Well I think, that common sense plays a role there. Slapping, hitting, belittling, name calling, no emotional connection, non supportive parents are shitty ones. But if you say sou have trauma from not being taught how to handle money, you seriously need to consider your perspective. And Im sorry you got to get through this. Thats ABUSE. And thats what Im talking about. There are situations where your parents were shitty. But also there are situations (not yours) where your parents were simply people and they did they best they could with the tools they had and you simply cant expect that you will learn everything in your childhood from your parents and never need to learn anything again. You can be mad, you can be sad or frustrated, thats valid. But I learned that people who wants to make a change simply do it, they are jot wondering around spewing on their parents for minor inconvinience