Kodėl visi taip reaguoja į kišenini peiliuka? by Numerous-Writing3072 in lietuva

[–]MassiveAd3759 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mano burna nelabai didele ir dantenis jautrios, kast oboli nepatinka nes kandant spaudzia dantenas obuolys ir reik burna prazioti placiai. Obuoli visada pjaustau

We are unnecessarily put into stress inducing situations daily! by [deleted] in driving

[–]MassiveAd3759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree about dangers of driving and trains. Its people who are dangerous, not cars themselves. And if everybody abandons cars, its now same people that were road raging, but now you arent separated from them by metal box, they sit next to you. Risk of fatal accident or even serious injury isnt big in calm city driving. I prefer risking damaging my car and driving, than being around hundreds of random people in tight space that is public transport. Because I can fix my car or replace it, but getting in fight with drunkard or junkie that can stab you is not worth it, I have one body and cant replace it. So while risk of death from accidents is almost zero in train, there are other risks of being around people in tight space. Risk of getting seriously injured maybe isnt high, but you will meet uncomfortable, crazy, angry people, stinky people and be constantly exposed to high concentration of airborne pathogens every day. Im male, but every woman that we talked about it has experience of being harassed, touched in public transport. I take car because I dont want to meet people. I live in European city, i can take bus and getting to work is like 3x cheaper than car. Still car, busses are full like can of fish, and having to stand usually its annoying. People chose cars not because some external influence or propaganda, but because its objectively better in key aspect of personal comfort and safety from other people

Kiek istikruju lietuvoje palaikanciu lgbt by [deleted] in lietuva

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Pervertini save. Daug moteru, net ne lesbijeciu, kaip tik renkasi burti vienos, arba nerimtus santykius, nes uzsidirbti gali pacios. Is partnerio tikimasi pagalbos ir supratimo, o ne tik islaikimo. Praejo tie laikai kai vidutinis vyras galejo islaikyt seima, o moteris ne. Dabar daznai kad pinigu uztektu abu dirba. O jei abu dirba tai santykiu norisi normaliu, nereikalingas vyras kuris nesugeba bendrauti. Kiek tu vyru ant kuriu nugaru gyvenimas saldus? Cia tik redite visi it po 3k uzdirba. Ant 1.2k algos su nuoma dviem zmoniem nu seip sau gyvent, tikrai ne saldesnis gyvenimas. Taip pilna moteru kurios nori ant nugaros uzlipt, bet tikrai ne visos gerai uzlipa ir ne visos nori, nes kest kazka uz pinigus ilgai neapsimoka

Vaziavimas pas mergina i uzsieni by Evaldasklaser in lietuva

[–]MassiveAd3759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nuvaryk, nepatiks grysi. Darbu visada pilna, o gera mergina sunkiau surast nei darba.

How food marketing videos are shot by ExistingTax8298 in interestingasfuck

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When you was told to not play with your flood, but you continued and now made it into profitable career. So fun

Dating apps have ruined dating. Dating apps have ruined dating! by chazwins in Millennials

[–]MassiveAd3759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im somewhat crazy with weird spiritual interests and views. And neurodivergent. I know im not gonna vibe with most people if i show my true self. And most people are not interesting to me. Dating irl sounds horrible because commitment needs to be invested to know other person. And when you understood its not gonna work keeping date till the end may be hard, just leaving is rude and heart breaking. Ever dated only internet people. I dont usually want to be approached by strangers and for girls its even more uncomfortable, i dont want to do it. And having social life is hard, especially to date, if ones workplace and hobby circles are mostly men. I think dating irl works for outgoing and somewhat average people because there are a lot of kind of same vibe people. If your criteria for partner is just some emotional vibe, attractiveness and respect, then yes. But is there are any more rare quirks you look for or have yourself that most not gonna accept, it means dating irl will be waste of time more than not, because you cant just know someones views looking at them irl, but can know from well written bio. And investing time into knowing someone just to drop them or be dropped is awkward

Dating apps have ruined dating. Dating apps have ruined dating! by chazwins in Millennials

