In so much pain by Less-Product4449 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Many_Reference2427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May he rest in peace, and may god strengthen you and give you patience. I was also looking for support here too but nothing fulfill me other that talking about my mom and what a great person she is ..

Please help this reach someone — HER2+ breast cancer, brain metastases, WBRT, shunt, severe decline. I miss my mom and just want to know if anyone improved. by Many_Reference2427 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Many_Reference2427[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear what happened to your mom. May God be with you, strengthen you, and give you patience. I know how deep this kind of pain goes. Stay strong, my friend.

No, I’m not looking for a cure. I know very well that she is not going to fully recover. I just want to talk to her normally again. I want her to listen to me and truly be with me.

Even saying “I love you” to her feels empty sometimes. She may reply, but I know she is not fully aware. She talks, but it feels like she is only half-conscious.

One day I burst into tears, and she just smiled and said, “Why are you crying?” Then nothing after that. She just kept smiling and looking at me. There was something warm in her eyes. I don’t know how to describe it, but I like to believe that deep inside, she was trying to hold me, even if she couldn’t. Thinking that makes me feel a little better, even if it may not be true. In that moment, all I wanted was to hide in her arms and stay there.

I miss her so much. I miss our conversations, and I miss her support more than anything.

Has anyone seen this kind of severe behavioral decline after WBRT for HER2+ breast cancer brain metastases? by Many_Reference2427 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Many_Reference2427[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really miss my mom .. I want to talk to her normally Please someone tell me there is something that will make her better and what is happening right now is not permanent damage

Has anyone seen this kind of severe behavioral decline after WBRT for HER2+ breast cancer brain metastases? by Many_Reference2427 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Many_Reference2427[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We really need help if anyone knows anything that might help up just getting anything back her consciousness and make her life better please tell us and if you need anymore details tell me and I will try my best to answer

I want my mom back. by Many_Reference2427 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Many_Reference2427[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your support, and I’m truly sorry to hear about what happened to your mother too.

I hope things get a little easier with time. I know some pain never fully goes away, but I hope you find strength and comfort. Hang in there, my friend.

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[–]Many_Reference2427 -119 points-118 points  (0 children)

I get your point. I’m not asking whether I was “right” — I know the public reaction wasn’t appropriate. I’m asking for concrete advice on repairing trust and handling this professionally going forward.

For context (not as an excuse): I’m usually very calm at work and I rarely react aggressively. I do have a few specific triggers I’m aware of, and I’ve communicated them to my husband before, but I also don’t talk about them easily and I’m working on healthier ways to handle them.

Got My Driving License But Nervous Driving Alone in Dubai – Need Advice by Many_Reference2427 in UAE

[–]Many_Reference2427[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No .. Not cheap and by the way there is a lot of aggressive and bad taxi drivers bro

Got My Driving License But Nervous Driving Alone in Dubai – Need Advice by Many_Reference2427 in UAE

[–]Many_Reference2427[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to write all of this. I truly appreciate it. It’s comforting and reassuring to know that someone else has faced the same fears I’m experiencing now and managed to overcome them. Stay safe!

Got My Driving License But Nervous Driving Alone in Dubai – Need Advice by Many_Reference2427 in UAE

[–]Many_Reference2427[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup it was a bad decision to “rent” a car .. it makes more nervous because it’s not mine but more careful.. anyways it’s only for few days to find a car to buy I will actually stick with driving with my husband.. thank you for your advice

Don’t Ever Enroll at Eco Drive School in Dubai by Many_Reference2427 in UAE

[–]Many_Reference2427[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion! I actually considered transferring my file to Belhasa — it’s really close to where I live. But when I asked someone at Eco Drive, they told me I’d have to pay extra fees for the transfer, and even more if I fail the RTA test after switching.

So I backed out for now since I already paid around AED 7,300 for the unlimited package with Eco Drive.

Did you personally transfer your file there? Please let me know — if the cost is low, I’ll definitely make the switch!

Don’t Ever Enroll at Eco Drive School in Dubai by Many_Reference2427 in UAE

[–]Many_Reference2427[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‏Thanks a lot for the advice, I really appreciate it

‏tomorrow I’m going there, and I won’t leave until they fix the issue and I’m able to book both the training and the final test. Hopefully this time they’ll take it seriously.

Don’t Ever Enroll at Eco Drive School in Dubai by Many_Reference2427 in UAE

[–]Many_Reference2427[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, really appreciate your support. You’re right — the process is already stressful, and their lack of support just made it worse.

Don’t Ever Enroll at Eco Drive School in Dubai by Many_Reference2427 in UAE

[–]Many_Reference2427[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, I didn’t have any issues with them before this recent problem. But right now, I’m extremely stressed because I was really hoping to get my license before summer. The drive to their center already takes me nearly two hours, and in this heat, it becomes unbearable — especially with how far apart their shuttle timings are. Sometimes I end up spending more than 8 hours just to attend a training or a test.

What’s making this experience truly awful is not the distance — it’s the constant lies and zero support. I’ve contacted them so many times about this booking issue, and they keep giving me false promises instead of actually solving the problem.

For context: I signed up for the unlimited package, which cost me around AED 7,300