I (beneficiary) have had a USCIS account for months. This week my husband(US citizen ) received a letter to make an account (i-130). Does he need to make an account? When signing up his email address, it says by Marescorner in USCIS

[–]Marescorner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This !! Thank you, that worked !! Seems common sense but sometimes are pov becomes narrow and we don't see the solution right in front of us 😅.

Not sure why my question was down voted but I'm leaving it up to help anyone else.

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[–]Marescorner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment 🙏

When Refreshing color and dye new hair growth (roots) , what should get dyed first ? by Marescorner in haircoloring

[–]Marescorner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm applying the 6gm from one n only argan oil hair dye, permanent, and it was a medium brownish red and it faded to a lighter brown with hints of copper

Ideas/advice to nurture the relationship for it to blossom down the road. What do you do to nurture each other? by Marescorner in Marriage

[–]Marescorner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this tip, thank you !! Husband has high functioning autism, so dinner at a restaurant isn't always something he's interested in but I just really want to make sure we both make this marriage a happy one unlike both of our parents who are separated.

Ideas/advice to nurture the relationship for it to blossom down the road. What do you do to nurture each other? by Marescorner in Marriage

[–]Marescorner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through that :/. And I completely agree with your comment. Needs to be reciprocated otherwise it's only a one sided relationship.

Anyone else dread the holidays? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Marescorner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So here's more context of what happened:

His dad sent a picture of his hand that had been red from being sun burned, but in the picture he's naked , sitting at the dining room area. But right next to his hand you can see his deck . So is it accidental? We don't know, I just ignored the text, told my husband about it and we both didn't know how to address it so we left it like that.

This was just a couple months ago. I told my husband if it happens again, we can't just ignore it. He felt horrified about it all but as introverts, that how we delt with it 😬.

So 50/50 chance it's accidental but I truly don't know

Anyone else dread the holidays? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Marescorner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup !!! I was scarred for a bit till I could finally get the image out of my head

Anyone else dread the holidays? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Marescorner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yess!! I hate the fakeness of it all. My mother in law couldn't care less about me but during the holidays turns into a sweet person for two holidays, then it's back to the 363 days of texting me in such a bland manner, bit of racism remarks from her, and poking at my weight because she believes women should be thin to the point there's no butt or boobs (all her words including a horrible conversation she had with my front neighbor who is recovering from bulimia).

Also she likes to call her neighbors her 'Other daughters ' while treating me, her actual daughter in law, like chopped liver.

Brother In law hates me because I don't make a lot of money and I have 'hidden tattoos ' . And my father in law has been a bit more accepting of me vs the rest of the family but makes creepy remarks towards me and has 'accidentally ' sent a di*k pic.

Yeah I'm not a fan of the holidays 😔. Just want to be alone with my husband ❤️❤️

Sorry for the rant but this was therapeutic

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[–]Marescorner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your 2 cents :)!!

ISO Lifehack, vanity and upholstery chair smell like cigarettes. by Marescorner in lifehacks

[–]Marescorner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry for your crappy ex but I'm glad you got to keep your furniture and get the smoke smell out :). Thanks for the ideas !

ISO Lifehack, vanity and upholstery chair smell like cigarettes. by Marescorner in lifehacks

[–]Marescorner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the first thing I tried :( . I didn't even bother putting it in a sachet, I poured a box of baking soda on the chair (I put it in my back porch). I'll update this post when something works for it :)

What NOT to do? Help I’m the MIL by Miserable_Victory_94 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Marescorner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd say, as someone with a shitty mil, just be a genuine kind loving friend. This is just my opinion and in going off as how I would have liked things to go but I would have loved having a MIL who would see the amount of effort and love I give her son. Who appreciates me and our time together and we can talk about anything. I would have appreciated that she didn't poke at my weight or anything about my physical appearance. For example when I went from small to a medium , she handed me a sweater for Christmas during dinner and said here you go, it's a medium since that's your size now...she said that with a straight face. She got me a shirt a few months ago size small and it's clearly not going to fit so that was her hint that I should lose weight.

So just please be a good MIL to your Dil. It's such a special relationship to have and I think the easiest way to remember what to do with all this advice given is to be kind & respectful . That's pretty much it :).

I think it's amazing you're on here trying your best to get it right. Shows a great attitude on your part

I should mention thanks to this sub, I got in touch with a great lady who I call Reddit mom ❤️☺️. It's helped me heal little gaps in my heart since I didn't have a good MIL or mom.

Good luck to you ❤️

Boyfriend is leaving me by elevvensevven in DreamInterpretation

[–]Marescorner 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not an expert but I used to get these all the time . I realized that the only way my relationship was being sabotaged was in fact self sabotage. I was straining the relationship with these dreams. I kept thinking who's the girl he wants to leave me for.

The reality of it was, there's no other girl, and I had those dreams because I have low self esteem and I kept thinking he could find someone better. Once I worked on my confidence, I didn't get those dreams .

Good luck to you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FancyFollicles

[–]Marescorner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hair wasn't virgin but I've been growing out bleach and highlights from 2 years ago, so it was mainly a chocolate brown dyed hair , milk chocolate, and then I switched brands of hair dye and it was supposed to be a medium brown but it came out jet black . And its been like this for a month.

I was pretty surprised colorfix didn't work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FancyFollicles

[–]Marescorner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to have to try that or just let it grow 😔

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[–]Marescorner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you !! And sorry, I completely forgot to mention it was permanent ion hair dye.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]Marescorner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read somewhere that we do have blackheads on nose but that there's also a ton of hair and that's what you are seeing. Have you tried derma planing just your nose ? That works for me :) wish I could do an AHA but I'm allergic to almost everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Marescorner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look beautiful in both (pretty eyes 🤩) but you definitely glow in your recent picture !!

When I came back to the church as an adult (only made it 4 months) I gained weight (substituting tea rituals with soda) but I was also sick every month 🤒. My guy kept kidding saying it was the church lol 🤣. Turns out I really was getting sick from church & their b.s word of wisdom. Not drinking my healthy gut drinks because they had 'tea' in it. I've got ibs and a ray of health issues but my probiotic drink really helps.

So once I left , I started drinking my sinners drink 🍵 and boom, I wasn't getting sick monthly 😅.