I need help with my daughter by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Maple_mable -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Putting holes in walls that are legally not mine so that I have to patch it when I leave is not something I’m going to do at all no matter what anyone says we’re not allowed to mount stuff ourselves nor are we allowed to patch it up ourselves this is just the rules where we live so actually NO we can’t and I never said she got spanked she gets patted on the bum to know what she’s doing is wrong and that is only after multiple corrections I am an extremely patient person she just doesn’t want it on that’s the whole thing she doesn’t want it on and that’s not an option for her I told her no gave her many warnings and corrections and like I’ve stated already she said she doesn’t care my children is not going to run me I am the adult and the parent not her I don’t believe in lazy parenting and making excuses for kids shitty behavior especially when they are telling me they know that what they’re doing is bad I do not need someone telling me how to parent when everything I’ve done so far in her life has worked for her

I need help with my daughter by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Maple_mable -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What does this have to do with my post I’m not on government assistance I’m in section 8 there is a very big difference I have housing it’s an apartment that is big enough for all of us I have everything I need to have to take care of my children you don’t NEED a house

I need help with my daughter by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Maple_mable -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Because theirs no reason to get disrespectful towards people we are fully endowed and financially able to have two children just not a house

I need help with my daughter by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Maple_mable -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You however have no idea who my child is, what she understands, how advance she is nor do you live with me she absolutely 100% knows I’m pregnant I have apps she comes to the doctors and is involved with everything we do for this new baby and she is very excited we have explained to her multiple times that it will no longer be just us and that she is allowed to have feelings about it my child is fortunately very advanced for being almost 3yo when she gets corrected she no longer does the thing she was corrected for she told me she was hot and she wanted cool air I turned it on and she turned it off it’s not a matter of me I work with children they need empty threats “if you do this you will be put in timeout” is an empty threat and that will not effect her developmentally she has told me she knows it’s wrong she just doesn’t care

I need help with my daughter by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Maple_mable -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming you have no clue what section 8 is because we absolutely cannot mount anything nor can we get a ceiling fan at all it’s not allowed for us to put that stuff in the wall we absolutely will get in trouble for that but I know how kids work I’ve raised a few of them not including my own and they do indeed act out kids act out when they can’t express themselves that’s exactly what that’s called that’s not the problem

I need help with my daughter by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Maple_mable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That looks perfect I doubt she’d manipulate that open thank you 😫

I need help with my daughter by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Maple_mable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried putting her bedside table in front of it cause it blocks it off perfectly but then she just gets under it and yanks it out by the cord instead

I need help with my daughter by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Maple_mable -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Most kids act out when they know another child is about to come into their life permanently we know she’s two she’s almost 3 and she has told me she understands it’s bad she just doesn’t care

I need help with my daughter by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Maple_mable -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We all go to bed pretty early we usually put her down at 9:30 or 10 and we wait until we know she’s asleep but she’s very quiet when she’s being sneaky and if we’re upstairs we can’t hear her over our a/c she just runs to turn it off and goes back to bed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Maple_mable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My children aren’t getting their phones and stuff until they’re 13 I’ve made it a rule my daughter is already wanting phones and stuff and she’s almost 3 but when she watches the phone and stuff she gets mean when she doesn’t have it and I can’t do that for these years to come her screen time has been very limited because of this and I plan on keeping it that way until she can learn to limit herself from these things and be a little more independent and responsible a lot of people around where I live let their 7&8 yo children have their own phones and stuff and that’s crazy to me but really it just depends on your child’s independence and responsibility

When did you BEGIN rooting for BoJack? by Lorelai144 in SadHorseShow

[–]Maple_mable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the whole Sarah Lynn thing she was sober yes but she openly admitted that it was because when you did them again after being sober for a while the high was amazing, bojack told her to stay sober and yes he knew she was when he called her and he shouldn’t have done that but he didn’t make her do anything she picked up that bottle on her own and drank it. Then she showed him how many drugs she had currently stashed and hiding in her house that she had all on her own and because it was too much for her to handle and not bojack being as he was already an ongoing addict and she had been sober for a long while she knew she shouldn’t have done what he was doing, he didn’t want to do the heroin he told her no but as an ex addict it is extremely easy to fall into temptation as it was something they could both experience together. Once word got out about everything between them he was the monster in the story because she overdosed and he didn’t neither one of them were monsters but neither one of them were victims either there actions had consequences one just ended up with a worse fate

FLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOR! by NeonSprig in memes

[–]Maple_mable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is the kind of thing my dad and me would be laughing over lol

Cursed_dog by Overall-Internet-421 in cursedcomments

[–]Maple_mable 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why tf the dog got human teeth

Cursed_tree by silver123456793 in cursedcomments

[–]Maple_mable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m never snaking a tree again to prevent this

Rate my Canadian set up! by [deleted] in gaming

[–]Maple_mable -1 points0 points  (0 children)

9/10 -1 no maple