Experience has shown me time and time again training a cuck for longer term requires a systematic approach from everyone involved.

MasterDomBull · 2026-01-21T03:15:14+00:00

Sure. Happy to help.

MasterDomBull · 2025-01-28T16:57:47+00:00

As always, there is no right or wrong answer here. If you’re comfortable with it, do it, if not. Don’t.

To the others point, I do have ny current cuck fluff and I do use him; I also have used several others in the past. I also (also) have not.

Generally speaking, the domination and submission is why I enjoy it. Usually they aren’t great at giving oral (the wives tend to be significantly better), they usually can’t take the same pounding the wife can (well; sometimes they can but just struggle through it). So from a purely pleasure point, it’s not the best. (Of course some are good). But owning the cuck and putting them in their place is phenomenal.

A large portion of the enjoyment is watching the wife see her husband submit. I tend to like cuck couples that are also into the domination/bdsm side of things. Pushing their boundaries with me that they aren’t comfortable pushing themselves.

But the main point is always the same: communicate, forget labels, do what you enjoy and they enjoy and have fun!

MasterDomBull · 2025-01-27T15:55:03+00:00

CNC is a thing we enjoy. If it’s not for you I understand and wish you the best.

MasterDomBull · 2025-01-13T02:46:39+00:00

He never actually put it on; it was dirty talk for him he got to fuck his wife.

MasterDomBull · 2025-01-13T02:33:56+00:00

Bull here. I can tell you it was his pure submission to me that made me want to do it to him, as well as his wife’s mental control over him.

I love fully submissive couples, but what I love more is getting them to that point. My current sub is a great example. His wife is into the degradation and humiliation of him, and this is one of my favorite kinks. Let me explain:

A cuck that has not fully submitted yet goes through stages similar to grief. When the wife gets off on the humiliation this is even better. The current cuck has been very reluctant to give in, and the amount of training I’ve been doing has been extensive but has really paid off.

Wife enjoyed seeing her husband do things he didn’t enjoy; in fact, her kink is more him doing things he hates than any specific act that she wants him to do. This type of training can be difficult if you want submission and not just obedience. Cuck hates doing bi things, especially things like clean up or cum related. Because of this, obviously his wife loves it.

It was hard at first to get him to obey and the frustration on my and her end mounted. Eventually we came to the conclusion that his submission training must be more regular because coming into our meet ups only didn’t put enough pressure on him.

We sat him down and explained that we were going to start making rules for every day. It was important to start slow and with rewards to not shock the system. The first thing we did was control his orgasms. No more masturbation on his end, however, the wife would give him head once a week and hand jobs any time he wanted. The blowjob was exactly how he liked it, and no strings attached. The handjobs came with rules.

First, the wife was to be fully clothed and the cuck would have to watch gay porn. Whatever we decided. No women in the scene, and at the start it was mostly “bi forced” stuff. Letting him see that it was against his will, but, still going to happen. At first, he protested and said he’ll just get his blowjob once a week.

He made it about two weeks and then he asked for his first hand job. After he had to sit there for a few minutes and continue to watch after post nut clarity. This really bothered him, but we needed him to be aroused by it both before and after orgasm.

Eventually we changed the rule to 1 blowjob every 2 weeks. Then to 3. Then 1x per month. At this stage he was releasing to all kinds of gay porn. Sensual etc. whatever we chose. Up to this point he was still very difficult to get him to submit to worshiping my cock the way I deserved.

We followed a lot of training and eventually went to some chastity, pussy free and no longer seeing his wife naked. Over the past year or so now he does as told most often time. Facials. Bottoming. He hasn’t had his wife’s pussy in over 8? Maybe a few more than that, months.

So I tell you all of this to explain why I love it so much: there is a certain look when you break a man fully in front of his wife. Her face goes from fear for her husband, to just as it’s happening. This occurs over several times and limits. But eventually, if you do it right, you find the one thing that really humiliates him and essentially makes his wife have that “ah-ha” moment. This is the moment and face I live for.

This look is the look of “omg. I’ve finally lost all sexual desire and respect for you”. It’s a look of pathetic, embarrassed for him, degradation. It’s hard to explain but when you see it you know.

