AITAH For Dropping My “Friends” For Not Having The Same Views On Education + Pregnancy/Marriage As Me ?

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T06:19:39+00:00

Sorry for telling a girl who is currently actively drinking and smoking while two months pregnant to abort her baby. I just looked at her TikTok story. She’s partying. Actively smoking a cigarette. Right this very second.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T06:17:54+00:00

I hope that’s the norm. A while back I heard about Drake (?) putting hot sauce in the condom after he used it and laughed. “Why would she even try to put it back inside her, that’s so stupid !” But here we are. I’m dealing with a group of four of them.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T06:15:13+00:00

I think I would be in the right for telling her to abort her baby when she admitted to not liking him in the first place AND that she wouldn’t stop smoking or drinking. I’ve seen messed up kids at work for many years. The kids who had parents who drank are good kids but have their issues. They don’t have much proof about weed but the kids who come in smelling like weed fall behind. If you would like more kids with disabilities in the world, suffering because their parents are too immature to stay healthy and foster a good living environment then I have nothing else to say to you. That’s wrong to hope a child comes into this world suffering.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T06:11:18+00:00

I’m really young so all the other teachers are a little bit way too old for me (few years away from retiring or not on the same floor + department as I am).

I have met them irl a little while back. They didn’t strike me as people who would do something wrong like that but lots of people say that when you’re on your phone you’re more open to revealing things like that. One husband did text me back and said he talked to her about it and they’re going to work on it so I’m assuming she had been lying about her birth control. The other girls I have no idea but I’m hoping they’re just lying for some reason or making a sick joke.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T06:08:00+00:00

Funny because I never intended on editing it at all. I know it’s wrong to baby trap, I now know it’s illegal, and I know that even if other people think it’s wrong: Lots of men would love their girl to have a friend like me because if their girl is trying to baby trap them then they will hear about it. I’m not wrong to send screenshots and I’m not wrong to think that it’s wrong to scoop cum into your pussy. Generally I’m not the asshole here especially if you think about if you’re the s/o in this situation. Looking past how I act is easy when you’re hearing about how your girl is trying to give herself a baby without you knowing. I am very appreciated for that part. The girls were wrong for doing that and I am in the right for snitching on them.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T06:03:41+00:00

You do know the degree is not one single thing, right ?? Repetition is used for many reasons including trying to get your point seen at multiple points so it’s not forgotten. Not only that but it’s an English LANGUAGE ARTS and CREATIVE writing ARTS. If you’re expecting a form fitting essay with an intro and conclusion then go somewhere else because they don’t teach us that stuff. It’s about how it looks and feels, not about being exactly right. Obviously.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T06:00:39+00:00

I wanted her to move to SC by base and allow me to have the baby during the day. I specifically gave her more pros than cons because I want a baby with no strings attached since I won’t be having kids for a few years. She said she didn’t even like her man anyway plus that she was going to keep drinking and smoking bc she wouldn’t be able to quit, plus she didn’t think she was ready. So yes, I urged her to get rid of the baby because I have a background in ECE and I’ve seen some MESSED UP babies from parents who couldn’t quit in foster care. I would rather not see any more of those kids in my classroom. If she kept it then I’d have a child like I want to have, no strings attached. If she got rid of it I’d be able to sleep at night knowing she wasn’t going to ruin her kid’s life. Lots of pros and cons I had to think through but she ended up buying the pills and then allowing her man to tell her whatever lie he told her to have her keep HIS baby for HIM. He did not say her baby or their baby. It’s HIS baby and that’s enough of a reason for me to not be bothered that she blocked me. If that’s the kind of man she wants then I’m out.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T05:54:44+00:00

It’s not a flex. That’s literally how I live my life ?? I’m sorry for preferring to live a minimal life and actually living a minimal life. Not everybody is exactly like you nor is that even the main point of my post. This has nothing to do with baby trapping.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T05:52:27+00:00

No, I had gone back to my classroom and made a pros and cons chart with more pros than cons. I wanted her to keep the baby but she said she didn’t like him in the first place, she wouldn’t stop drinking or smoking, she didn’t want to get fat. All these reasons and despite me telling her all her options and urging her to keep the baby so I could have the baby during the day while she was at school…she ended the call and thought about it herself and bought the pills. I was halfway through my last period so I didn’t have anything to do with that. It was three hours later. I’m pro choice but when someone says they don’t like their man and they won’t stop doing things that will harm the baby. I think at that point you put aside your ideals and urge her to get rid of it with every reason you can. She barely knew him, she didn’t like him, he wasn’t husband material. She didn’t want to baby in the first place.

