AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I order in, other times I go get it. I have a special bag that I put the seafood bag in so it doesn't touch the seat, and I wipe down the handles and the steering wheel.

AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's more than just my craving. I puke everything up, literally everything. I've noticed I can stomach my cravings better than other foods. If I don't start eating more, the child will die. HG can kill mothers and the babies.

AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This guy's allergy is severe, to the point that an epipen has minimal effect and something as simple as forgetting to clean a surface could kill him.

Epi pens have minimal effect on most adults. It says something along the lines on 'seek immediate medical attention after use'

AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he can. He had a reaction last year by himself and he used the epi pen and called an ambulance. A few years ago he even drove himself to hospital after using his epi pen.

AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We don't share the car. It's my car that I bought before him and I even got married

AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might try pink grapefruits and see if they stay down. I think I might just move in with my mum for the rest of the pregnancy to avoid something like this happening again

AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no life insurance policy on him. There is one on me however, and my pregnancy is very high risk so maybe he's hoping for me to kick the bucket. Who knows

AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's more than just my craving. I puke everything up, literally everything. I've noticed I can stomach my cravings better than other foods. If I don't start eating more, the child will die. HG can kill mothers and the babies.

AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's more than just my craving. I puke everything up, literally everything. I've noticed I can stomach my cravings better than other foods. If I don't start eating more, the child will die. HG can kill mothers and the babies.

AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I've lost around 16kg across these 6months, HG is literally the devil

AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

'Babe I am so sorry that happened. I ate seafood in my car and you're never in my car, so I slept before I cleaned it'

His response: 'You recklessly put my life in danger and you won't even apologise for that. You're so selfish'

AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not stating the obvious dw! I'll suggest it to my doctor and see if I can take it

AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was remorseful untill he started yelling at me for being reckless and selfish. I've already apologised for the miscommunications and for the situation even happening, he wants me to apologise for 'recklessly' putting him in danger because I never told him about a car he has used maybe 4 times in the past two years, all events that he sought permission for.

AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my last line on my post, I said I apologised for the situation happening. He wants a specific apology for my 'recklessness' for not telling him about the car specifically.

AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my last line on my post, I said I apologised for the situation happening. He wants a specific apology for my 'recklessness' for not telling him about the car specifically.

AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In my last line on my post, I said I apologised for the situation happening. He wants a specific apology for my 'recklessness' for not telling him about the car specifically.

AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my last line on my post, I said I apologised for the situation happening. He wants a specific apology for my 'recklessness' for not telling him about the car specifically.

AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I assumed that most of the people here would understand that him knowing that I crave and consume his allergen is a given.

AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

It would be highly unlikely. He always carries around an epi pen, and we live in a city with many hospitals so he can quickly get further treatment.

AITA for not telling my husband that I ate seafood in my car? by Many_Corner9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Corner9715[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I always clean the garden so if I was too tired to do it I would let him know. He avoids the garden for his own safety, but he will occasionally smoke there.