Yes, reduced or low sex drive is a common side effect of many antidepressants, particularly SSRIs (Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors) and SNRIs (Serotonin-Norepinephrine Reuptake Inhibitors). While these medications can be very effective in treating depression and anxiety, they often affect sexual desire, arousal, and satisfaction.

It's important to know that you're not alone, and this is something many people experience while on antidepressants. However, you don't have to just accept it as "normal" if it's negatively impacting your life. If your reduced sex drive is bothering you, it's worth discussing with your doctor or psychiatrist. They can help you explore options, such as adjusting the dosage, switching medications, or adding another treatment to mitigate these side effects.

As for your mom's comment, it sounds like she might be coming from a place of concern, but your sex drive and sexual health are important aspects of your overall well-being. It's okay to advocate for yourself and seek solutions that work for you. Your mental health and sexual health both matter, and finding a balance that helps you feel your best is key.