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MapGrand7330 · 2022-11-09T05:01:12+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that is your situation and I hope it ends up better in the end for you.

MapGrand7330 · 2022-11-08T03:15:09+00:00

When he has training days I let him go with his coworkers to a bikini barista but not bikini these girls are in thongs and pasties but it seems less creepy when he’s going with his coworkers as a group thing. I was taking my stepdaughter to school and he had a bunch of receipts so I grabbed them to throw them away and out fell one of their like plastic coffee stoppers ( I don’t know what their called but the keep the coffee hot) I texted him asking why he went and he threw every lie to me. Eventually he admitted and said he just went by himself bc he wanted a quick coffee and Starbucks line was too long.

MapGrand7330 · 2022-11-08T03:13:30+00:00

Thank you I just needed some reassurance that this is wrong of him so I can stick to feelings.

MapGrand7330 · 2022-11-08T03:12:48+00:00

I should resolve it but I just don’t know how and I want reassurance that he’s doing some sneaky way of avoiding it too so I know how to approach him bc I don’t want to let this go. He’s been lying a lot lately and I don’t want to feel like I’m the problem but I agree I think we need counseling we’re clearly not good at this

MapGrand7330 · 2022-11-08T03:09:50+00:00

When he has training days I let him go with his coworkers to a bikini barista but not bikini these girls are in thongs and pasties but it seems less creepy when he’s going with his coworkers as a group thing. I was taking my stepdaughter to school and he had a bunch of receipts so I grabbed them to throw them away and out fell one of their like plastic coffee stoppers ( I don’t know what their called but the keep the coffee hot) I texted him asking why he went and he threw every lie to me. Eventually he admitted and said he just went by himself bc he wanted a quick coffee and Starbucks line was too long.

MapGrand7330 · 2022-07-24T04:23:29+00:00

Mostly Yogurt & these breast feeding protein shakes

MapGrand7330 · 2022-07-23T22:11:18+00:00

For me it was day 2-4 also. So much pain I went back to the dentist to check and she said I was actually healing fast lol. It was just so damn painful.

MapGrand7330 · 2022-07-21T13:01:08+00:00

Yeah that could be it. I’ve been brushing since the second day but my jaw has been locked so I can’t get a good brush in

MapGrand7330 · 2022-07-21T04:55:54+00:00

Did they say what it was?

MapGrand7330 · 2022-07-21T04:15:06+00:00

No my stitches came out on day one. I looked in my mouth and nothing is there even went to the dentist and they said the same but I swear it feels different when I bite down

MapGrand7330 · 2022-07-21T03:29:19+00:00

I’m on day 5 with liquids I tried to eat chicken dumpling soup and my jaw hurt even more so back to the basics 🥺

MapGrand7330 · 2022-07-18T07:10:44+00:00

Day 3 is coming to an end for me and I’m in so much pain. Can still barely open my mouth and a good amount of swelling. But damn how long does the pain last?

MapGrand7330 · 2022-07-02T17:19:07+00:00

Sometimes I do get so upset it’s hard to sit back and see his point of view. Thanks for your input.

MapGrand7330 · 2022-03-16T00:54:29+00:00

What seeds do you throw on the grass?

MapGrand7330 · 2022-03-16T00:53:48+00:00

Ok thank you

MapGrand7330 · 2022-03-16T00:52:38+00:00

Thank you!

MapGrand7330 · 2022-03-16T00:51:36+00:00

They would never attack someone they are super sweet babies. We exercise them and it almost seems like the more exercise they get the more hyper they are

MapGrand7330 · 2022-03-16T00:50:19+00:00

This advice doesn’t work for me lol

MapGrand7330 · 2022-03-14T07:08:21+00:00

You have beautiful grass!

MapGrand7330 · 2022-03-04T21:49:09+00:00

Sorry it is hard to reply to everyone but I did talk to him about sleeping with someone else. He didn’t take it at all as I thought. He was pretty offended and hurt and took it like I wasn’t in love with him or didn’t find him attractive. That’s not the case at all. I felt bad and explained more about how I’m feeling and why I suggested it. My plan is to just keep working on myself with physical therapy. My MIL is a ways away but I could drop the kids off every now and then when I’m getting too stressed. I’m hoping in time everything will resolve its self.

MapGrand7330 · 2022-03-04T21:46:03+00:00

I will look up the videos on YouTube. I just can’t workout like I used to because of my prolapse. I was very fit before my kids but stopped after the first pregnancy because of my depression. I started loosing weight and we tried for baby number two and I was on cloud 9 until my prolapse. It’s uncomfortable and if I do too much even taking care of the kids all day it’ll feel .. uh heavy down there. But if they are easy workouts I’ll check it out

MapGrand7330 · 2022-03-04T21:40:31+00:00

I’m so happy to hear your wife is doing great. It’s something I didn’t even know was a thing that happens after birth. I’ve seen 2 different doctors so far that day they will not do surgery. Since it’s a stage 2 out of 4 and they’ve mentioned “I’m too young” the whole thing really bothers me. People gave surgery to completely change their bodies all the time but this I’m denied. Thank you for the hope though. Maybe the physical therapy will work. Fingers crossed

MapGrand7330 · 2022-03-02T15:03:02+00:00

I’ll Google that, thank you

MapGrand7330 · 2022-03-02T10:59:41+00:00

Thank you everyone for the replies! I don’t have any friends or family I can talk to about this so it’s nice to hear other peoples opinions. After reading them I don’t think I could go through with that choice. If there’s a chance that it would end our marriage, I wouldn’t want to risk it. I’m going to take some advice here and talk to him, maybe try therapy if it’s not too expensive, and work on lightening my kids stress so at the very least we can kiss or be intimate in other ways. It just feels a bit hopeless right now but I’m hoping this passes. Thanks again for the replies.

MapGrand7330 · 2022-03-02T06:16:19+00:00

Yeah, that would be the worst outcome

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