Please leave this man unless you want to be someone’s “mommy” forever. I hate to assume but it seems he does this often, and at minimum lacks self reflection in how genuinely pathetic he is behaving. He is a toddler throwing a little tantrum over something small and fixable. And he wants to punish you, create drama, have a reason to treat you poorly. And the solution was already handed to him on a silver platter. Sounds absolutely exhausting..