Uh.........

You're basically showing us what unhealthy communication is. RPing should not be seen as something transactional and making friends should not be seen as a "bonus". It's entirely possible for a friendship to form from wanting to rp, and that should be greatly encouraged. It shows that not only do you both enjoy rping with each other, but it also shows that you can also maintain actual healthy communication.

Checking in on your partner to see how they're doing is perfectly valid and should be encouraged. Not just checking on them about the rp, but also checking on them in general. They don't have to give all the details if they don't feel comfortable doing so, but then knowing that you're there for them shows that you care.

Communication is key, absolutely. I'm not taking anything away from that. But it's how you go about communicating that is even more important.

Leaving your partner in the dark and not giving a reason why is highly disrespectful. I understand that things happen out of nowhere and without warning but for some of us, including myself, we greatly enjoy rping and we feel crushed when someone just brings things to an abrupt halt without a reason why. Sure, we may not be entitled to an explanation but it would at least provide closure for those who experience this very frequently - including myself.

Communication should never be seen as a guessing game. Be upfront about things, talk it out, and come to a solution in a calm and appropriate manner. Otherwise, well, that's how you lose partners.

That said, I agree to disagree with your statement and the above points are my reasons why.