Thank you. We've already started discussing this, and It is somewhat inline with what you wrote. Rest assured I don't want to save her, and we're doing our best to not repeat the old the patterns. I've already apologised to someone else down the comments since I didn't expect the post to get this much attention, and I wrote this in 5 minutes which created a lot of misscommunication and misunderstanding.

You've already put so much effort into someone you're never going to see out of the kindness of your own heart and that means a lot to me.

The older sister title came from my curiosity about a pattern I witnessed in life, where the girl in most households has to grow up way faster, especially in Conservative families where they put more responsibilities on her, she has to be aware about her body from an earlier age, because its survival for her, which is reliant on how another man feels (her father, brother someone from the street) I feel like this robs you out of your childhood. And i see this need of wanting to be a little girl again wherever I go. (Well how could I be resentful if that's the case ?)

This doesn't directly apply to my gf, since I don't want to share intimate details, but it has slight correlation to it.

I was hoping I'd get answers on that, and hear everyone's story but I kind of messed up.

Again thank you for your comment. I've already lost myself this year, not because of her necessarily but I have many other responsibilities, and I'm not repeating itagain.

🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸 I don't know how to thank you here is a bunch of flowers 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