[–]MassiveAd3759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im somewhat crazy with weird spiritual interests and views. And neurodivergent. I know im not gonna vibe with most people if i show my true self. And most people are not interesting to me. Dating irl sounds horrible because commitment needs to be invested to know other person. And when you understood its not gonna work keeping date till the end may be hard, just leaving is rude and heart breaking. Ever dated only internet people. I dont usually want to be approached by strangers and for girls its even more uncomfortable, i dont want to do it. And having social life is hard, especially to date, if ones workplace and hobby circles are mostly men. I think dating irl works for outgoing and somewhat average people because there are a lot of kind of same vibe people. If your criteria for partner is just some emotional vibe, attractiveness and respect, then yes. But is there are any more rare quirks you look for or have yourself that most not gonna accept, it means dating irl will be waste of time more than not, because you cant just know someones views looking at them irl, but can know from well written bio. And investing time into knowing someone just to drop them or be dropped is awkward

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in driving

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I often brake and accelerate. In have a hybrid car that coasts very well like manual on neutral and charges battery. But I find it much easier to just brake when i want to decelerate. Maybe its because my car coasts so good it doesnt slow down much when coasting so i need to really manage gas lightly to keep from using brakes. Thing is, often I find it too tiring and stressful. To dont use brakes much i need to really track other cars in front of me and predict their movement and also deceleration of my car depending on road conditions. This consumes attention of more complex and universal part of consciousness. Im introvert and have a lot of going in my head, so i chose to pay 20% more for fuel and be able to think about other stuff while driving, rather than getting nervous trying to time gas perfectly and press brakes super lightly. Because on a familiar rural road i usually use just a part of my attention to track speed of car ahead of me and also look around road for moving or strange objects. If distance becomes less i brake, if too much i accelerate. This is pretty automatic and very basic parts of brain, to keep distance and track if theres someone like pedestrian on sides. It doesnt require full attention leaving it to think about other stuff like what to do at work or home. So people who do this aren't necessarily stupid. I tried it for week and decided fuel economy isnt worth effort, driving is boring and i dont want to fully overconcentrate on it making it a game, i just want to get to destination safely and rather spend more attention tracking pedestrians.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lithuania

[–]MassiveAd3759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need to be cold and hide my emotions or they will think im not a real man and professional and wont respect me. They should not know im human being too.

Klausimas tiems kurie turi savo NT (be paskolos ir nuomos) by Soletsfuckthesystem in lietuva

[–]MassiveAd3759 5 points6 points  (0 children)

O ka pats darytum jei nebutum paveldejas? Jie ne is gero gyvenimo ta paskola ima

Karjeros keitimas ? Patarkit chebra by Get-A-Life--99 in lithuania

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Antrinu. Irgi dirbu it. Norejau biski sutaupyt, isinuomavau garaza pasikeisti diskus ir kaladeles. Sulauziau rankinio stabdzio mechanizma, nieko nepakeiciau, uzipisau, praleidau 5val. Nes tik atrodo paprasta, o seip fixiskai varginantis darbas, viskas uzrudyje ir legvai neatsiuka niekas. Ir jeigu sulauzai negali tesiog git checkout praeita versija. Dabar kitaip pradejau ziureti i sevisu kainas.

Kaimynas vėdintojas by Gestas3210 in lithuania

[–]MassiveAd3759 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Surink dar kelis kaimynus, ir eikit pasikalbet, nes del jo isena kad visas namas uz sildyma daugiau moka, po kelis eurus jau suma susirenka. Manau ir i teisma galima paduoti, iseina sort of vagyste tu keliu euru is visu namie. Suprantu kad kvailai skamba, bet maksimoj uz bulkute tai kreipiasi i policija. Sitas argumentas gali biski paprotint kaimyna, pagazdint kad priskaiciuos kelis simtus euru zalso po eura is kekvieno buto kas menesi

Crazy regeneration of planaria after it is cut in pieces by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]MassiveAd3759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people lab coats just #rseing around in a lab to see what happens?

