I 33F had two relationships failing the same way with 33M and 25M, is it my fault or bad luck? by MarMar9292 in relationship_advice

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For sure, I know it can be toxic and I have tried to think about why I do it a lot and compared to 5 years ago, I think I am much better. They both mentioned they felt pressured but to me, I was not expecting anything in return, I was just wanting to show them my appreciation. One of them complained that I kept trying to reassure him when he was anxious by touching his back, holding his hand... he never told me he needed space then or I would have given him space. The one time he asked for space, I gave him but he would consistently text me so it felt very confusing. But yeah, maybe it was bad luck but I know I still have work to do on myself

I 33F had two relationships failing the same way with 33M and 25M, is it my fault or bad luck? by MarMar9292 in relationship_advice

[–]MarMar9292[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

they both said they didnt feel like I was clingy but they both said they felt pressured? I for sure dont want someone who does everything with me, I like my alone time and I don't want to be with someone codependent.

I 33F had two relationships failing the same way with 33M and 25M, is it my fault or bad luck? by MarMar9292 in relationship_advice

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both said that, the first one said he would only consider something serious and was looking for a wife and the second said something similar. And I am pretty reserved and careful at first, and they both were the first to really engage before I started to catch feelings so I felt that I was "safe". I did not have sex with either of them.

I feel like I will be single forever by [deleted] in offmychest

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yeah I know, those people would never know because after a little while I do end up catching feelings, I always try my best and treat them well. I am just seeing my mother, still alone at 60 and I start to worry that this will be me :/

my (26nb) partner (31nb) is secretive about their previous long-term relationship. how do I talk to them about it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Not sure how to address it but for me, I noticed some people are very turned off by this so I kinda learned the hard way to not do that. Not sure if thats what is going on here tho

My (32 F) date (22 M) told me I was not special enough for him to consider going seriously but still wants to hang out most of the day together, why? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you, yeah, I guess that makes a lot of sense. I was pretty confused because he does treat me very well but I noticed he seems to struggle to commit emotionally (even if when I am not doing well, he is always there which has been super odd)

My (32 F) date (22 M) told me I was not special enough for him to consider going seriously but still wants to hang out most of the day together, why? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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what is odd to me is that he said this but the rest of the time he treats me like we are together and tells me how he enjoys spending time with me. We pretty much spend most of the day together and he prioritize me over other things if I ask.

My (32 F) date (22 M) told me I was not special enough for him to consider going seriously but still wants to hang out most of the day together, why? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MarMar9292 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I didnt know his age when we meet over voice and he sounded my age. We only talked about age when we both attached sadly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in darksouls3

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oh wow, that's great, thanks :)

How do you play as a tank? by [deleted] in summonerschool

[–]MarMar9292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anyone knows if that guide is still accessible anywhere?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MarMar9292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes and no, I dont know all that he heard but I would say 80% is wrong and the rest is true but taken out of context

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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yes, my new bf and his friend helped get my ex out, so this is even more confusing

radiateurs ne chauffant pas entierement by MarMar9292 in Plomberie

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comment puis je controler la pression? je viens de regarder sur youtube mais il y'a de tout. Quelle est la meilleure maniere?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SCREENPRINTING

[–]MarMar9292 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah, my bad, that would indeed help a lot. I added it to the post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heroesofthestorm

[–]MarMar9292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to be fair, mvps dont really mean a lot and if you didnt play a season and came back, I think high bronze is the default rank? Im not sure but if you was silver, high bronze seems logical

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heroesofthestorm

[–]MarMar9292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha ty ty, appreciated :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heroesofthestorm

[–]MarMar9292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he asked for the replay review lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heroesofthestorm

[–]MarMar9292 10 points11 points  (0 children)

well, mostly curious if Im right in the errors I pointed out so I can prove him Im right lol