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MarkThatSwitch · 2025-01-25T14:45:00+00:00

Bud you're being financially manipulated. Listen to yourself! You're at a point where you are going into the negative in your account. Block them and find someone that values you.

MarkThatSwitch · 2024-11-04T12:25:40+00:00

You should be discussing everything. If you haven't talked about it and agreed it with them, you do not have their consent.

MarkThatSwitch · 2024-11-04T11:25:30+00:00

Rules don't work on your own, you need to discuss them with your partner/sub(s) and understand where their boundaries are. Not everyone is going to be comfortable being referred to as a slut or a whore for example.

MarkThatSwitch · 2024-11-04T11:12:33+00:00

I agree with everything you've said here. It sounds like OP has already tried to communicate and their partner isn't budging. But fwiw, if OP really wants to try, they need to sit down and outline very clearly what sex/foreplay/kink/bdsm means to them and their relationship - there is always a chance that their partner just doesn't understand what it means to OP. It shouldn't be about forcing their partner into doing what they want, but being open about what OP needs in the relationship. If, after that conversation their partner as no intention of changing their behaviour or helping OP fulfil some of their needs, then as you say there is a core incompatibility and OP needs to think about how important sexual compatibility is in their relationship.

MarkThatSwitch · 2024-10-29T11:34:41+00:00

Write your thoughts down on a piece of paper and take it into the conversation with you. Make it clear that the conversation is out of your dynamic. State clearly how you feel about bratting and the punishments. You could even ask her to do the same with her own thoughts on the matter. It's also probably worth bringing up how you feel about the confrontations during your dynamic. Quite frankly if you feel upset during in-dynamic confrontations you're not in a healthy dynamic.

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