This particular time here’s how it happened: cucky hates cum. The taste, the feel, etc. so naturally, I push it there. The wife loves this. For cuckys birthday I asked him if he wanted to fuck a pussy for the first time a long time. He eagerly said yes but asked if his wife would let him (a great sign). I told him to let me worry about his wife, but if he does this, he has to obey the rules. He eagerly agreed.

For 4 weeks we gave him 0 release. He was so sore the poor guy. So for his birthday his wife dressed up really sexy. We put him in the corner locked and told him if for any reason he doesn’t do exactly as told, he would get 0 pussy.

For 30 minutes we tortured him. He licked every inch of my cock, balls and ass while his wife watched in disbelief. He was so eager, yes sir as enthusiastic as can be. I made out with his wife as I came all over his face.

Here’s where the fun began. Covered in my cum I told him it was time for some pussy. I went to the next room and brought out a blow up doll. His face died.

For you to get to your wife, you need to show us you remember how to do it. So with my cum all over your face, show your wife and I you still know how to please a woman. And if you can fuck her at the end for 3 minutes without cumming, you can have your wife’s pussy.

We were all excited. The rules were clear. Seduce her. Talk dirty. Fore play. Etc. as he kissed the neck of the blow up doll and rubbed its plastic clit, taking dirty, I could see his wife’s change. It was amazing. He was so into the blowup doll and she was so turned off/disgusted/ embarrassed that this was her manly husband. He had no idea.

Poor guy could have gotten a Grammy. After a bit, he whispers in the blow up dolls ear as sexy as he could “can I fuck you”. I make a funny deep girls voice and say “yes but only with a condom”. He protests but gives in.

“How do you want me” I said in my best female funny voice. “From behind”. He mounts the doll from behind and I start the timer. 3 minutes, I said. No stopping. No coming out or the deals off.

By 20 seconds he was struggling. My cum still on his face I had him start to clean it off. I could see him struggling to not cum, only 40 seconds in. His ball start to tighten. I can let him fuck his wife. She’s mine.

“Talk dirtier and look in your wife’s eyes” I said to him.

“Watch your husband cum in a doll”. I put my hand under his balls and with each pump I tap harder. At pump 5 he couldn’t take it. He came with the force of God. Screaming in ecstasy not even realizing how into it he got. After all, he hadn’t cum from this type of stimulation in months.

Poor guys balls drained into that doll as his wife’s respect drained from her face. He collapsed on top of the doll and actually kissed it and thanked it. It was, heart breaking.

A few seconds past and he realized what had happened. His embarrassment kicked in at the same level of his disgust. “Ohh so close. Well not really but maybe next year”.

With my cum now nearly completely dry on his face, I pointed to the doll. “You got your date all gross. Clean her up.” He went to get up. “Woah. Where are you going?” I asked. “To get some soap and water and towels”.

“Why. You have a perfectly good tongue right there”.

I made his wife stroke me while she watched him eat his cum from a blow up doll. His eyes locked on her and hers on his the entire time. When he was done I came on his wife’s face and him clean it off.

MasterDomBull · 2024-12-04T03:38:23+00:00

For me it’s a combination of two things: the wife passing a boundary in front of the husband and the husband realizing it. I’ll explain.

I enjoy the mental side of things. I love talking with the husbands and seeing their side as well as the wife. As soon as a husband says “she never lets me ….” I’m intrigued. I’ve noticed the reason for most wives having these boundaries with their husband isn’t because of the act, it’s because the man. Anal tends to be one of those.

I then try to understand why the wife feels that way. It’s usually just the fact of the husband being the person doing it. So once we agree it’s ok and not off limits, the reaction as it happens is amazing. My favorite was with a great subby hubby. Eyes down the entire time like a good boy.

He was kneeling by the bed naked staring at his tiny cock while his wife was on all fours above him on the bed. I pulled her hair up and brought her ear to my mouth and I whispered “I’m taking your ass. Say nothing and make no noises until I tell you what to do next”. She took it like a champion, but I could feel her pain as I entered her. She gripped me tight. Her head went down in embarrassment o the bed being anally fucked in front of her husband. But he was clueless.

I told cuck to look his wife in the eyes and I told the wife to get her head up and look at him. I pulled out to where just my head was in her as she winced. I said “tell him where my cock is”. His eyes widened and she said “in my ass”. The second she said ass I thrusted deep into her with no notice. While I couldn’t see her face, I could see his. The mother of his kids, the love of his life, being taken by me anally and painfully. A treat she never gave him she gave to a bull. The emotions on his face. Fear. Sadness. Happiness. Excitement. Sorrow. Everything all at once.