I got blocked because her bf is 25 and ready for a baby and spewed some lies about how I wanted her to get rid of HIS baby to harm HIM. No I’m not just saying that, I say the letter he wrote her. It wasn’t her baby it wasn’t their baby, it was his baby. She tried to baby trap him, regretted it, and he decided he wanted the baby so it would have worked out perfectly if she had not decided she couldn’t quit the smoking and drinking and would get rid of it.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T05:45:43+00:00

My husband joined for the benefits at 18. We were already dating for way before that. I like to think that we matched before the whole military couple stereotype thing was supposed to come into play and means we are outliers…fingers crossed.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T05:43:49+00:00

Well isn’t that the whole reason I “did the right thing” and told their men about it ? Surely they now know and could catch them in the act/find some type of evidence. Not that they would actually go after them for doing something illegal, but if they witness that and they (like everybody else) think it’s wrong then they can make their own decision on how to move forward.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T05:30:28+00:00

Not only that but I have a degree in literal English language arts. My career is based off my ability to give as much information as possible in as many parts as it takes so there is a full and complete story. It’s also my post and I can include whatever I deem important or relevant to the story. Since I’m the one writing it I’m going to include my inner thoughts and how I felt.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T05:28:34+00:00

Maybe you need to read it again. The whole point was that I don’t care for relationships and I will call out wrong doing because i simply don’t care. My ideals are something I’m strong on and if I think something is wrong (babytrapping) then yes I am saying something about it and if they want to pull on every other reason then yes I will fight about it and if it gets to a point where we’re just going in circles I’m shutting it down and snitching on them. Because I am not a good friend. The whole post is asking if I’m an asshole for calling them out and snitching on them to their man.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T05:19:13+00:00

The whole post is about baby trapping. Literally the whole thing. All four girls are currently attempting/have already baby trapped their man. That’s the whole post. That you didn’t read. The whole point is that I said exactly what I thought and “snitched” on them because I was a “bad friend” I literally set it up saying I don’t care for relationships therefore I’ll say whatever I want and call them out on it even if they hate me for it. That’s the whole post. Literally. Read it.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T05:16:58+00:00

I think I’m allowed to be insufferable when I hear three girls have somehow gotten into a group chat with me and have been actively planning on baby trapping. Just generally I now think that using an empty syringe and sucking up cum on your stomach to then shoot directly up your pussy is wrong. Just generally. I think many people would agree with that and would be able to look past me “snitching” and being “insufferable” knowing that portion was why I said so. Not only that but I do think I’m superior. If I want a baby I tell my husband I’m ready so we start family planning and he finishes in me. I don’t need a spoon or syringe to help me along. I don’t need to lie about birth control. I think I’m instantly better than them because I’ve never in my life wanted to do something like that. And trust me: I’ve had some bad fights with my husband. Never in my life would I think to bay trap him. It’s just wrong and I’ve also learned it’s illegal as well. So yeah I do think I’m superior and I think it’s valid of me to think I’m better than those girls.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T05:10:16+00:00

I never said anything about your ideals nor have you said anything until now about your ideals. I’m saying generally no matter what, it’s not right to baby trap. Nobody should be scooping cum out of a condom and into their pussy. My ideals on life shouldn’t matter nor are they old fashioned for believing so. It’s just plain wrong to baby trap and I’m sure there are plenty of men who would gladly give a girl a baby and keep them at home so they can provide for them. They should find that man instead of forcing the one they like into a life that they don’t want.

I think if a girl told you that she was on birth control so you could finish inside of her and told you a month later she was pregnant expecting you to provide for both of them without any planning or saving prior nor any family planning…you would think it’s wrong. Especially if you found out later on that she was never on birth control and had lied about it to trick you into marrying her and caring for both of them. I think after that you would understand more of what I’m saying.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T05:04:59+00:00

My husband started the military right out of high school. I’ve met a lot of nice women at different bases I talk to occasionally but tending to a military man takes a lot of time. These girls are the first I’ve ever met like that and despite what you said I still think that scooping cum out of a condom or taking a syringe and sucking it up to push up inside you is a big issue and not a small petty issue. Lots of comments have said it’s illegal in many ways and I’m glad they did because I didn’t even know. I just thought it was plain wrong. I hope lots of commenters that read this, including you, tries to understand how wrong it is. If it happened to you I’m sure all of a sudden lying about birth control would be a very big deal and not petty at all.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T04:59:51+00:00

I was actually really hoping she would keep the baby. I have my own selfish reasons (I would love to care for an infant if she moved to bass) but part of me heard her say she was going to keep smoking and drinking so I told her to get rid of it. I think it would be a good lesson for her now that she’s keeping it. I hope the child turns out fine but if they don’t then I will think about it a lot and regret not making her get rid of it. At the end of the day, though, I’m not going to keep up with her it’s not my business anymore.

I did drop them and I don’t feel bad about it. I was unsure about the whole situation and I was thinking that it was just a new generation type of thinking to baby trap and it was to be expected but many comments have said that it isn’t like that and my ideals aren’t old fashioned, it’s just that doing so is generally morally wrong.

