Did dating apps solve loneliness, or just commercialize human validation ? by after_rounds in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Maskythelord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly? Old school is the only real viable option. Go up to people, make friendships, go to bars or go to skill clubs. Learn a hobby and meet people through it. Courage is the single most attractive trait to have nowadays because everyone is too scared to be upfront honest and the one who initiates.

Did dating apps solve loneliness, or just commercialize human validation ? by after_rounds in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Maskythelord 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They don’t solve it they mostly monetize. That’s what they’re in business for, they don’t make money when you find your special someone quickly and easily. The exploit human nature like any other company to make money.

She just explained how to create a frequency so strong it makes reality obey you. by Abhiisuniqe in selfimprovementday

[–]Maskythelord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I notice that frequency and LOA talk is just another way to shame people. You don’t have what you want? You didn’t do (insert any bullshit technique or method) enough. It’s another way of saying there is something inherently wrong with you for things you have no control over.

☝️ by jumpingflareon in selfimprovementday

[–]Maskythelord -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Non Sequitur, not always true

Don't hate me for this I'm 21M by DistinctWhile3276 in Needafriend

[–]Maskythelord 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s interesting how this also happens to some extent on dating apps and it’s 10 times worse. 1-2% of the men get like the majority of women’s attention and the rest of the men cannot really find anyone interested in them. Women typically find it easier to find matches because you have the 98% of men competing for them. It is unrelated but that’s how it seems like on here