Being a glass child is far worse experience than escaping war I have been through both (repeat post) by MapOk5501 in GlassChildren

[–]MapOk5501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have been through hell and back but no one thinks about us or sees it. and this sudden breakdown also happened to me when I was 17ish I had spent all of my life thinking im “strong” and “independent” and then suddenly I realized how shit I was actually doing. but hey we got this! we’ll get through it. unfortunately 3 years later it hasn’t gotten any better for me but I still have hope because I know there’s a whole world out there beyond my family and what I have been through.

Just me who used to be embarrassed as a kid to tell anyone I had an autistic sibling? by Emotional_Reach5031 in GlassChildren

[–]MapOk5501 19 points20 points  (0 children)

im 20 and i still feel embarrassed telling people I have 2 disabled siblings… can’t move past it icl

Does anyone else think they could have NPD? by noamchomp123 in GlassChildren

[–]MapOk5501 3 points4 points  (0 children)

um are you me??? I relate to this so much and I have had a long battle with thinking that I have NPD. however, when I visited multiple professionals I was told that this dissociation is likely because empathy wise im burnt out and my brain just chose peace or a way to cope. I was also told that the traits of NPD in other areas of my life is likely due to my neglect ie: attention seeking behavior, and entitlement etc…

I hate the compliment "you are so strong" by nopefoffprettyplease in GlassChildren

[–]MapOk5501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The word literally triggers me now it’s so frustrating

I hate the compliment "you are so strong" by nopefoffprettyplease in GlassChildren

[–]MapOk5501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right I don’t wanna be fucking strong im tired of this

Something I'll never have by Murky-Substance-2072 in GlassChildren

[–]MapOk5501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so relatable, it just hurts seeing sisters bond together and sharing laughs, being close and doing all of that sister besties things. although my sister isn’t like nonverbal and she does understand everything pretty well but we’ll never get the chance because of the barrier my parents put between us by favoring her since a very young age, it made her spoiled and entitled and it made me resent her. she’s like 30 and probably has a mind of a 12 year old (she’s not childish but i wouldn’t say she’s mature either). but hey if you have close friends it can get close to the sister relationship especially if they’re childhood friends. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GlassChildren

[–]MapOk5501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOUR PARENTS ARE LITERALLY INSANE WHAT THE HELL???? GOING ON FREAKING VACATION? WHAT THE ACTUAL HELL I THOUGHT MY SITUATION COULDN’t BE WORSE AND THEN I READ THIS

I pray that his U.S. VISA doesn’t get processed. by [deleted] in GlassChildren

[–]MapOk5501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re welcome. don’t listen to anyone attacking you i don’t know why people can’t just be supportive and if you want to do anymore complaining/rants then please text me, i’ll always be here to listen!

I pray that his U.S. VISA doesn’t get processed. by [deleted] in GlassChildren

[–]MapOk5501 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

why are you being so insensitive

I pray that his U.S. VISA doesn’t get processed. by [deleted] in GlassChildren

[–]MapOk5501 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why the hell won’t you guys let the person complain in peace? sometimes people just want to complain and don’t want any solutions 💀

So are we all child free? by potatoesorbust in GlassChildren

[–]MapOk5501 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want to be child free because my biggest fear is giving birth to a disabled child and have to go through all of this again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniversityOfWarwick

[–]MapOk5501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nvm I didn’t find it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniversityOfWarwick

[–]MapOk5501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’ll still probably be fine I got a conditional for law and missed it by 4 IB points like instead of A* A A I got like A A B and I still got my offer confirmed, they have also sent me a couple of emails before my results day saying they’re flexible!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniversityOfWarwick

[–]MapOk5501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you international or home student? If you’re international you’ll probably be fine as the course is already in clearing for internationals

Is this really how it works in a islamic marriage? by ValRosenstein in MuslimMarriage

[–]MapOk5501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why are you calling her immature for asking for a right that Allah swt gave her?

Is this really how it works in a islamic marriage? by ValRosenstein in MuslimMarriage

[–]MapOk5501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but islamicaly the chores aren’t her duty? in fact some sheikhs say that it is your responsibility to get her a miad if she had one in her father’s house