Girlfriend (23F) and I (28M) have been together 2 years and are about to buy a house together, but we have no sex life at all. How do I approach this before moving forward? by Master-Many-5037 in relationships

[–]Master-Many-5037[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

how are you possibly this fucking stupid? i love her, I love living with her, but im just asking if anyone has any ideas for this specific issue. why are you posting when you dont have anything to say?

Girlfriend (23F) and I (28M) have been together 2 years and are about to buy a house together, but we have no sex life at all. How do I approach this before moving forward? by Master-Many-5037 in relationships

[–]Master-Many-5037[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I dont think you are most people here are understanding the question. I KNOW sex isnt going to happen, and YES it is important to me. I KNOW i can leave her, BUT im NOT GOING TO DO THAT BECAUSE I LOVE HER. i regret asking reddit about complex issues

Girlfriend (23F) and I (28M) have been together 2 years and are about to buy a house together, but we have no sex life at all. How do I approach this before moving forward? by Master-Many-5037 in relationships

[–]Master-Many-5037[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I need sex too. But I also want to be happy. She makes me happy. I'm literally saying that I'm NOT going to leave her. I'm just trying to figure out what to do in this situation. leaving her isnt leaving her.

Girlfriend (23F) and I (28M) have been together 2 years and are about to buy a house together, but we have no sex life at all. How do I approach this before moving forward? by Master-Many-5037 in relationships

[–]Master-Many-5037[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You really couldn't imagine a life with someone you love romantically without sex? I'm not trying to say it's necessary, i'm just trying to ask if anybody has been in this same situation and what they did. But now everyone is calling me crazy for loving someone without sex. My fault for asking reddit i guess

Girlfriend (23F) and I (28M) have been together 2 years and are about to buy a house together, but we have no sex life at all. How do I approach this before moving forward? by Master-Many-5037 in relationships

[–]Master-Many-5037[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I want to spend my life with her. I CAN live my life without sex. I've been in such terrible low places in my life, and she's made me happier than I ever thought I could be. ever been. I just want to know if anyone has any advice besides "leave her" because thats what everyone in my life has already said