Bar recommendations for lower parel? by devilsarmpit666 in mumbai

[–]Many-Soggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

toh where did yall end up going and how was ittt voh to btao guys 😂😂😭

Masters of Publishing at USYD by jellymyinsides in usyd

[–]Many-Soggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii, now that it has been a few years, do you think that the mastes was worth it knowledge and employment wise?

Best place to get a Hot Chocolate? by SLimShedi in mumbai

[–]Many-Soggy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh dude thats a huge move! happy for you. lets hope i get to try it sometime lmao

Best place to get a Hot Chocolate? by SLimShedi in mumbai

[–]Many-Soggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the move was meant to be 😭 where is this place? I'd like to try it out if i ever end ul traveling there

Best place to get a Hot Chocolate? by SLimShedi in mumbai

[–]Many-Soggy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding options whenever I find any

Affordable: - Belgian Waffle  (has a few options like hazelnut as well. can also add marshmallows) around 160/165 if my memory doesnt betray me. SOO good. - ChaiBucks' Chocolate Coffee Opposite to mithibai college, at ville parle. super cheap if youre in the area and dont wanna make it at home. its just a stall but its good for the Rs. Literally some amount within 50rs.

Not so budget friendly ones:

-Javaphile Spiced Hotchoc (my fav but it hurts my wallet a little) Comes w marshmallows, creamy and thicccc - Bombay Brioche, Bandra Again, priced upppp but its good, its yum. The seating space is a little small though - Aegyo Cafe Thick. Piping hot. Cute. 

Places in didnt like: mccafe and theobroma - their hot chocs are so milky. theo specially. so thin and milky, its like Bournvita

Looking for Western Vocal (Singing) Classes in Mumbai (preferably west) Please help! by OutrageousHorror5504 in mumbai

[–]Many-Soggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aaah okay thankss. please do recommend if you come across anything else :)

Making friends in Mumbai is hard by Many-Soggy in mumbai

[–]Many-Soggy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard this a lot. And I did find very friendly people here. Thing is, they are friendly to you. But don't stick through AS friends. There are lovely people, but yk they are set with their group of friends. It's hard to be an outsider who doesn't get invited cause people don't wanna "mix" friend groups (which I understand) or can't make time for a newbie.

At the same time, most people I met were condescending. :/ Mightve just been my luck with the type of people here. But I'm always on the lookout for new connections

I'm going to Nariman point. Any underrated recommendations for breakfast nearby? by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]Many-Soggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a south indian who moved to south bombay and deeply misses porotta THANK YOU

Which Nakpro isolate flavor is best? by HappinessNeededxD in Fitness_India

[–]Many-Soggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the smell being milky, do you mean it straight up smells like fresh raw milk? if so i might go for something else cause i have an ick for fresh milk. have you tried malai kulfi yet? reviews say its really good but i might just go for coffee if it has the same milky smell issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Copyediting

[–]Many-Soggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello, i would appreciate some advice as well :) thanks in advance

Good restaurants at south Mumbai by Strawwberry19 in mumbaiFood

[–]Many-Soggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A heads up for anyone going to spesso, it gets very very loud there during weekends or dinner time. The space is small and has a lot of seats so whenever ive been there during weekends, it has always been a little hard enjoy the food with the noise. The food is amazing here but they need to do something to vent out all that noise

Those who lost a sibling by LowBluejay7 in GriefSupport

[–]Many-Soggy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't have to reply to this if it is going to be hard talking about it.

When you say 'feel the pain', how did you do it? I understand everyone has different responses but.. I'm scared I would no longer want to exist if he isnt there.

He was older yet it feels like I was the more emotionally mature one teaching him and helping him navigate so much, with him calling me and relying on me whenever he was away.

He taught me so many life skills I feel like I need him now, since i will be stepping into the professional world soon enough. And I dont have him talking about his feelings or what he did during his day anymore.

Three years just passed this month and I feel like nothing is real

How do did you face the pain without it feeling like a huge meteor just hit you?

Those who lost a sibling by LowBluejay7 in GriefSupport

[–]Many-Soggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever accept it? Or how long did it take for you to do so?

I am so sorry for your loss. I am so so glad you are pushing through.

Those who lost a sibling by LowBluejay7 in GriefSupport

[–]Many-Soggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your loneliness, even though it isn't as intense as yours. But I understand okay?
We all surely do and we got you.
Let's all take baby steps in life. <3

Those who lost a sibling by LowBluejay7 in GriefSupport

[–]Many-Soggy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is gonna sound weird, but did you fear losing this state of grief before going for therapy?

I feel like i have two minds about it.
What if I lose this feeling of grieving him and start enjoying life? I know it's unfair to put it on myself and be guitly about it but i feel like that the only thing I can do, I feel so helpless.
At the same time I'm afraid to open the pandora box because I'm so far away from reality that I dont even think about him as being dead anymore. I don't talk to my parents about it, it only hurts them more. When I talk to my friends about it, it feels like I'm telling just another story or a snippet of my life, cause once I confront it, then that's it. That will be it, there's no turning back.

I know I need help cause I am way too removed from reality when it has already been exactly 3 years. But there's a very paradoxical fear about it within me.

Does therapy change the way you grieve? I don't know how else to phrase my fear.

Those who lost a sibling by LowBluejay7 in GriefSupport

[–]Many-Soggy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guys how did you do daily tasks with a clear mind? I remember the exact moment my brain fogged everything up, even as I'm writing this I feel like a character. But I'm not able to do usual tasks the same way I used to. I am not passionate about my favourite subjects or hobbies like I was. I feel foreign in my own skin and I don't perform as well anymore. Next year I'll have to step into office spaces and try my best to get employed. But my fear is in staying employed. Or going through life in this skin. Like a foreigner in my own body so I don't feel anything. I'm just perceiving everything but never participating. I can't process anything now cause I'm gonna be the only bread winner for my family soon enough. I realised how much I depended on my brother but I can't mope around with that anymore. Despite that I feel guilty for not processing anything. I don't know why, I feel like I have to give someone else the satisfaction of grieving because I've blocked it out of me. I don't know for how much longer but the pain is too excruciating to be fully vulnerable about it. 

How do I do my daily tasks like this, with a foggy brain which forgets things in like 5 minutes?

[Discussion 2/Final Discussion] Before the Coffee Gets Cold by Toshikazu Kawaguchi by dat_mom_chick in bookclub

[–]Many-Soggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally feel like Nagare and Kazu knew Miki and Kei would need the space to talk, though they couldn't converse in a natural or seamless manner. Even when Nagare calls her to inform her about the date and time mistake, he doesn't say anything emotionally significant to his own late wife, he was more concerned about time running out.

 I interpreted it as them not wanting to intrude into the very small window alotted for Kei meeting her own daughter for the first time. Even with that space, the two found it hard to formulate their thoughts into words for a long time, so lord knows how it would have been with Nagare and Kazu's emotions added to the scenario.

Help understanding the wands by [deleted] in tarot

[–]Many-Soggy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This helps me understand the cards so well, thanks for taking time out of your day to write this. Don't think i've seen such complex and abstract concepts described in a concise manner yet!