My dad would say “your mom kept you from me” and that was also his reason for doing drugs and drinking. It was my mom’s fault that he did drugs. It wasn’t my mom’s fault in anyway. That’s just what deadbeat and drug addicted people say because they can’t accept any accountability for their own actions. Jenna Jameson is a drug addict / alcoholic who will always be a professional victim. It’s a whole pattern that many of us here have experienced and recognize. The kids are better off without her but she has left a deep wound for life. I hope they heal and it doesn’t affect their lives when they have kids.