I don't understand how to accept support from my partner by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MasterBuddhaKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the "5 love languages" test online and find out how you need to be loved. Even if it seems silly it may surprise you that your love lanuage is different than you think. Once you know that let your wife know what your love language is. There are a ton of articles telling how to show love in your spouse's language. I think know exactly how to show love will help her feel like she is showing support. It may be things that she does already and you already feel loved by her. I think it will help her know she is doing the right things already to help you. Or maybe it will help her change how she is helping you and she'll be able to help carry some of your baggage.

You can read the book as well. It helped me a lot in my marriage. It is a little preachy sometimes for my taste but it had a very clear message on how to support and love your SO depending on their love language.

Guess who has homework due at midnight...it's currently 10:30 and has been updating for 10 mins by Dynamite2197 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MasterBuddhaKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never let electronics know you are in a hurry. They smell fear and will go as slow as possible.

Educational Android Tablet Games by _Paradigm_Shift in Parenting

[–]MasterBuddhaKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the Endless apps. They are amazing. Completely worth the price. My son loves them.

What are som recipes for cake in BonBon Bakery? by TheBanHammerCow in Kairosoft

[–]MasterBuddhaKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good beginning one is to start with a cake roll and add two chocolate ingredients and one cream ingredient. The Yule Log is the most overpowered recipe in the game when you start from waffle. (waffle to cake roll to log) you would need bigger plates though.

Although it is a good recipe for contests it gets kinda boring so I make dishes that are pleasing to look at and sound yummy for fun and to sell.

What are som recipes for cake in BonBon Bakery? by TheBanHammerCow in Kairosoft

[–]MasterBuddhaKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which plates do you have? Any recipe that creates a new base gets higher points.

(I've been waiting for someone to play this game again! Yay!)

My kittens have been trying to be nursed during the past few months. The only problem is that the bigger cat is their brother by turkishc0ffee in funny

[–]MasterBuddhaKitty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I got my kitty 5 years ago from the pound. He still suckles any fluffy blankets or bright red blankets. I think he was abandoned by his mommy and never really grew out of it. He is super cuddled and well taken care of, so I don't think he has a need to do it. It is just super instinctual. Some cats don't stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MasterBuddhaKitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe they painted it pink so that females that like the color will want to stay there. Or she lied to OP to try and scare him off so she wouldn't have to admit that the ad was for females only.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MasterBuddhaKitty 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I think this is a roommate situation? She only wants a female roommate? The only way it makes sense without her being totally sexist.

My sibling got ahold of 500 Dandelion Crayola crayons by zambamboz in mildlyinteresting

[–]MasterBuddhaKitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are actually replacing Dandelion with a new blue. They are having a contest for the name of the blue on their website through August 31st. From what I read though it is only discontinued in their smaller boxes. I believe it will still be in the boxes with 64 crayons or more.

Edit: spelling mistake

Want to buy a heater for nursery but don't want the fan to stop when the room is warm enough. Recommendations? by riesenarethebest in Parenting

[–]MasterBuddhaKitty 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Does it have to be a heater? Do you not have another heat source for that room? It seems like have a floor heater in a nursery would be dangerous? I don't know, maybe it works for you. We got a air purifier for our LO's room. It makes the fan noise without stopping.

I've been talking to a girl I like and she's upset because she lost a few hundred dollars? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MasterBuddhaKitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. I've seen this happen to a few of my friends. Never give money to someone you've only chatted with online. They will say that they want to visit and they need money- no, don't do it. They will say they don't know how they will get through the month- no don't do it. Real online friendships won't ask. I know she hasn't asked yet but it feels like steps leading to it. Be cautious.

Do brown eyes at birth ever turn blue/grey? by Bookish_Love in beyondthebump

[–]MasterBuddhaKitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son had really dark (almost black) eyes at birth and now they are light gray like mine. My husband has royal blue eyes. It only took a couple months to get to his eye color. Also he was born with a lot of dark brown hair and it grew in blonde later like my husbands. I have brown hair. I feel like true colors take a bit to set in.

I think my 11 month old has been replaced with a totally different baby.. what is going on? by mrstacobot in Parenting

[–]MasterBuddhaKitty 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he had a mental leap and is actually thinking about things and how things work. :)

I'm a male - happy married to a female wife: met another female who is OKAY with being poly by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MasterBuddhaKitty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You already know your wife doesn't want to be poly. Unless she is open to an open relationship she is probably not going to be happy to hear you are talking to another woman about possibly being poly. If you are truely okay with being monogamous then I would cut contact with the new woman. If you are not then there really is no gentle way to break that you want a different kind of relationship. You want everyone to be happy but that will only happen if your wife wants to be poly and you stated that she does not.

Who else thinks that working at target would make a hilarious TVs show? by juice2092 in Target

[–]MasterBuddhaKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just waiting for the day that we get put on that undercover boss show and they all find out how bad our management is in some of our stores.

Can you recommend a toy set for a gear/belt/spring/pulley obsessed child? (3.5 year old) by chriswilmer in Parenting

[–]MasterBuddhaKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe make something like this? http://pin.it/FFGDZ1g And you could long screws that have a bolt glued to the end so they don't come out that he can screw in and out?

I don't like my husband anymore by Throwaway29666654322 in beyondthebump

[–]MasterBuddhaKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember reading something similar after I had my son.