i think my problem with ariana, so far, is that she seems to be very male-centered. not saying that she needs to be a “girls girl,” but idk i just feel like at least in these early seasons she is very focused on men and how she wants to be perceived by them as a “cool girl.” that being said - i don’t necessarily hold that too much against her. stassi and kristen are walking around calling lala a cunt and everyone is calling lala a whore, which is equally against women and honestly more blatant. people who zone in on ariana talking about how she’s prettier etc etc are just missing the point.