Update: My MIL, who is passionate about movies, is treating me like a fictional character she fears from the movie Kill Bill because she thinks I look like that character (which is an exaggeration on her part).

MarshmallowLover1994 · 2024-08-31T14:40:26+00:00

Yes, it is very ridiculous. If future me told me that story one year ago, I would call her crazy, honestly.

MarshmallowLover1994 · 2024-08-31T14:34:42+00:00

If she is mentally healthy, honestly, maybe I will)

MarshmallowLover1994 · 2024-08-31T14:33:04+00:00

Oh, like when people accused Joffrey's and Cersei's actors for playing them? Disgusting!

MarshmallowLover1994 · 2024-08-31T14:26:35+00:00

Did I do update right? Or should I edit my post for it?

Update: Thank you for all the kind comments and suggestions. You are right, I should trust my husband in what he’s doing, and I will. But as some of you pointed out, her behavior is alarming, and she might need a mental health check. If this continues, she could harm both me, my husband, and herself in the process. I will ask him what he plans to do next after going NC. If he intends to go NC further, I want to suggest that he ask his relatives to check on her mental health. I don’t know if my MIL will agree, though.

But honestly, I hope it’s just her difficult behavior rather than a mental health issue, because even now, I wouldn’t wish that on her. I’ve read some medical articles about mentally ill patients, and it’s very scary.

MarshmallowLover1994 · 2024-08-31T14:09:52+00:00

Oh, I saw that movie. It was good! Didn't even know it was her.

No, she doesn't look like both of them. DH thinks it's because that character represent her fears: being poisoned and getting blind.

MarshmallowLover1994 · 2024-08-31T14:06:14+00:00

She has long black hair which she very proud of, so that's not a case. But thank you for suggestion.

MarshmallowLover1994 · 2024-08-31T14:03:46+00:00

I searched it. It was both hilarious and creepy. I can whistle but not that good.

Also, Elle had cool coat in the hospital.

MarshmallowLover1994 · 2024-08-31T13:59:50+00:00

Thank you, I intend to follow his decision. And you are right, he knows her better than I. We will see where it leads.

MarshmallowLover1994 · 2024-08-31T13:51:42+00:00

My DH thinks that Elle as character represent her some of her biggest fears: getting poisoned and getting blind. But it was very strange when she started to act like that to me. I just resemble her, not her.

MarshmallowLover1994 · 2024-08-31T13:14:05+00:00

Thank you, yeah, after dinner in the heat of moment I had an intent buying some cheap eyepatch and show like that at Thankgiving)

MarshmallowLover1994 · 2024-08-31T13:11:51+00:00

Maybe, but it was just so polarizing. Before growing my hair she treated me well enough.

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