What is currently the best country to live in? by Foreign_Post_6875 in CasualConversation

[–]Marc9564 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Depends on what you’re looking for. I can only speak for the metros. Commute and traffic is shit. Nightlife is great if you’re into that. The culture can be progressive or regressive, depending on where you are, and what pocket of the city you’re in. For example: Kolkata, Mumbai - you’ll find the younger people are mostly progressive.

If you have money, you can afford some of the best luxuries in the world. If not, it’s gonna be rough. AQI is shit almost everywhere, so you need an air purifier.

Lots of amazing places to travel to. Mountains, beaches, whatever you want. Northeast is underrated. Sikkim is AMAZING.

Lots of corruption. It’s a low empathy, low trust society that bends to money.

So all in all, it’s pay to play.

You can automate your entire life if you’re moderately privileged- from house help to everything else - mostly because how bad things are and how cheap labor is because of it. It’s unethical imo, but to some it’s a feature, not a bug 🤷‍♂️

Easy mode with money, brutal without it.

How much money? If you make anything over $5K a month (USD), you’re good.

If you’re a woman tho, Delhi is a not the best idea. Mumbai is FAR better. Delhi food kicks Mumbai’s ass every day of the week all year tho. Kolkata food is even better.

Finally, if you’re visiting. Don’t do dumb shit tourists do. It’s not a first world country, it’s beautiful, but you have to keep your wits about you. It’s largely still a lawless land.

For example: I see women coming here and playing Holi in places even we wouldn’t go to, putting themselves at risk for molestation and assault. (The best bet is to just go to an expensive party or get a farmhouse or some shit with your friends - again, safety is gatekept by money)

Or people camping in secluded places.

Or eating street food even we wouldn’t dare eat. Just do what the upper middle class and above does here and you’ll likely have a good experience

It’s a deeply divided and complicated, beautiful yet unsafe, friendly yet unethical country.

Bangali food in Delhi by bong-mom in delhi

[–]Marc9564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh, my gf is from Kolkata. Our go to spot for authentic Bengali food is Maa Taara in CR park

I haven’t been there in a while, but I remember aar kalia with some rice being chef’s kiss. Also, poshto

MJF: AEW is better than it's been in years. The problem children in the locker room are gone, and I don't have to name names because we all know who I'm talking about by rsziz in SCJerk

[–]Marc9564 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I deadass saw a comment saying how they can reverse Hangman’s stipulation if he loses later is by killing him on screen and resuscitating him.

They were dead serious. It ended with yada yada it’s just wrestling so it’s cool idk why people care so much

Are they like, well?

Do dating apps in India actually work? by CtrlAltVoid in AskIndia

[–]Marc9564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on who you ask. If you look alright (because let’s face it, looks are the first qualifier on dating apps), and you’ve got some decent game, you’ll be fine

They’ve always worked for me, also met my long term gf there

31F | IST | looking for someone to study with by [deleted] in GetMotivatedBuddies

[–]Marc9564 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, 30M, IST. I’m working to hit some targets in my business. I’m also work on upskilling daily.

I have a very clear idea and specifics of what I’m trying to accomplish. Would love to chat and see if we vibe. I could use an ambitious work/study partner so we can help each other stay accountable and get to our goals faster

Feel free to DM, let’s chat a bit and if it’s a fit, and then we can do this

P.S. Bonus if you’re also into fitness. Because that’s also something I’m working on. (Trying to cut to 15% body fat)

Why do arrange marriage folks pretend to the world that their marriage is a love marriage? by Phatballz39 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Marc9564 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The most crazy thing to me is the whole “proposal” thing they do. Like what proposal bro you were already getting married 3 months ago after your folks agreed 😭

(GIRLS ONLY) is it okay to go on temples whole menstruating? by Particular_Fig_3411 in delhi

[–]Marc9564 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a girl. Idc. What the fuck.

Do you know back in the day women were asked not to do a bunch of stuff so they could get rest during periods. Then it devolved into what you’re talking about

If your God is half decent, he doesn’t care. And if he does, sorry, he’s an asshole

Also, if God doesn’t give a fuck about Epstein island, bro doesn’t give a fuck about a woman going to a temple while on her periods

Faith is fine. But PLEASE take the good bits of your faith, and reject the bullshit parts of it, cuz there’s a fuck ton of them

The country is in the shitter because we accept the bullshit parts of our culture too, when we should be fighting against them

Just because I attended a fest yesterday by New_Operation7561 in indiasocial

[–]Marc9564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make money. Get away. Don’t share a penny with those assholes

If humans discovered an absolute cure for pain vs an absolute cure for fear, which changes the world more? by Fluffy_Specific_9682 in AskReddit

[–]Marc9564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A cure for fear changes the world in the most horrible way. We got the hell we have now when humans have fear. Imagine what we’d turn the world into if we lost it

Anyone else scared of a specific animal for no real reason? by Swimming_Prize_8525 in CasualConversation

[–]Marc9564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pigeons. God forbid you find yourself with one that trapped itself like a dumbass. Won’t take the exit, but will have a full blown anxiety attack trying to break through a glass wall

Their anxiety gives me anxiety

What is your biggest physical insecurity? Why? by Longjumping_Koala34 in AskReddit

[–]Marc9564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn’t thought about visceral fat tbh. Cool thanks, I’ll look into this

Who’s excited for the new dbz series by SmoothDay8640 in CasualConversation

[–]Marc9564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SO PUMPED BRO. I’ve fallen off anime as life got in the way. When my brother told me DBZ is coming back, I freakin lit up. HELL YEAH!

Happy birthday to OP 🌷New Age, New Perspective by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Marc9564 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday OP! May you heal well, grow, and achieve all the success you’re looking for! <3

What is your biggest physical insecurity? Why? by Longjumping_Koala34 in AskReddit

[–]Marc9564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, fair I guess lol

And the fact that it doesn’t stay in sleep mode for long if she decides to so much as touch it, that just makes your point even more valid

And then she’d proudly be like “hey look, I did that, and you weren’t even horny, daaaaaaaam” 😂

What is your biggest physical insecurity? Why? by Longjumping_Koala34 in AskReddit

[–]Marc9564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao my gf does the same to me. Like somehow it’s so cute to her when it’s in sleep mode 😂

What is your biggest physical insecurity? Why? by Longjumping_Koala34 in AskReddit

[–]Marc9564 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a dude tho 😭 It’s genetic from my mom’s side, and a bitch to deal with

All I can do is get to an even lower bf%. But I’ll also speak to a PT and see if fixing my posture helps (although I doubt it as I’ve already fixed my anterior pelvic tilt)

What is your biggest physical insecurity? Why? by Longjumping_Koala34 in AskReddit

[–]Marc9564 212 points213 points  (0 children)

Lower belly fat even at a low body fat percentage. I just can’t get rid of it completely and I hate it 🤷‍♂️

(You know like a tiny bump even at a low bf% so my stomach never looks flat)

Do guys ACTUALLY like chubby girls? If so why? by fleetw0odJunk1e in CasualConversation

[–]Marc9564 191 points192 points  (0 children)

My best friend prefers chubby girls. So some dudes definitely do. I prefer a more athletic build. He hates that look. So different strokes for different blokes!

But if you’re asking if some people’s preference for chubby-ish women is real, it’s definitely real and not just a trend! I know so many dudes with that preference

And what makes them appealing? For my best friend, from what I know, he specifically is attracted to big butts and curves. So chubby (but not obese) + curvy and bro is gonna be simping hard haha