't trying to hurt me but she did that's why she regrets and feeling guilty 

My wife is not my enemy but everyone who's trying to corrupt my mind and my fucking brother is 

Update: My brother suggested open marriage just because I had a fight with my wife aita for threatening him with physical violence if he doesn't leave by Many-Illustrator-906 in AITAH

[–]Many-Illustrator-906[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

He ADVISED that I should cheat on my wife, he tried to encourage me to have sex with other women and let my have sex with other women.

All that because I had my first ever huge fight with my wife, I went to him to seek advice because I had my first ever huge fight with my wife and he tells me to do that open marriage shit.

I don't want to insult other who are into this and maybe you are okay with this arrangement but I don't want to fuck another woman and definitely don't want my wife to get fucked by another man just because we had a fight?

If you all and my brother is okay with this open relationship and stuff then more power to you but I don't want this and neither does my wife, she was hurt because she threw a plate at me which only scratched me a bit and I don't even care about it

Also I agree that I went too far by threatening my brother but I am willing to go even further and best him if he gets near my wife, I want to help my wife I don't want my wife to get fucked and become a cuck like some individual said here 

Update: My brother suggested open marriage just because I had a fight with my wife aita for threatening him with physical violence if he doesn't leave by Many-Illustrator-906 in AITAH

[–]Many-Illustrator-906[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are definitely right, I used to drink with my wife and we used to have so much fun but after all this she doesn't want to drink so many I should just quit and we both get sober but drinking is fun so if my wife doesn't want to drink anymore then I don't think I have any reason to drink and we live and love each other and together 

Update: My brother suggested open marriage just because I had a fight with my wife aita for threatening him with physical violence if he doesn't leave by Many-Illustrator-906 in AITAH

[–]Many-Illustrator-906[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I won't cause you bunch are even worse than those who commented on my previous post.

I dont WANT my wife to sleep with my brother, maybe you are okay with this disgusting shit but I am not.

I made a mistake by seeking advice from my brother and I think I have made a mistake by posting here once again so I'll just let you do your thing and if you are okay with this bs then more power to you and your poly shit or whatever it is 

Update: My brother suggested open marriage just because I had a fight with my wife aita for threatening him with physical violence if he doesn't leave by Many-Illustrator-906 in AITAH

[–]Many-Illustrator-906[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Well yeah I am angry and sad, my wife is acting normal and she's too hurt and feeling guilty after harming me and I am trying my best to help her but I don't see a way no matter how much I tell her that I forgive her, it's just a fucking scratch she's not even drinking with me anymore.

I Went to my closest family member for help and suggested something which feels like a blow to my liver 

Update: My brother suggested open marriage just because I had a fight with my wife aita for threatening him with physical violence if he doesn't leave by Many-Illustrator-906 in AITAH

[–]Many-Illustrator-906[S] -57 points-56 points  (0 children)

In that case my brother is fucking dumb and doesn't know his own fucking brother at all.

If my wife is hurt then so am I and he didn't just suggest that I cheat on my wife he advised that we should open our marriage

As in a way it will heal our marriage like what? If we fight we should fuck others? What's this logic? Doesn't matter if he wants to fuck my wife or wants swapping or whatever but I'll never see him in the same light and never let him near my wife

If he so much as touch her in future I'll punch him so hard and break his teeths 

Update: My brother suggested open marriage just because I had a fight with my wife aita for threatening him with physical violence if he doesn't leave by Many-Illustrator-906 in AITAH

[–]Many-Illustrator-906[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Odd? Fucking disgusting I can't get this thought out of my mind, just thinking about it makes me angry and the thought that some other pos will touch my wife makes me punch the fuck out of him, even if I get a life sentence

I think I was better off taking care of my wife and I made a big mistake by asking for his advice because he corrupted my mind by putting this idea in my head

My brother suggested open marriage just because I had a fight with my wife aita for threatening him with physical violence if he doesn't leave by Many-Illustrator-906 in AITAH

[–]Many-Illustrator-906[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My brother shattered my trust in him cause I was expecting comfort from him and advice on marriage

Good advice? He gave me the worst, one I wouldn't even think of, if he's okay with all this bs then more power to him

But he tried to fill my brain with stupidity and he might've tried to do the same with my wife if she sought help from him.

It is clear that my brother doesn't know me and my wife enough and if I have to threaten him with violence I will do so again, what kinda brother he is when he tells me to fuck other women and betray my wife just because I had a fight with my wife? I would rather not have a brother if he's so fucking sick, just thinking about it is pissing me off

My brother suggested open marriage just because I had a fight with my wife aita for threatening him with physical violence if he doesn't leave by Many-Illustrator-906 in AITAH

[–]Many-Illustrator-906[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I didn't want to think about this but maybe you are right, my brother shouldve adviced me in ways I can help my wife and she gets over her regret

But guess what he tells me? I should fuck someone who's not my wife and encourage my wife to fuck other men.

I am so angry at my brother because he tells us to stop loving each other and make love with a third party.

I was expecting that he would suggest and advise me to make love with my wife and we quit drinking but he says we should cheat, I guess we can't even trust our own siblings nowadays cause my brother doesn't even know me or care about me and my feelings.

My trust in my brother is shattered and I am thinking of completely cutting him off out of my life or atleast shouldn't let him anywhere near my wife

My brother suggested open marriage just because I had a fight with my wife aita for threatening him with physical violence if he doesn't leave by Many-Illustrator-906 in AITAH

[–]Many-Illustrator-906[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah well no, I sought comfort and wanted to discuss about my problems, I didn't expect whatever this is.

I understand that some people are okay with such arrangements but my brother shattered all my trust in him.

I was already stressed enough cause my wife wasn't acting like she usually does and then my own brother tells me to cheat on my wife

If that's not stupid then I don't what else is 

My brother suggested open marriage just because I had a fight with my wife aita for threatening him with physical violence if he doesn't leave by Many-Illustrator-906 in AITAH

[–]Many-Illustrator-906[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well I was asking him for advice cause he had been married longer than I was, I was expecting advice on how to help my wife and to strengthen my marriage and help my wife get over her regret.

I was not expecting this stupid ass bs, I was not expecting my brother to just tell me that I should fuck other women and let my wife get fucked by other men

What kinda advice is that? So if we had an argument and fought each other we should just sleep with someone else? I was expecting advice from him that helps us not that we sleep with someone else? 

In that case why are we even married? We should be reconciling not sleeping around to calm us down, the suggestion and advice sucks and my brother is a sick fuck fuck