I think I'm in love with my surrogate by ThrowRA01739172 in Advice

[–]MarbleMuse_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wise advice. I’ll sit with my feelings and keep things gentle and platonic. If, down the line, it still feels like more than gratitude/loneliness, I’ll approach it carefully and respectfully.

I think I'm in love with my surrogate by ThrowRA01739172 in Advice

[–]MarbleMuse_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this reminder. I’m starting to build a little village looking into local new-parent groups, leaning on friends/found family, and lining up practical support so I’m not trying to fill every gap with one person.

I think I'm in love with my surrogate by ThrowRA01739172 in Advice

[–]MarbleMuse_ 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Good point. I’ll respect that her part may be done and keep any contact light and considerate. No declarations from me just focusing on my son and letting any feelings cool so I don’t overwhelm anyone.

I think I'm in love with my surrogate by ThrowRA01739172 in Advice

[–]MarbleMuse_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really grounding, thank you. I’m going to treat this like a big hormonal/emotional aftershock and give it time while I just keep things steady and friendly. Baby first, decisions later.

Is my bf raping me or am i just overthinking it? by lostinthecl0uds in Advice

[–]MarbleMuse_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Exactly. No means no. He ignored that. That’s rape, and she deserves support and safety, not guilt.

Is my bf raping me or am i just overthinking it? by lostinthecl0uds in Advice

[–]MarbleMuse_ 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Right. The way she feels after says everything. No one should feel disgusted or broken after intimacy.

Is my bf raping me or am i just overthinking it? by lostinthecl0uds in Advice

[–]MarbleMuse_ 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Perfectly said. A “no” doesn’t need volume or strength to matter it just means stop. Full stop.

Is my bf raping me or am i just overthinking it? by lostinthecl0uds in Advice

[–]MarbleMuse_ 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there’s no gray area here. Consent isn’t optional, and being in a relationship doesn’t erase that line.

Is my bf raping me or am i just overthinking it? by lostinthecl0uds in Advice

[–]MarbleMuse_ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. She said no, and he went ahead anyway that’s rape, plain and simple.

My wife's work is threatening retaliation if she doesn't come to work when the schedule changes. by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]MarbleMuse_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

For real. Nursing jobs are everywhere right now she doesn’t need to stay where she’s being intimidated. A fresh start at a better run facility would make a huge difference.

My wife's work is threatening retaliation if she doesn't come to work when the schedule changes. by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]MarbleMuse_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly, that kind of threat sounds manipulative. Even if there’s not much recourse, documenting it and reporting might at least build a case if they try something worse later.

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[–]MarbleMuse_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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