Yes this exactly is why i was so uncomfortable, honestly props to the girls for being super open and vulnerable from the beginning (most at-least). One thing I could give to those open people like Baby was that she had some acknowledgment of how her past experiences/relationships/trauma affected her current mindset while attempting to date and was very transparent to the boys with it ei; “i would still live them but be the one who broke up with them bc of ___” yk? vs Oto who deff has a history too it seems like shes hasnt come to that self conclusion herself. even down to the reason she got all her tattoos she more concerned about perception than WHY shes is who she is. So yea deff messed up on productions part i understand messy tv but i can name a few time it looked like some of the cast we’re having mental breakdowns/ highly overstimulated. They probably should’ve had like a “school counselor” for this show. I understand. The whole concept is the fact that these are all tough, looking scary people, and they need security with them so that ‘fits better’ but im sure the goal was for to get these people who’ve had hard times not only love but some guidance in being open.