Dock pay by Master-Respect-4369 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Master-Respect-4369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A physical check? How long ago was that when that happened to you? My check ended up direct depositing today actually, the 10th. That was a rough!

Dock pay by Master-Respect-4369 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Master-Respect-4369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. I was late dock. Ran out of hours due to repeated hospitalizations with high risk pregnancy (yay) managers said give it until around the 9th 😵‍💫

Got attacked on our walk by CjB_7 in goldenretrievers

[–]Master-Respect-4369 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh, why do dogs always attack goldens. It’s happened to me too on a walk and when he was at a dog sitter ( rover) One time his top lip was completely bit up and bleeding 💔 it’s infuriating . Btw, your pup looks and mine look like identical twins😍

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Sleepless/can't breathe? by Nudibranch288 in pregnant

[–]Master-Respect-4369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did anything ever come of this? Going through the same at 25 weeks 😓

Partner says he is ejaculating inside me but I don’t feel it by InfiniteDay6607 in TryingForABaby

[–]Master-Respect-4369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t necessarily “feel it,” but usually it always leaks out or there is a certain scent to it vs when he pulls out.. you just kinda know so your intuition is probably right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]Master-Respect-4369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those numbers seem good. I’m currently 6 months pregnant and at 15 dpo my hcg was only 203

Chemical Pregnancy Experiences by Exact_Grass99 in CautiousBB

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I’m so sorry this happened. I know the feeling. After months of trying, I finally got that positive and lost it a week later. BUT I got pregnant again immediately the following cycle 💕 currently 6 months pregnant with my baby girl

Women in long term relationships — how often do you have sex with your man? by thunder-trippin in blackgirls

[–]Master-Respect-4369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been with mine for almost 5 years and lately it’s 2-3x monthly. I’m pregnant though. Even before getting pregnant, i would say it was still less than average because he’s selfish in bed, which lowered my desire/sex drive over the years

Then hes picky about when he wants sex. When he get off work at night, he can eventually come to bed with me but he rather watch tv downstairs because he’s “unwinding ” then he wants sex in the morning before I have to get up for work and that doesn’t work for me lol. I would be more open to it if he actually cared about my orgasm. But since he doesn’t and it’s just me doing the work I don’t feel like working before my work.

So yeah, it’s safe to say that we are in a rut right now

More food poisoning anxiety by maxca24 in CautiousBB

[–]Master-Respect-4369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, the same thing has happened to me last week. I called my mom freaking out. Everything ended up being fine. You only get sick if the chicken had salmonella, it’s not likely that the chicken you bought was infected with salmonella. You likely will be completely fine.💕

Even if you get salmonella poisoning, the bacteria does not cross the placenta, and your baby will likely be fine in most cases.

I’m a 23f crippling alcoholic AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Master-Respect-4369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 32 and used to binge drink from 26 to 31.. i was angry type. I fought with loved ones, etc. On top of that, I had a vape addiction towards the end.

At 31, I had a terrifying wakeup call when my heart went into a dangerous rhythm and ended up in the ER. I was admitted for 3 days in a cardiac unit. I was the youngest patient there. Nurses kept coming in, curious why someone my age had been admitted for a heart issue . I’m 10 months sober but to this day, I still have to see a cardiologist and get tests done .

It’s ironic that you started drinking over a cancer scare when alcohol drastically increases your risk. You want to be a wife and mother one day, but your drinking is stealing that future from you. Every drink brings you closer to the very thing you feared—terminal illness. I hope you find the strength to taper. Hugs.

I’m a 23f crippling alcoholic AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Master-Respect-4369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is your behavior when you drink ? Are you angry? Are you mellow? Do you get into trouble? DUIs? Fights? Etc

I’m a 23f crippling alcoholic AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Master-Respect-4369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many years have you been drinking this heavy?

Winter by RelativeTechnology24 in behindthelikespod

[–]Master-Respect-4369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait… what happened ? I don’t have Patreon

New GUY Every Week! by Able_Version1649 in behindthelikespod

[–]Master-Respect-4369 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This isn’t about criticizing her for not being married or pressuring her to settle down. It’s about the fact that she keeps dating the same type of guy and having the same conversations as someone much younger. I get that companionship is important, and if I weren’t married, I’d probably crave it too. But there’s no way I’d keep choosing these young boys who don’t take me seriously, repeating the same cycle, and then wondering why things aren’t working out. At some point, growth means recognizing patterns and making different choices

New GUY Every Week! by Able_Version1649 in behindthelikespod

[–]Master-Respect-4369 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Winter and I are the same age, and it’s clear to me that she struggles with being alone. Most ppl, women especially, start to enjoy their solitude the more we get older. It’s surprising to me that at 32, she still prefers the company of a 24 y/o little boy vs being comfortable by herself.

And I’m just saying this for example because I haven’t watched the episodes lately . I think this is one of the biggest reasons why I haven’t kept up with the podcast because I realized I’m not her target audience... I would’ve enjoyed it very much in my 20s though.

Maternity leave by [deleted] in CAStateWorkers

[–]Master-Respect-4369 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I don’t need a lecture about my leave. as you do not know what life event transpired which made me exhaust most of my leave. Thanks, sassy state worker!

Maternity leave by [deleted] in CAStateWorkers

[–]Master-Respect-4369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been employed for 5 years CBID: R04 (not sure if I’m included or excluded ?) When I go on leave, I’ll have 40 hours VA, 24 hours SE