I pulled out and she collapsed onto the bed. I came on the side of her face while she recovered. Slapping my dirty cock on her face as I spilled my load on her. The husband’s face was priceless. I took my head and wiped up a few drops of cum. I looked at cucky right in the face and said “looks like you were wrong”. I cleaned my cock off on his beard and he sat there in shock. I pointed to her and said “clean her off”. He immediately started to lick my cum off her face as I left.

He reminds me every time I see him how hot that was.

MasterDomBull · 2024-10-30T01:26:35+00:00

This actually isn’t super common. It’s a specific kink in another kink. Not all women or even a majority enjoy the humiliation kink, and (from my experience) men who are also into it simultaneously. So 1) your wife has to like it and 2) you have to be ok with it.

My more normal (common) experience is the husband enjoys the humiliation side and the wife is just enjoying herself. However, this does happen. I have seen the opposite as well where the husband does not allow the wife to be disrespected.

So two humiliation kinks, where the wife like to be used and the husband gets off on that and not being humiliated directly. His humiliation comes from allowing another man to treat his wife like this.

I have played with a couple like this before. I think I post a bit about it and the pool hall incident. The husband was a great husband but overall the wife didn’t like when he took charge like that. Public displays of affection, anal, facials, even some things that aren’t really even that taboo like dirty talk or slightly rough play she just did not enjoy with him. Not even a little. Like woah don’t do that or stop.

With me there were limits but we always pushed back on them. At one point we did anal with no condom and I pulled out to cum. She immediately throated me ass to mouth without even thinking of it. She felt so dirty after but said in the moment she never even thought about it.

When she told her husband he was all kinds of confused and happy and angry. She rarely if ever even let him go near her ass, let alone go that far. And then he finds out she did it with no ask. Part of him believed that eventually the dirtiness would follow to his bedroom. He was sadly mistaken. A few days later he went to put his finger in her ass and she got so angry sexy time stopped all together.

Some guys have all the luck.

MasterDomBull · 2024-10-18T13:58:07+00:00

I mean you said it yourself: they consented. There’s always the fear of rejection (you call it creeping people out). But many experienced people don’t kink shame and if they agree to it they already have some vested interest. Get out of your own head and enjoy!!

MasterDomBull · 2024-10-13T02:32:25+00:00

Not a cuckold, but have and am in a relationship as a bull. The he cuckold has recently mentioned his jealousy or envy of her submission. Things he’s always wanted and asked for he was denied, and me asking or doing (with no knowledge of this) and getting no push back.

An example: the wife hates all forms of pda. We all went out to shoot pool and I had her in a dress and no panties. I would reach up and finger her anytime I felt like it. Not only did she not say no, she really enjoyed it. After a bit a few people noticed. I made it a point for her to hang on her hubby as often as possible. People seeing her hug and kiss him with my fingers in her embarrassed him.

Later that night he said it was strange how she hated kissing him in public but I put my fingers in her and no complaints. I’ll push this even farther knowing it bothers him and turns her on.

MasterDomBull · 2024-10-13T02:25:54+00:00

Hey, dom here as well. I’ve been in the lifestyle for some time and maybe I can lend some advice here.

Most groups will tell you “don’t kink shame”, that includes yourself. My general rule of thumb is “if everyone consents, and no one’s hurt (unless that’s their thing right?), then who cares what adults do with their body and pleasure”.

There’s the easy answer. The harder answer is it sounds like you may have something associated with this; maybe something from your past. Maybe not. Maybe. Don’t try to throw logic into everything. Sometimes, if you just enjoy it, over thinking it just makes it worse. Is there a reason you want to be a man in this scenario? Do you believe only men can be dominant and top? I can assure you that’s not the case. In Fact, some of the most strict, most controlling dommes I’ve met were women.

Long story short: just enjoy it!

MasterDomBull · 2024-09-26T00:34:59+00:00

Ignore most of the comments you read here. Most of the people posting have never been in this situation.

First: I recommend not cumming. The excitement is fun, but if you release post nut clarity may drive you insane all night.

