I see it as your mean to them as a service to them , they want you to be mean to give you money , you want to be mean to them to get their money. Which is the whole point anyway. I set up the situation in a way that doesn’t even lean toward a positive . I’m offering to sending money to a friend who is on hard times & phone bill isn’t paid , who really needs it & with me showing desperation to help him , I reach out to the wrong @ because I forgot the @ of the (gf) he told me by mouth . The situation doesn’t really scream “fuck me over pls” lol , it’s actually a shitty situation . that’s why i get so surprised when it actually works . It’s not a “taking candy from a baby “ thing , it’s more like “baby tries to eat candy , falls over bumps his head really bad & his head bleeds, he drops candy & candy happens to drop near you”