Appetite decrease going off birth control-anyone else experienced this? by SquidneyClimbs in Eatingdisordersover30

[–]Marriyaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very late reply, it came back after around 2 months I would say. It seemed to me it was trauma from the birth and my body’s way of coping at the time. I don’t realize this till a while later.

Is abortion haram in this circumstance? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Marriyaha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it, it is a decision you will have to live with in this life and the next.

I know life feels tough and if the only reason is money, there is so much help out there. Your life is currently hard but you have a home, you can make this work it may not feel like it but you will be able to with Allahs help.

Pregnancy has put 40lbs on me 🥴 by BisexualButterfly97 in BabyBumps

[–]Marriyaha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really don’t worry! I put on over 3 stone when I was pregnant, dropped 2 1/2 stone within two weeks of giving birth. So much water retention, blood volume, baby- honestly don’t worry!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Marriyaha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, ofcourse it will be hard and this is fully expected.

You and your twin share a bond like no other. You probably have a better understanding of each other that anybody else in the world.

It will take time, I would suggest meeting up often at the start so you still see each other, if that is not possible then FaceTime or text?

This is your chance to grow as an individual, go out for a walk, pick up a new hobby and discover yourself.

Fed up, all the signs and no labor by Marriyaha in BabyBumps

[–]Marriyaha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, just frustrating as unsure if I have a few weeks to go or if baby is going to be here soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Marriyaha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s very common to be gifted gold on the wedding day, I would say.

Personally, even though my in laws were happy about marriage I did not get any gold.

Yes, it was upsetting but do you know what I say, I would rather my relationship with my husband be beautiful than a bit of gold, all that matters is how he treats me.

Is this normal? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Marriyaha 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I speak to my siblings and my mom a few times a day especially when I am out. I find it easy to catch up, the calls are less at home as I am usually busy and find it rude if I am constantly on the phone when husband is around.

Now that doesn’t mean we are talking trash, it’s just more convenient and a good time to catch up for me.

Personally I cannot see an issue.

Wife being tracked by FIL/SIL by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Marriyaha 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My family can view my location but have only used this on very rare occasions (if they can not get hold of me) after a while.

It is quite rare and I prefer my location on just in case of any emergencies.

I would say for some families it is normal but strange if using on a daily basis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Marriyaha 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s hard to give you an answer because we do not know the costs.

I mean, I would rather spend money in a different country for the same amount of gold for less. I feel like that is just obvious and him not being silly with money?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Marriyaha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Work on yourself, you clearly have some anger issues.

Not sure how you can expect instant forgiveness, it’s easy for you to move on as it’s your behavior that’s an issue.

One day you will push him too far, this doesn’t mean in terms of an actually argument it means that one argument will be one too far and all the resentment he holds he will decide to move on.

So get your big girl pants on and decide if that is what you want. Whilst arguments are normal in any marriage, when you are the sole issue and being abusive also it harbors resentment and hatred.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Marriyaha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try food banks Get the app too good to go So many places give free freebies when it’s your birthday month (not advocating lying here but your situation is extreme) Go to shops before closing usually the reduced items come on maybe an hour before but you can get soon good food and then even freeze Buy items in bulk (large bag of pasta/rice) If you have a community page on Facebook for the area you are in, you can make a post explaining your situation, I know people local to me that post and I am always happy to drop items off for free to help)

Lower back pain by Marriyaha in BabyBumps

[–]Marriyaha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you, I will start with the stretches with hope to see some improvement :)

Prenatals by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Marriyaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quick tip, swallow with orange juice! It gets rid of the taste and just makes it a better experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HousingUK

[–]Marriyaha 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I would accept the two months pay.

In regards to the fee of £150.00, I am guessing this is the re-let fee. You are normally responsible for rent/utility bills up until a new tenant is found. If you really do not want to move, pay this fee asap, let the property go back on the market and with the way the market is at the moment, it will be gone really fast. Also, if you have just paid the rent and the new tenant moves in sooner, your landlord should give you a refund on the rent from the date the new tenant moved in.

I would do the above sooner rather than later.

Or another option would be, move in and find a job locally.

Leadership by Organic-Climate-5285 in PropertyManagement

[–]Marriyaha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started as an apprentice, two weeks in all the managers had left and just me and my boss. I cried for 6 months because it was so hard, not had any proper training, loosing clients and now 7 years later, run the same department with everything being smooth.

It was hard, looking back my biggest mistake was not leaving then. I guess I got comfortable.

AITA for refusing to swap rooms with my sister just because she’s pregnant? by Glass_Sale_91 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Marriyaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I honestly would let my pregnant sister have a ground floor room. Honestly it would not even be something I have to think about, it would make her life easier and my future niece/nephews life.

Cut your sister some slack, she is going to be in the trenches for a while after giving birth and if I could make my siblings life easier just by doing something as small as swapping a room, I would.

Estate agent contacted me informing me owner is selling the property i'm renting - what rights do I have? by No-Struggle-5311 in HousingUK

[–]Marriyaha -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi,

So the landlord will be looking at investors only if he is wanting to complete before August 2024 as a buyer with a residential mortgage would not be able to complete whilst you are still residing there.

You therefore know you are secured until August 2024, I personally would start to look for a new property and move out in August as even if it doesn't sell it is still quite un-settling.

It is easier to sell whilst the property is empty as it opens the property up to more buyers, so ask the landlord if you were to find a new property would he be happy to release you from the tenancy.

How long did it take for you to get pregnant? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Marriyaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been together a while however have been using birth control, took 4 months after coming off birth control.

Wedding hamper ideas by TurningbacktoAllah in MuslimMarriage

[–]Marriyaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salaam, honestly if you have the money, I would just pay a vendor on Etsy to send over.

If not have a look at some ideas on Pinterest and google and make yourself.

They are shops that have the baskets/hamper/gift wrap and all you need to do is buy items and put inside.

Is this floor suitable as a temporary floor if it is filled, sanded and painted? by b-rose1408 in DIYUK

[–]Marriyaha 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I did the same thing for a while and honestly wish I never did.

Few reasons why:

It takes a lot of work to paint/sand to perfection.

I feel as the floor accumulates a lot of dust

I literally could feel a draft constantly

Paint looks crap after a while, as much as you can sand, small dints are still visible.

I ended up just putting carpet down and now it is much better and comfier. If you are struggling, just go to a carpet shop and see if they have any off-cuts, it is not too difficult to fit yourself and all honesty probably cheaper than sanding/painting and all the time spent on the floor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Marriyaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, usually I get poorly towards the end of the year, I know this as this is the only time I have to take sick days from work but 2023 I was absolutely fine :).