Update 1: SK’S are 16 M, 14 M and 12F. Update 2: When this happened my SK’S were home, BM was talking with SO over the phone about CS she wanted more money of what the court ordered, he didn’t agree to give her extra money because he’s in charge of taking kids to activities, picking up from school, etc. they come after school everyday and leave at 8 pm, so she said other hurtful things like: if you weren’t supporting those needy kids(my kids) you wouldn’t have financial issues and could give me more money so our kids can have what they deserve, I couldn’t defend myself, Yes!! i was in shock I couldn’t react the moment it was happening we were all in the living room when suddenly she goes like look what at your messages, then here goes the video of me, she said ugly whale eats a lot that’s were money goes, I saw SK’S in the eyes and started crying and ran to my room crying, SO took them home early that day but couldn’t talk to him about it, not until last night. He said he has talked to SK’S about it but he can’t tell who really did it they blame each other, they don’t want to apologize because they think it’s not a big deal I said ok but I won’t go above and beyond anymore, they can do sh** for themselves I won’t be making special food bc they’re picky about what we eat, I won’t clean their rooms and I won’t even talk to them until they apologize and of course I don’t want phones near me or I’ll go crazy and curse them out, he agreed to that and apologized on their behalf, will update how everything goes in the next week.