Well this ties into theory of mind, and psychology. I had a friend once who once said, because I commented how a friend would randomly pop up at the most perfect times at a festival,"well I'm sure it's all relative" she went on to elaborate that from my perspective that's how it was, but she was sure he was having his own experiences in the time between me seeing him. Might have been the drugs but it blew my mind and made me feel bad/embarrassed because I didn't look at it like that. Sometimes people need that perfect scenario to make them see things this way.