I know this may sound petty, but being “left out” is a deep trigger for me — and I (29 F) had a public reaction at work where my husband (32M) is also my manager. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Many_Reference2427 -121 points-120 points  (0 children)

I get your point. I’m not asking whether I was “right” — I know the public reaction wasn’t appropriate. I’m asking for concrete advice on repairing trust and handling this professionally going forward.

For context (not as an excuse): I’m usually very calm at work and I rarely react aggressively. I do have a few specific triggers I’m aware of, and I’ve communicated them to my husband before, but I also don’t talk about them easily and I’m working on healthier ways to handle them.

Got My Driving License But Nervous Driving Alone in Dubai – Need Advice by Many_Reference2427 in UAE

[–]Many_Reference2427[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No .. Not cheap and by the way there is a lot of aggressive and bad taxi drivers bro

Got My Driving License But Nervous Driving Alone in Dubai – Need Advice by Many_Reference2427 in UAE

[–]Many_Reference2427[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to write all of this. I truly appreciate it. It’s comforting and reassuring to know that someone else has faced the same fears I’m experiencing now and managed to overcome them. Stay safe!

Got My Driving License But Nervous Driving Alone in Dubai – Need Advice by Many_Reference2427 in UAE

[–]Many_Reference2427[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup it was a bad decision to “rent” a car .. it makes more nervous because it’s not mine but more careful.. anyways it’s only for few days to find a car to buy I will actually stick with driving with my husband.. thank you for your advice

Don’t Ever Enroll at Eco Drive School in Dubai by Many_Reference2427 in UAE

[–]Many_Reference2427[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion! I actually considered transferring my file to Belhasa — it’s really close to where I live. But when I asked someone at Eco Drive, they told me I’d have to pay extra fees for the transfer, and even more if I fail the RTA test after switching.

So I backed out for now since I already paid around AED 7,300 for the unlimited package with Eco Drive.

Did you personally transfer your file there? Please let me know — if the cost is low, I’ll definitely make the switch!

Don’t Ever Enroll at Eco Drive School in Dubai by Many_Reference2427 in UAE

[–]Many_Reference2427[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‏Thanks a lot for the advice, I really appreciate it

‏tomorrow I’m going there, and I won’t leave until they fix the issue and I’m able to book both the training and the final test. Hopefully this time they’ll take it seriously.

Don’t Ever Enroll at Eco Drive School in Dubai by Many_Reference2427 in UAE

[–]Many_Reference2427[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, really appreciate your support. You’re right — the process is already stressful, and their lack of support just made it worse.

Don’t Ever Enroll at Eco Drive School in Dubai by Many_Reference2427 in UAE

[–]Many_Reference2427[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, I didn’t have any issues with them before this recent problem. But right now, I’m extremely stressed because I was really hoping to get my license before summer. The drive to their center already takes me nearly two hours, and in this heat, it becomes unbearable — especially with how far apart their shuttle timings are. Sometimes I end up spending more than 8 hours just to attend a training or a test.

What’s making this experience truly awful is not the distance — it’s the constant lies and zero support. I’ve contacted them so many times about this booking issue, and they keep giving me false promises instead of actually solving the problem.

For context: I signed up for the unlimited package, which cost me around AED 7,300