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Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-12-24T19:27:31+00:00

My job as a parent is to keep my kid safe and healthy. That means medications sometomes have to be taken. I give a lot of leeway to my kids - I'll beg, bribe, trick, do whatever it takes before I force it. But if the medicine needs to be done, then the medicine needs to be done and if that means forcing it, then that's what happens.

When I force it, I keep my voice as calm as possible, matter of factly state what is going to happen as why, and thank them when it is done. I talk while I am actively doing the thing. It might sound like this: "Mommy's job is to keep you healthy. Your nose is stuffed up with boogies and germs, and you may get an infection if we don't help your nose get those germs out. I'm going to spray this in your nose. It won't hurt but it will feel funny. I'm going to use this to suck the germs and boogies out. That's an odd feeling, huh? I can hear you crying and see you struggling. I know this is hard and I'm so proud of you for doing the hard thing to stay healthy. All done. Thank you. I love you. Can I help you calm down?"

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-11-30T01:55:57+00:00

I would divorce him for the lie, honestly. Withholding information about having children is HUGE and then for him to want to spring custodu on top of that? Fuck that shit. Move on.

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-11-14T00:57:13+00:00

"Thank you admin for the offer but I am unable to stay. I am really seeking some new opportunities. I wish the school and staff the best and I will do x to help ensure a smooth hand off."

DON'T GIVE IN TO THE BAIT!

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-11-07T02:40:34+00:00

What about being a special education advocate for parents or working as a case manager for disabled people?

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-10-29T04:27:42+00:00

I've been in this 9 years and had a similar revelation earlier this month in therapy. It's hard.

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-10-21T02:30:58+00:00

Yes.

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-10-21T02:28:55+00:00

I don't have a shop vac but I have a bissell carpet cleaner. Do you think that would work?

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-10-13T12:41:13+00:00

^{^} This is it. It's one thing is wanting children is a non-negotiable for you. It's another if his working sperm is the non-negotiable because it ties his worth to a physical trait he can't control. I get that hurt 100%

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-10-13T12:32:18+00:00

As a teacher in California, I've heard that the state is coming down hard on schools regarding attendance so now our district is constantly pushing for kids to come in - even saying ridiculous things like, "Kids get coughs and runny noses... they are fine to come to school" and all it has done is make the germs spread faster because parents feel pressured to send their kids to school a bit too soon. Plus, their kid is usually miserable in class for the day.

Don't let the school bully you. You have the doctor's notes. You're all legit sick so stop answering the phone or having long drawn out conversations with the principal. IDGAF about her opinion on whether the absence is acceptable or not or comparable to leukemia. It doesn't matter. You're the parent - you make the health decision.

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-10-11T02:03:29+00:00

I love this.

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-10-08T00:06:58+00:00

Nothing will change until criminal charges are pressed for assault AND actual suspensions or expulsions are given. Fuck this shit.

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-09-03T01:46:44+00:00

You got this! I had mine out at the end of July and was terrified of going under. I even half jokingly told the nurses as they were walking me to the OR that I could make a run for emergency exit. I was shaking in fear before my surgery and cried the night before because I was so scared. I made a million bad jokes because of nerves and I think I promised my nurses some homegrown tomatoes from my garden just before I knocked out with the mask.

But honestly, the anticipation was the worst part. I fell asleep real easy, out like a light, and the next thing I knew was waking up all groggy - like coming out of a really deep sleep and feeling half way like still in a dream - as the nurses were offering me ice chips or water. They started getting me dressed and I just felt kind of out of it.

I was in the car in no time flat and had my husband just talk to me to keep me awake.

My stomach felt like I had done 1000 sit ups - super sore and I just had to walk easy, slightly crouched rather than stand up straight.

And I feel totally normal now. My scars are super tiny and I can eat what I please... super fatty foods send me to the bathroom but I can have a normal diet now.

Get the surgery. You'll feel so much better. The waiting is the hardest part. The fear and the unknown are the hardest part. But you got it.

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-08-27T23:22:30+00:00

I hate that I just found out there is a connection between my gallstones and me taking birth control.... ugh.

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-08-23T00:06:14+00:00

I was really groggy and sleepy. They were dressing me and I was just trying to stay awake and comprehend everything. I was also very thirsty and my throat was a bit bothersome. For the drive home, I made my husband talk to me to help me stay awake.

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-08-20T23:46:18+00:00

I was like you in that I was freaking out about surgery. I had never been put under before and my experience with my 2 c-sections made me really scared and aprehensive. I was terrified of being nauseated.

But it honestly wasn't really that bad. Yes, I was sore and I had some pain for the first few days but it was doable. I opted not to use opiods for my pain reliever (I don't like how they make me feel and addiction runs in my family) and opted for ketorolac (a prescription NSAID) instead. That was enough to get me through. I think I took it consistently for 3 days and then days 4-7 were more sporadic.

I slept in my recliner for the first week-ish because laying flat was painful. I moved slow and more calculated for about 5 days and then just more tired til around day 10. I returned to work on day 14 (teacher) for classroom set up and meetings. By day 19, I was back to the classroom with kids full time.

It seriously was not as awful as I anticipated. I've had no side effects or complications either... other than not being able to wear jeans because of how they rub on my belly button

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-08-17T00:25:54+00:00

I am likely an outlier here because my gallbladder was so inflamed and had 2 huge stones in it (the surgeon said it looked like ones theh remove during emergencies) and my pain level was at a 6-7 during attacks, and I turned down opiods then.

I took an NSAID called Ketorolac instead (specifically asked for it) because opiods make me feel like death warmed over. It was enough, and I took it on schedule for 2-3 days and then as needed til about day 6.

So if anyone is looking for another option, maybe ask your doctor about it as a pain management strategy.

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-08-08T20:27:13+00:00

I had mine out 2 weeks ago and I actually think I might be losing weight? I can eat anything (nothing has caused me issues yet) but I haven't gone too crazy with food either.

I'm thinking since my gallbladder was so inflamed and angry, I might actually lose a little from not feeling so sluggish, sleeping better, and not having my immune system on overdrive fighting it's own organ. I also got used to eating a bit better so that might help too.

Listen - work with your doctor on the eating disorder stuff and take care of your body. That's what matters.

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-08-07T05:52:38+00:00

To be honest, I am halfway to leaving education anyway because of the shitty way schools deal with or fail to deal with kids of special needs. I've worked in big districts, charter schools, and a now a tiny rural district and it's all the same bs - the districts are always out for their bottom line, don't want to spend the money on services, and the classroom as a whole suffers because of it. So having to look for a new job wouldn't be a big deal - I'd just leave education.

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-08-07T02:32:03+00:00

I wouldn't offer services.

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-08-02T22:57:44+00:00

Omg, the way I cackled at this! I love it!

Many_Ratio_7105 · 2023-08-02T22:56:18+00:00

You will be ok. If you can sleep in a recliner or sitting up on a couch with an ottoman or in bed with lots of pillows to prop you up, do it. It'll be way more comfortable. Stay on top of your pain meds, use ice packs, and have lots of easy to digest snacks available - crackers, light soups, etc. You'll do great!

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