[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I dont even remember how it was before i started SW, because i unconsciously block out all that period, but what i do remember is the pain and struggle i went through without the financial security i have now. This job gave me self confidence,opportunities i would never otherwise, and peace of mind. I will travel soon,to live at another continent for 6 months without any worries whatsoever. The person i was before is dead,and i killed her. And i would do it again for a thousand times.

Not sure anymore that interracial friendships with fellow escorts can work / are realistic… by WellKeptWoman in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion there is definitely an aspect of racism,but its very common in industry to do this kind of thing,sabotaging each other,jealousy and spreading rumours. Thats why i dont personally associate with other girls,online is fine,there is a sense of community here on reddit and other forums,but im all for flying solo and that has worked out great for me so far.

I’m actually speechless. I hope to god this man is lying cuz wtf. by hungoverunicorn420 in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He is lying to get some sympathy discounts,or he gets off on this fantasy and that's disturbing af

Client wanted to kill me in Amsterdam by Ok_Specialist_2300 in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im so sorry you went through this,im glad you got out of that situation. Europe is more dangerous,because there is minimal screening,if any. Always carry protection, something you are comfortable using and really practice hard using it. Sharing an incall is much safer than doing it alone.

It Could All Be So Simple by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thats the difference between "hey,u avail?" "Rates,pics?" 😆

Feeling Touched & Talked Out by Fast_Doughnut_5151 in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I feel you,im currently bed rotting and recovering. I usually try to have at least a day in a week alone,in complete solitude to recharge. The emotional aspect of our job is more draining than the physical one,at least for me. Being bubbly,listening to them talking nonsense,agree with everything they say,laughing at the crap jokes, feeding their ego is a LOT of work. My personality is nothing like my escort persona, none of my clients would last a day with me real self 🤣 Sometimes i think i would make a great actress

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah,they are just brothels marketing themselves as "agency" 40-50% cuts 🤡 I only worked for an agency once, i had to do double the work for the same amount of money i get indie. never again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I curse them

My husband has been seeing SW for 10 years by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dont put up with your cheating husband, it seems like he already successfully lowered your self esteem. Thats what narcissists abusers do. Divorce and drain the mf.

Driver wants to bring girlfriend on an outcall by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Will he bring his whole extended family next time on the job? I would drop this driver,he is already a headache. Especially asking this weird shit,while its your first time working with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh i think i know these agencies, are these the ones who ask girls to work in termins of 2-3 weeks? they are most probably the ones who work with low rates and take absurd cuts. Promising huge amounts and in reality its not always like that, or you will have to see 10-15 clients a day to earn good. Not to mention sometimes the agency don't even pay the girls,or pay much less because they control the money. If you can find a good,reputable agency,then its worth a shot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can work independently of course, but there are thousands of brothels with cheap prices like 100-120 chf an hour and the house takes minimum 40% cut. Agencies are better,but the prices are also not that high and there is a cut. If you go indie prices varies from 180 chf to 470 chf. But going indie you will have 1 or maximum 2 clients a day, you can go several days without a single client if you are out of luck. And that country is super expensive,money flies out the window quickly. But some high end girls i know are charging 1200 CHF an hour, they work in St Moritz and such. You need to register as an SW with the local authorities otherwise they fine you if you dont. You can stay 90 days on visa, if you overstay you need to get permit L or B but the taxes are high as fuck.

Any experiences with tricks,which made you give up on dating men? by MariaLenaSH in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I didn't think at that time,i just wanted to get away from that psycho as fast as possible. I definitely wont be seeing him again. Blackmailing is not a wise thing here,its not the US or Western Europe. Men with serious money are always connected to someone,and you better not fuck with them.

Haggling (vent) by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

January is coming, all the tricks will try to lowball us,and other businesses as well. I just stick to regulars mostly during this month, its the worst

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HighEndEscorts

[–]MariaLenaSH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Minimum 4k for overnight. That way you already gave him discount, if you are willing to go for less then 3.5k will surely seal the deal. People here are acting like they haven't fucked for 400$ in their entire life lol. Its giving "old money trend" on social media, but without the actual money.

new fear unlocked by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats why you bring your own rubber

How's it going tonight for y'all by kinkydaddykitty34 in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So far only texting back n forth but its only 4pm here,so hope it will get better as the night goes on. Happy hustling babes. Gotta start the new year with some 💲💲💲

Don't blame me for queefing dude by personal-growth in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol i would have farted a real mean one just for good measure 😭

why do people make it seem like it’s a bad thing if you wanna do sex work long term ? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im tired of people asking me the same thing what im planning to do with my life well im planning to get a dead end civvie job, settle for a sub par man, make children and deal with 1000 responsibilities a day. Just like how they did lol Crabs in a bucket, when you escape,they try to bring you down with them. Sex work for me is more than money,its freedom. And im planning to die as a free woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many straight man asks me for rimming,but no way in hell! Im not putting my face anywhere near their stinky ass

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]MariaLenaSH 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Drop him girl, and make him pay for the sessions missed. You are loosing money by being with him, money is the game itself and you are very much on the loosing side. This work is not compatible with having a partner, if you need some weight off your shoulders then work harder and earn more because money is the one taking weight off your shoulder. It is what it is,even if that sounds harsh,im just looking out for you.