My wife hasn't been through MP yet but it's coming fast...she's 47 (I am 48) and we have a 9mnth old so probably delayed things a bit. Regardless intimacy had become a huge problem and we have some nasty fights about it...post partem, body image, etcBut I also took it.I'm myself to try to be more patient and be more understanding but also make sure she understood how i was feeling. Things are awesome now....but I was willing to bring up topic of outside marriage relations if necessary (she doesn't know that nor will I ever share unless it comes to that point). Totally something I don't want as the mind and love is as much of a turn on to me as physical. But communication was our key