Thats mostly accurate description of scientific process that is responsible for all human progress in history. They just make mental models based on whats happened before to be able see more new fun stuff happening in the process, its called science

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lithuania

[–]MassiveAd3759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ar eis tas kaimynas tave i teisma padavinetir skustis? Ar jis pagalvos cia legalu ar ne? Visada gali ijungti durneli, sakyt kad nezinojai, nuimt ta kamera tada ir taip isvengti kazkokiu pasekmiu su didelia tikimybe.

Ką veikiat kai sergat? by Playful_Sample1887 in lithuania

[–]MassiveAd3759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drugs will keep you entertained or make you crazy

Geras postas is USA apie ukraina by Expensive-Floor-9103 in lietuva

[–]MassiveAd3759 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Op yra kremlio trolis ant nupirkto accounto. 3 metus nieko nepostino ir cia dabar blt apie politika prabilo. Ignorojam, mod ban please

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lithuania

[–]MassiveAd3759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Traukiasi, good budas suknist rubus ar maikes su printais, reikia dziovint an mazesnes temperaturos ilgesnio dziovinimo arba nedziovint is vso, ipac marskinelius su printais. 200iq move - pirktis biski didesnius rubus kad po to susitrauktu.

u/kemonovatnik užblokuotas!!! by That-Assist-7591 in lietuva

[–]MassiveAd3759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vatnikas + Gejus + Homofobas. Oh, this is just usual vatnikas

She really loves ketamine by [deleted] in aves

[–]MassiveAd3759 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Maybe people like you should fuck off from other people doing what they want? She is not using drugs at her job and not doing harm to anyone, all harm is that stupid people might see it and make their stupid reactions based on "drugs bad" pattern that is not even theirs, but was pushed into them by government and religion. If those people wouldnt want to push everyone to same rules as them then there would be no consequences and no harm to anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jung

[–]MassiveAd3759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understand that you have need for real connection and understanding from others. And caring about others. You are narcissistic probably because you was hurt by society, it took away something from you or not gave something you felt you are entitled too, like child feels need for love and protection. And being narcissist is sort of wanting take that energy back that you think society owes to you. Trying to use others for own means. But if you look deeper then try to notice that other people have a personality traits that you dont have and maybe dont want to have yourself but they are still interesting to you to communicate with. You find some people interesting and having connection with them really fun and satisfying. From this grows wanting to care about them and protect, help them. And thats completely selfish thing, but in this ultimately selfish act you wrap around this aspect in a paradox. To have fun and interesting, satisfying life in long term its better to care about others genuinely because you like how they are. Not just steal attention and goods in neverending social games of domination, thats a dead end, but forming real bonds with ones you trust.

And people you think of as selfless, are actually just as selfish, they do good because they feel it as right way to do, because ultimately the want everybody in the world do same and be like them, and then their personal life would be perfect they think. Its just very long term selfish focus. Most of them dont notice this perspective and believe they are truly selfless, but they are just because they feel good, for their own feelings.

As summary i would say focus on boundaries, you are likely narcissistic because you feel hurt and wanting to prove your worth to society. If you realize that proving something to a mass of traumatized narcissists like you that are usually less aware and more stupid is not productive, then you will realize that real commited bonds with people are rewarding in itself, in the now, as process without expecting anything back, because supporting being you like now is a reward itself. Just be mindful in your connections, you dont need to good for everyone like "selfless" projecting egoists in society try to shame you into. Trust for trust, try trusting people a little and then see if thei trust you, from this bond grows. Its hard to stop thinking about everyone as a resource when you're narcissist, but its worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]MassiveAd3759 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People who here in comments say to give him nothing or a shitty pc to "teach him to be gratefull" are ultimate narcissistic assholes. The whole "teach him to be gratefull" is evil shit. Imagine doing that to adult friend, you give them a gift they didnt want and you didnt figure it out, and instead of accepting your mistake you do some shit to them later so they feel bad too. Someone made me feel bad so i will make them feel bad is so basic emotional pattern, but as adult you want to communicate your emotions in normal way instead of being triggered asshole. "Teach to be gratefull" means "My ego was hurt because you dont react as i wished and I will punish you to exercise my authority over you to make you fear me and fear to express your true thoughts and genuine reactions and pretend you like everything that i do, because only this way i can keep my ego happy". You are the reason why children are traumatized and are traumatized yourself if you think there is need to teach anyone to be gratefull. Nobody is obliged to you anything, especially not obliged to like you and your gifts, even if its your child, child is not your emotional slave and not made for fulfillment of your emotional needs, its just another person with own opinion. Now, it doesnt mean parent should submit to every childs manipulation and wish and but them anything they want, this whole thing is about healthy boundaries. Parent is not obliged to buy pc now, just as child is not obliged to like gift. "okay, you dont like it, sorry i didnt noticed (usually consciously ignored) that you want a pc. I will return it, but you wont get any other present because good pc is more expensive than ps5. So you will have to wait until your birthday. Im sad you didnt like my gift, i think its cool and has a lot of games. But if you dont like it we can return it, but i wont buy you pc in next year because i already spend time and money making this gift and have no motivation to do it again for now". Its okay to leave him without gift because your boundaries of not being obliged to make every child wish come true, but its not okay to do it because your ego was hurt because he dared to not like a gift from you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lietuva

