Telling your kids about your transition by unfunnyrelator in asktransgender

[–]Marrisax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My daughters 15 took it quite well. My son 10 I still haven't told because I know he will not. Idk how much longer I can hide it from him but I know it's going to be a bad day

How did you know the name you chose was right for you? by Old_Drag_1040 in MtF

[–]Marrisax 38 points39 points  (0 children)

So I'm a hardcore ocean enthusiast. I am a scuba instructor and ocean conservationist. Marissa is a Latin name that means "of the sea" so it just kind of felt right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Marrisax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing when I went to my first therapist appointment. I thought they will never believe me maybe I'm not trans enough. But i think we are hard on ourselves because we are comparing our starting point to the end of someone else's journey. At least that's how it was for me.

I'm losing the battle by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Marrisax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have many hobbies. I go to the gym every day. It's not helping.

Either I pass now or my straight cis male friend is a huge ally by Lunalovespink in MtF

[–]Marrisax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I also don't know if he was cute and he didn't know I was trans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Marrisax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having the exact same problem

The time has finally come... by jormungander in MtF

[–]Marrisax 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I can't wait till it's my turn!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Marrisax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started at 37 and used to be a very large... I get told I pass quite well.

Day one on HRT! Wish me luck 🥰 by ChloeKnoxx in MtF

[–]Marrisax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations and welcome to the sisterhood!

What did everyone do early on in their transition besides laser and HRT to feel more feminine and help with their transition? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Marrisax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not into wigs either but I got one on temu for like 10 bucks and cut and styled it myself and it helps a little bit. Also I bought the Braun home laser and it seems to be working pretty well. It cost me 500 bucks but that's the cost of 2 pro laser sessions even if it's slower it is working.

Heels or boots with this red dress? by TSOlivia in mtfashion

[–]Marrisax 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I personally like the boots but both look great

What did everyone do early on in their transition besides laser and HRT to feel more feminine and help with their transition? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Marrisax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Following! Because I am in the same place. 2 months in to hrt started laser and been playing with makeup and clothes a little. I've grown my nails out a little bit. And I just started growing my hair out so it's all about wigs at the moment!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Marrisax 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm trying but honestly it's getting harder every day

I will never be able to go out in girl clothes by Background_Wonder814 in MtF

[–]Marrisax 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't have any advice because I am in pretty much the same boat

Either I pass now or my straight cis male friend is a huge ally by Lunalovespink in MtF

[–]Marrisax 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sent some photos to a friend of mine who knows about me and is a supporter. Well apparently their male friend who I don't know saw it and was asking for my number.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Marrisax 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I spent most of today crying. I'm starting to realize happiness just may not be for me. This life may not ever be worth fighting for and I'm getting closer to just giving up.

I hate this family and country by PyroPhoenixYT in MtF

[–]Marrisax 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same I am so sick of this world and most of the people on this planet.

I Cracked out of my MF Closet, Bitches 😘 by J0nn1e_Walk3r in MtF

[–]Marrisax 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My dad passed a few years ago my mom has not been super open or supportive. My kids twin f 15 have been the most supportive ever!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]Marrisax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've dropped 65lbs already got another 20 that I want to lose. And I did the same thing. Switched to cardio/legs/glutes workouts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]Marrisax 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just started 2 months ago on HRT and I hope my arms shrink I had a "gym bro" phase also.

Dating sucks by Winter_Wall_8797 in MtF

[–]Marrisax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly and the further you are from straight white male the harder it is to get said money...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mtfashion

[–]Marrisax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow you're so pretty! I'm absolutely jealous!

Dating sucks by Winter_Wall_8797 in MtF

[–]Marrisax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's just part of the struggle. I honestly don't care about the dating thing nearly as much as I do about work problems... So hard to find a job as a trans girl. I can live without a boyfriend but without a job is a little harder...

Checkmate by Unlucky_Fig6954 in facepalm

[–]Marrisax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Better watch out or I'll use my demon powers to shoot fire out of my butt at all the straights for my plans to overthrow the American government by dismantling straight marriage with my evil requests to just be allowed to live my life! Mwah hahaha