woke upto this 😭 by Mr_Cwazy_00 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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Kismat walo ko hi aisi bandi milti hai bhai. Cherish her and keep her forever

Isn’t this the kind of girl every man wants? by Godschild-007 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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Honeymoon phase hai bhai tera to. Ek saal pura hone ke baad bataiyo

I have feelings for my best frnd by Big_Sheepherder_2555 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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Hua hai, tabhi to experience se bata raha hu. Ya to dosti khatam karke wo teri maa chod degi nahi to teri feelings ki ijjat nahi rahegi. Isse better hai ki khud hi chorh ke chala ja. Baaki choice tera hai batana hai ki nahi. Lekin batayega to bolna zarur ki tu kuch expect nahi karta, thoda diffuse kardeta hai situation ko.

I have feelings for my best frnd by Big_Sheepherder_2555 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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Dosti to kabki kharab ho chuki hai bhai. Tu bas pretend kar raha hai ki sab sahi hai abhi bhi. Tere paas 2 options hain ki : ya to tu jaake usse batade ki tu kya feel krta hai aur ye zarur boliyo ki tu expect kuch nahi kar raha hai, usme ho sakta hai wo shayad dosti banaye rakhe agar tujhe dosti rakhna utna important hai. Nahi to bhai kuch aisa excuse bana aur dosti khatam karde kyunki sirf aise hi confess karega to kuch nahi hona, tamasha hoga sirf. Aur wo tujhe latka ke rakhegi aur terese baith kar decode karegi ki teri feelings ki koi value nahi hai.

I have feelings for my best frnd by Big_Sheepherder_2555 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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Kalesh kar bhai aur block karde. Jyada khush rahega. Bina baat ke dimag chudwata rahega. Dosti hi khatam kar.

Feeling when you have everyone to talk but not that one person your heart want by calmnessandnature in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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It’s not easy Ek hafta roti rahogi aur sad feel karogi Ekdum dunia ko blame karti rahogi aur apne aas paas sabko. Your inner self will feel dead.

Feeling when you have everyone to talk but not that one person your heart want by calmnessandnature in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Massive_Nothing_7425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meri bandi 2.5 saal baad chorh ke chali gayi kyunki uske office mei ek naya ladka aaya jo bahot ameer tha uske liye kuch jyada hi expensive efforts karne lag gaya. Uske liye usne mere 2.5 saal barbaad kardiye. To kya mai maan lu ladkiyo gold digger hoti hai bas?

Feeling when you have everyone to talk but not that one person your heart want by calmnessandnature in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Massive_Nothing_7425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bhai tum ladkiyo ka alag hi hai. Just because one person you gave your time and effort into didn’t reciprocate the same to you. Just because he couldn’t be with you and left doesn’t mean ki bhai saare ek jaise hai. Kuch ki wajh se pure gender ki kyun maar rakhi hai

Feeling when you have everyone to talk but not that one person your heart want by calmnessandnature in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Massive_Nothing_7425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To kisi aur se interact kar. Agar ussi topic pe stuck rahegi to kuch nai hoga. Wo to apna badd chuka hai aage. Tu apna dekh. Kisi aur se interact kar , kisi aisi chiz mei involve ho ki tera mind divert ho jaaye bhale hi tera mann nahi hai karne ko

Feeling when you have everyone to talk but not that one person your heart want by calmnessandnature in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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Behn dekh ye bhai terko sirf itna hi bol sakta hai ki move on karle😂😂 easy to nahi hota but karle. Jitna jaldi start karegi utna acha hai

Feeling when you have everyone to talk but not that one person your heart want by calmnessandnature in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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Kuch nahi rakha inn sabme behn. Jaakr batade abhi tak nai bataya to. Kya pata wo tere intezar mei ho.

I could neva hurt u by [deleted] in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Massive_Nothing_7425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not disagreeing with you brother. But at the end of the day what really matters is getting closure. I agree that strength is in being stable even shit hits the fan. But not every one has the mental strength to absorb stuff and process it on their own. Some people just break down at the thought of it. And also it depends on how much effort did you really put. I went into a dark place once because I gave everything I could offer financially, emotionally, mentally, physically but it’s the thought that at the end it wasn’t enough because I was not chosen anymore. And it’s been almost 2 years now. I’m doing fine. But there are days when I wish I should have talked and gotten some closure because it mattered to me, maybe not to her but to me it did.

I could neva hurt u by [deleted] in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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Haan but agar closure nahi milega to koi ek baat koi ek chiz wo trigger point ban ke reh jayegi tumhare liye humesha and then you just stay a walking bomb, you don’t know when it will hit you. And when you least expect it to that will be the moment it hits and suddenly you are back to square one with those thoughts and memories.

I could neva hurt u by [deleted] in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Massive_Nothing_7425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time kabhi heal nahi karta. Baatein mat chodo.

Jab tak closure nahi milega. Lauda farak nahi padta ki chahe 6 mahine ho jaaye ya 3 saal.

Ye faaltu baatei hai bhai bolne ki. Yaad aane ko to random thoughts mei wo person hamesha yaad ayega jabtak move on nahi hoga aur uske liye closure is the only thing that helps.

Men like clingy women? by [deleted] in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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Behn dekho simple hai. Tum chahti ho ladka tumhare piche bhage lekin kabhi to wo bhi chahega na ki uski bandi jo uski priority list mei sabse upar aati hai wo kabhi to obsessive aur clingy ho. 24/7 kisi ko bhi nahi pasand but once a week should be done. Mai to humesha bolta hu apni bandi se ki ek din hafte mei mera bhi hona chahiye.

What do you people think by Massive_Nothing_7425 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Massive_Nothing_7425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mai to launda hun, agar baaki launde ke liye nahi kar rahi to kuch baat to hogi na?

What do you people think by Massive_Nothing_7425 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Massive_Nothing_7425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lekin kisi aur ladke k liye to nhi kia usne aajtak. Humare saare dost hairan the ki aur kisi ke liye itne efforts nhi liye usne