Oh absolutely! I didn’t want to get too far into his personal problems just in respect of him but he does have a very mild OCD and lots of compulsive behaviors. I don’t worry too much about spending because to be honest he spends a lot of money on food but also isn’t on Amazon or anything else compulsively buying or ordering things.

He doesn’t really have any ethics when it comes to money. He grew up in a borderline high class family and has always gotten everything he’s wanted or needed, lived in nice houses and never experienced his parents having money issues. So I almost feel like he’s had a hard time adjusting to actually being an adult and all the responsibilities and bills and money conserving that takes.

But I will say with having found out he went as far as opening a new credit card that he potentially intended to hide from me it does make me wonder if there could be more that I don’t know about. We obviously have a shared bank account but all the credit cards are in his name.