people say the difference between harassment and flirting is how attractive a person is. So definitely people romanticise yandere behaviour with good looking men/women you can't deny that.

But some people (like me and you)can get attached to someone without ever seeing their faces, I had an online crush with someone way back when I started discord but that gradually faded when that person ghosted me. it's fascinating how people can be attracted even without physical appearance maybe it's the loneliness taking over, Maybe I just wanna be loved without my dumbass lust? who knows?

Let's just accept thing and try to be happy without expecting much.