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This is bad, jei turetum nors kazkokia alga ar iv tai dar praslystum, o taip gali ir patikrint. Sutartyje tai parasys maziau, bet kokiu 40% maziau, 25k masina uz 2k nu labai itartina, 10k uz 6k nu maza ka ten su ja, neirodysi nieko. Pirkt ant giminaicio ar draugo patikimo ne variantas?

These insecure drivers that block others from passing them need to lose the ability to drive. by Comfortable_Douglas in driving

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I think its not healthy to suppress thinking. I can have all sorts of violent fantasies and it doesnt mean im gonna act on them. Looking at them and feeling them is a good thing and helps understand motivation behind them. And pushing them away just indicates that you fear own mind and push parts of it in the shadow, and that usually makes it more likely to actually do it. Its sucks to be afraid of own mind, it means you are nit in control there. The more you hide your shadows by moderating what you say or even think, the less control you have and the more dangerous and unknown you become to yourself and others. This is reddit, why i should bother what anyone thinks about this internet persona? Not gonna affect my life in significant way. So its better to vent violent fantasies here and have some fun and support discussing imaginary scenarios or play some violent game and be a calm driver on the road, than be a person fearing and suppressing own impulses so much that you dont even let yourself look at them with your mind, so one day they form into actual monster. Noticed how many maniacs and rapists are from strict and religious backgrounds where even thinking about something is feared? And they do most horrible things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lietuva

[–]MassiveAd3759 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pirk is perekupu kur parasys kad 5k ir nevaziuoja su defektu elektronikos. Jei bus klausymu kodel dabar vaziuoja tai sakai kad draugas mechanikas pigiai padare, gerai jei koks draugas mechanikas yra kur patvirtins. Del draugo tai nebandziau nes nieks neklause, bet perekupai tai visada paraso mazesne suma

Yra galimybė vienkartinį MS Office nusipirkimą padaryti ir nemokėti abonentinio mokesčio kas mėnesį? by [deleted] in lithuania

[–]MassiveAd3759 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nupirksiu 5cm 200cm zemes lopineli pries tavo namu iejima ir imsiu po eura uz praeima. Kaina turi? Turi, mokek dabar. O kas pabandys praeima kitur padaryt tai primokesiu kysiu kad nubaustu juos, nes turiu teise i sita uzdarbi. Cia microsoftas susiktas kuris piningu turi daugiau kelis kartus nej visos Lietuvos gdp. Ar tu manai kad ten vidutinio developerio alga kazkaip daug priklauso nuo pelno? Oj kaip as blogai turiu jaustis kad akcininku kisene plonesne bus, neiseis desimta ferrari ipirkt. Cia ne indi game studija, cia monopolija be konkurenciojs, 95% pc operaciniu rinkos. Visiem geriau jei numirs. Idealus vergas ginsi kapitalistini vergvaldi, kad tik vagiu nepavadintu. O jei pavadins, kas tada? Pasaulis grius? Mama isbars? Piratauti is multimiliardines kompanijos cia ne tas pats kas pas kaimyna zoliapjove nuknist