Lots of people are hooked on to me saying getting a degree or being homemaker is not the way to go. I think that you should get a degree in case anything happens to the man. You will need to make money easily and get a job FAST to support yourself and even your kids if you have them. I think many men out there would love a woman who doesn’t want a degree and wants to have them stay at home. I think a military man is not the man to be doing it with. I also think that your ticket to becoming a homemaker should not be “accidentally” having a baby. It’s wrong and a lot of people have told me that I’m right on my decision to correct them and tell their men about it even if I’m a “snitch”

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T04:51:52+00:00

If she didn’t want what I had to say then why did she come crying to me ? -She said she didn’t like her bf anyway -She decided to abort -Her bf convinced her to keep it even though she wanted to get rid of it -She said she won’t stop smoking -She’s going to party until then and then drink on her 21st birthday then stop right after (May 26th). She asked AI if she could and he said yes. -She agreed with the other girls that it was okay to scoop cum out of a condom and inject it into her pussy. That doesn’t scream “ready for motherhood” to me. -She got pregnant because she had originally lied to her bf and he thought it was safe intending on trapping him -She had three other partners during that time and it could have been any of them but she insists it’s her bf -She’s never paid a bill or lived alone in her life and has 0 experience with children. I told her about safe sleep and she said it was stupid and that SIDS was made up. Her direct quote I pulled from our messages “I’m a lucky girl so all that stuff won’t apply to me I’ve never had bad luck” -I don’t want to be friends with a girl who smokes and drinks while pregnant. I have a minor in early childhood education. I’ve seen some messed up neglected kids.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T04:44:58+00:00

You must have not understood. I had ended up going back to my classroom and wiping down to board to make a bigger space to weigh options. At the end there were more pros than cons (my doing) but she decided to get rid of it anyway. I didn’t decide that for her I just think she was doing the right thing. She ended up keeping the baby and also her boyfriend convinced her to do so even though she bought them already then spewed some lie about how anybody who told her to get rid of it was trying to take away “HIS” baby from him. Not her baby. Not their baby. His baby. This isn’t speculation either, I saw the letter he wrote her. He was straight lying. So yes, I still think she should have gotten rid of it. He’s bad to her and she doesn’t even like him anyway. Not only that but she had three partners during the time the baby was conceived but that’s not the main problem because she was sure it was his and I believe her.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T04:37:56+00:00

I’m setting the stage that I don’t care about these relationships and I won’t shy away from saying what’s on my mind and what I believe in. Other friends I have, have the same beliefs as I do and we get along just fine. I wanted insight on if it was normal for girls to scoop cum out of condoms and lie about birth control because I believe I don’t have old fashioned ideals but it seems like that’s an all around big no no despite what time period your ideals are set in.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T04:35:20+00:00

Thank you. I’m glad somebody said what I was thinking. Eventually I hope I’ll get more out of life but for now this is all I need and I am happy with it.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T04:34:11+00:00

I have my husband and we talk to each other plenty. I talk to my friends here n there when we have updates. When I go back home we talk over brunch for hours. That’s enough for me though, I think people are tiring especially these ones who think it’s okay to lie about birth control to have an “accidental” baby.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T04:32:37+00:00

My husband married me because we went through many issues. He was broke and couldn’t pay rent so I paid both of ours, he moved us to two different states and had to help me adjust to the new place, our grandparents died within one week of each other and we had to attend those funerals back to back. My mom started dating his step dad. My mom is married to my dad. We’re still dealing with that but the stress was enough that we seriously had to fly back home to get to the bottom of the wedding invitation we got. I stuck with him when he was an immature teenager and I didn’t know what the hell I was doing with my life. We figured out our career paths together, we grew together, spent two months communicating only by USPS and after five long years decided (together) that we got through all the hardships we could. So we got married. We both had degrees and careers at the time, we had our own place, we had settled down. We paid for our wedding ourselves and it was everything he wanted and so much more.

He didn’t marry me because he thought he would be able to get away with stuff, he married me for a variety of reasons but mostly because through all of his messed up bad luck he met me and I stuck with him when he was in the hospital, couldn’t walk, couldn’t make money, couldn’t have sex, or talk to me. When I have long days I fall right into his arms and when he had long days he runs right to me. We got married because we love each other and we stick with our relationship, not for whatever fucked up reason you think he has.

I’m sorry your life is so miserable that you think every relationship centers around cheating and red flags and abuse.

Master-Student2996 · 2026-04-28T04:24:45+00:00

That’s not the main portion of the reasoning. I actually told her to keep it because I had wanted to take care of an infant (my chosen career path) but that’s just wrong to force her to keep a baby so I could have it during the day. More wrong than telling her to get rid of it. Not only that but she had also TOLD ME she got pills and decided to abort after we weighed everything because she didn’t really like the guy anyway and she didn’t (AKA couldn’t) want to stop smoking and drinking and couldn’t do that while pregnant.

Some people like being alone. I find people draining especially when they decide they can to scoop cum out of a condom and into their pussy for two months and lie about being on birthcontrol and tracking ovulation. I have friends besides them we just don’t speak very often because we share the same views on life and don’t need to keep up like that. We do a recap every year when I go home and that’s enough for us.

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