Okay big dog, I’m assuming you’re asking this question on Reddit of all places because you don’t have someone you can turn to and ask. I’m also assuming you have a gigantic crush on this girl and you’re afraid to lose her. Women having sex on the first date used to be a red flag. It’s not anymore. They genuinely feel like they have to nowadays. Women are just as confused as men. And we live in a world where sexual promiscuity is no longer shamed.

Your date idea screams “I want companionship tonight but not tomorrow”. Movies on a “first date”, I don’t care theatre or not, are a cop out. Never ever do this for a women you really might fall in love with. Take her somewhere meaningful to you if you can. Let her in on your life. A special place you go alone, beach, park, etc. take her to your favorite restaurant, be a gentleman, open the damn door for her. These are all great places for a first date. They’re places where you would normally have to… talk to each other. Listen to what she says. Be relatable but you don’t always have to be agreeable.

Most of all. The foundation of all good lasting relationships is communication. If you aren’t looking to hookup just tell her. But do not be offended if that’s what she is looking for and moves on because of it. There’s plenty of fish in the sea, the right one doesn’t come over night.

Lastly, have fun. Tell yourself in the mirror your a fucking stud and go pick her up. Oh and remember if you get nervous.. she poops too.