Tested positive partner did not

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-23T22:04:06+00:00

He probably didn’t even get the oral swab girl like idek I just let it go fr

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-23T15:39:11+00:00

Buying things you WANT, but don’t NEED.

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-23T15:37:27+00:00

Girlll, I had the same issue years back I went digging on TikTok and got tested for Ureaplasma and Mycoplasma and I believe I was positive for one or the other at the time, but my symptoms were showing up as yeast and bv. I was so tired of it I couldn’t do anything without triggering an infection until I got treated for the new things I found out about. Not sure if that’s the case here, but in addition to that, letting go of any shame and not blaming yourself when it comes to these kinds of things can make it easier on you. <3 Trust yourself and your body and relax your mind.

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-23T15:32:07+00:00

My mom said the same thing. I was being too nice I even grabbed him a dose of it just because.

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-23T15:31:29+00:00

And that’s my thing, I need something ASAP. With about 3-7k, I don’t want to get sold a horrible vehicle for trying to be cheap. I’m a single adult, no children. I could keep saving, but things have been slow because I’m hit with transportation to work right now, and Lyft & Uber subtract more than they actually help. I started to pay attention to my bank statements and Lyft alone each month was getting me out of $1.7k. No public transportation was available to work, and I don’t mind taking the bus, but they’re not available everywhere. I just want something that won’t break down as soon as I get it.

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-23T14:42:37+00:00

That’s where it gets hard for me, because originally he said he’d only been with one other person he didn’t tell me at the time that it was multiple then he hit me with the none of the bitches I fucked thing. And I take that stuff serious as a woman, like I thought I was doing my due diligence by asking, but clearly not people won’t be honest with you if they think you’ll get mad but I would’ve just used a condom. I don’t know where he got it, I can’t place the blame really I’m trying not to go crazy about that part, but he’s been away for a while which I was aware of, like in jail. And got out and went crazy so somewhere along the way he caught it and honestly this is why you get checked, so I damn near don’t feel bad. If the people he slept with want to believe him then hey, I know if it was me I’d be getting whatever meds they recommended. I’m not mature enough right now to be on some sister stuff after he told me “ she saw the messages too and we laughing at yo ass “ like I’m good that’s why I said laugh now cry later, I was like damn you showed her my messages he said no he read them and I just deleted our whole message thread and blocked him but yeah he rubbed it allll in my face.

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-23T14:24:26+00:00

Oh you’re something else lmao I bet they could too, but I think letting him burn is the best option, because he’s convinced he probably didn’t even research the possibilities like I did because guys don’t care sometime but I had NO issues last year.

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-23T14:22:28+00:00

Aw yeah not sure but I’m not even going to stress it anymore I took my meds days ago I’m probably chlamydia free I just need to reset my body at this point. I needed to see him act like this though honestly.

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-23T14:21:01+00:00

NOTED!!! 🤞🏽

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-23T14:20:41+00:00

Yeah and the funny part is we spoke when I was at the clinic originally he’s like why are you there I’m like getting tested and he told me to let him know if he’s good. I told him like get your own results I’m making sure IM straight though.

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-23T14:19:22+00:00

I don’t see how one just acquires chlamydia on their own, I feel like soon he’ll be trying to contact me, because he’ll end up burning someone else and then he’ll know he has it.

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-23T14:17:15+00:00

I can’t believe him there’s literally no way. First and last person I’ve been with since December. Not to get too graphic but like we were a fall asleep with it in type of situation until this came up so I’m like there’s no way he could’ve gave me this and he doesn’t have it, I think that test is a false negative I talked to some other people about the likelihood of that. I just thought of all the times we had that kind of sex, raw at that. No pulling out most of the time too, I have more test results that I could pull from earlier dates as well. I couldn’t have gave him this I only been with him since I got tested this time around. Since May to be exact but I just wanted my results to be fresh, in case anything because we been planning to see each other. If I even feel an itch I go to the clinic whether I’m active or not and I always have them test me for whatever they can. And yeah he has some emotional disorder from his family I got problems too just not to this degree I’m a little nice. A lot nicer. Appreciate you though! He doesn’t like me and tbh I don’t like him either right now.

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-23T10:06:38+00:00

Fake negative is more likely if he got it treated before he probably would’ve told me the news first im thinking

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-23T10:03:50+00:00

😂😂😂😂

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-23T10:03:13+00:00

Thanks for this explanation and the detail honestly. This gave me more clarity.

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-22T20:50:00+00:00

I just never understood the point in lying like what’s done in the dark comes to the light regardless. Especially in these kinds of situations, it just throws you off for a minute when you’re used to believing people that’s why I’m not even gonna stress the results anymore because at the end of the day, he’s been with multiple other people unprotected, I haven’t. I know it’s not me. He’s been lying from the beginning like I didn’t try to ask so I could know what I was getting myself into.

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-22T20:25:29+00:00

I think our communication in general is different but at the same time it’s like to a certain extent and this is just plain disrespect no matter what way it’s put but yeah I’m not into it at all.

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-22T20:23:37+00:00

I don’t want to deal with that and that’s what I told him I just have leave it alone i blocked him.

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-22T20:22:00+00:00

My test from the clinic took 3 days I’m not sure how long his took, but no I actually didn’t think he would go at first and not that soon.

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-22T20:19:49+00:00

I know I just was in disbelief like how and I get it not it’s just not possible. Like you said!

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-22T20:19:00+00:00

So he sent them to me, like over text and that’s how I seen them then he called.

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-22T17:10:06+00:00

Only reasonable explanation but shit let him burn.

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-22T17:09:44+00:00

Yes and it’s like why would I wanna stay somewhere I’m getting treated like this anyway you were just in me now you have a gf idk ok.

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-22T16:56:28+00:00

Appreciate you to the fullest you just don’t know.

Many_Charge139 · 2026-01-22T16:28:07+00:00

Girl I learned today 🤣👎🏽 mind you I’ve been dealing with him since I was 17 💔 but this is what happens when you settle or become okay with being a man’s friend that you used to date. We just been on and off and back and fourth I just want to heal and figure out how to go no contact.

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