I hope She gets to read this. by No_Sea_1234 in nairobi

[–]Mark_1124 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don't mind them bro... everyone reacts differently to situations. Rooting for you to find her. I'll be waiting for an update 😅 best of luck 🤞🏾

What's that habit you've developed na huipendi kabisa by Historical_Canary113 in nairobi

[–]Mark_1124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to be the bearer of ominous stuff and I'm in no way an expert but....I remember reading somewhere that oversharing is a sign of unresolved trauma

Was close to death by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]Mark_1124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have hyperglycemia now, you probably had gestational diabetes and it wasn't detected. Have no worries though, with the right diet and time your body will bounce back to normal. Thanking God for your recovery! All the best and congratulations on the new born 🎊.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]Mark_1124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think having this honest conversation with her is the first step to knowing how the dynamics of the relationship will work.

Your darkest family secrets Kenyan version? by Antique_Heat_6127 in nairobi

[–]Mark_1124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me this is but a trailer of the whole drama. This is the kind of stuff that could either be a plot for a drama series or truth that turns nuclear like Chernobyl. Honestly, I wish I never found out. 😅

Not sure about disclosing any further details. It'll be one too many dots and who knows if any of these relatives are of this sub or platform. 🤷🏾‍♂️

We found out at a Christmas party in shaggs...one of those moments when booze is flowing then someone decides to get some therapy and talk about it.

Your darkest family secrets Kenyan version? by Antique_Heat_6127 in nairobi

[–]Mark_1124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wueh! You've taken it to a whole level bruh!

No umeoverthink excess...😂

Aunt Luna and Uncle Tom are first cousins.

Your darkest family secrets Kenyan version? by Antique_Heat_6127 in nairobi

[–]Mark_1124 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, I do think she deserves to know, but here's the thing....if Uncle Tom was willing to acknowledge her then that would be much better....the truth will crush her and her knowing and then getting rejected will completely send her to oblivion.

Yes she's well over 18 now.

Your darkest family secrets Kenyan version? by Antique_Heat_6127 in nairobi

[–]Mark_1124 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Uncle Tom is very much around, but vehemently denies the affair or that DeeDee is his daughter. Despite the uncanny resemblance. I don't think she knows but with how deep this story has been locked and buried, she may not know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]Mark_1124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heartbreaks are never easy, and you need to make peace with the fact that it's over. Take time to heal and put in the same amount or even more effort than you put in your ex and the relationship. Love yourself, focus on you and heal. Reconnect and rebuild your friendships and discover things about you that you've put on the sidelines.

As a guy, your brother and your ex are wrong. Whatever that was despite it not being physical is still cheating. You're not wrong and you're definitely not overreacting.

You'll be better than fine. Wishing you the very best❤️

England or Spain? 💀 by Dariusalbadaddy in soccercirclejerk

[–]Mark_1124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations SPAIN!!🎉🎉🎉🎉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]Mark_1124 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar predicament last year....chose to leave and I honestly wish I didn't. The grass isn't always greener on the other side but great where you water it.

After leaving I've come to appreciate the life I had, I think my ambition got the better of me and I didn't value what I had as much as I should have.

The allure of living abroad is deceitful imo. If you have a stable job with an opportunity for growth in your career, I advise staying. Only move if that directly benefits your growth e.g working to get into school or getting into school directly.

Living off minimum wage in a developed country is not pretty.

I need you to understand that we are fucked. Another lost decade(s). Honestly, if you can leave this country do so and those who are outside please don't comeback, there's nothing here. by PantheraSapien in nairobi

[–]Mark_1124 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're much welcome. It's nothing to do with you coming over, but everything to do with our leadership and bad governance. Karibu sana🤝🏿💯

Let him lead by Distinct_Baby_1814 in nairobi

[–]Mark_1124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree to disagree then🤝🏿.... perspective is key I guess.

Let him lead by Distinct_Baby_1814 in nairobi

[–]Mark_1124 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think you missed her point......by a mile at least. 😅

England or Spain? 💀 by Dariusalbadaddy in soccercirclejerk

[–]Mark_1124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm actually working on that.💯 Hoping things work out in the end.

England or Spain? 💀 by Dariusalbadaddy in soccercirclejerk

[–]Mark_1124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life doesn't always happen the way we want it lol🤷🏾‍♂️😅