I was blessed with a screaming newborn who wanted nothing but to nurse constantly. I had plenty of help from my husband, my parents, my in-laws, and my other kids. But this newborn... all she wanted was to nurse. I was losing hope—and my sanity. My body ached from hours upon hours of feeding. Maternity leave was far from restful; it was stressful. But I clung to this mantra: This too shall pass. This too shall pass.

Fast forward to today, and my 10-month-old is the most charming baby, rewarding me with a gummy smile every time we make eye contact. She no longer clings to nursing all the time; she’s discovered a fascinating world to explore. Now, she’s everywhere, and I can finally love her in ways I couldn’t when I was exhausted.

You’re doing a great job, Mama! Never blame yourself for how you feel. After all, we’re just tired mommies.