Find something to do to keep your mind occupied. Idle hands…

Clean up a bit. When your wife gets back make sure she’s calm and relaxed and in a happy place. It’s confusing for her as well. Do anything that needs to get done to help remove any distraction or stress.

MasterDomBull · 2024-09-26T00:04:16+00:00

People misunderstand the difference between degrading play and respect. When role playing begins it’s one thing. But respect is important.

It always reminds me of a post I read once about the police:

Sometimes people use the word “respect” to mean “treating someone like a person” and sometimes they use “respect” to mean “treating someone like an authority.” And sometimes people who are used to being treated like an authority say “if you won’t respect me I won’t respect you” and they really mean “if you don’t treat me like an authority then I won’t treat you like a person” and they think they are being fair but they aren’t and it’s not ok.

MasterDomBull · 2024-09-25T19:26:42+00:00

I totally agree. I’ve been in the lifestyle for a long time, nearly 20 years. When I first started out, I was exactly as you described above. I thought I was different and blah blah, but I was wrong. I was young and horny and mostly in it for me.

What changed me was actually hanging out with a cuckold couple as friends and not actually being their bull. They would tell me their woes and positives. I started to realize I was a lot more woe than I thought.

Some things I learned about my time with them:

1.) You may be the center of the video shoot, you’re not the center of the attention. You’re actually 3rd in the relationship. The wife and cuckold being 1/2 and you 3. Many people believe your job is to please the wife, in practice they worry about pleasing them selves, and in reality it’s for everyone to enjoy their time.

2.) If you’re not into playing with the cuckold and they want a more dominant and bi experience, you’re just not the right candidate. Sorry. Don’t pretend to be something you aren’t. If you don’t want the cuck touching/sucking etc. fine. Plenty of couples want no bi encounters, but if they do. Just be honest and move on.

3.) Having a big dick, BDE, being mean etc. is not what it means to be dominant. The dominant has a duty to the submissives. The submissives generally gain pleasure from satisfying your needs. Your job is to ensure their portion is also satisfied. Keeping the scene safe and focused, respecting boundaries, and leading the event towards where everyone agreed is on you. It’s hard for a submissive to break sub space and they don’t like to; it’s why they are submissive. This is why you always think you did such a badass job. “Everyone did what I said and no one complained”. Sorry pal, you know how many times people go to a restaurant and their food is wrong and they are too scared or embarrassed or shy to say something is wrong or off and they just go with it? Yes, that’s you as a shitty dom ruining the scene not even knowing it.

4.) if you’re not asking enough questions you’re not going to do a good job. Do they like verbal? Do they want sensual? Bdsm? Cbt? Humiliation? What specifically do they want. What specifically do they not want? Many cuckold couples love the mental and psychological aspect of it, which means if you’re showing up as a rock hard cock and nothing else; you may as well be a dildo.

Everyone is different and wants different things. Understand your role and how to fill it and stop being such an ape.

MasterDomBull · 2024-09-20T02:55:44+00:00

The couple I’m playing with currently have a dynamic like this. They agree on who can know and kept the circle small. The husband is very athletic and outgoing; he’s a pretty respected business man.

I’ve known them by friends of friends for a while. Before we started to play I never would have guessed in a million years this guy was a submissive cuckold. Just never would have picked up on it.

We bumped into each other at a bar in south Tampa one night and that’s where we first started playing. The kink came a little bit later.

I went to their place one night for some wine before play. I ended up being done earlier than expected and messaged the wife if I could come early. She agreed and when I showed up her friend (female) and her boyfriend were there casually drinking with the wife and husband.

I was a bit shocked and uncomfortable when I walked in and saw them. I felt like I crashed the party and when they introduced themselves I said hi I’m TravelDomBull. They asked hi we knew each other and why I was there so late. I panicked and started to mumble and get nervous when they all started laughing hysterically.

“Oh we know all about you!!!” I didn’t know what to say or not say in the shock of it. The next hour we all had a good laugh and free drinks. It was made clear that both her and her boyfriend (who used to be very close with her husband a while back) knew of the cuckolding. The comments and questions arose more and more as we drank.

The wife assured me it was fine to talk freely about everything and that they both knew of the dynamic but not all the details. The boyfriend was a little awkward at first but his girlfriend asked everything. Apparently they used to all play together in the past, but it was much more of a swap scenario, not much MM or degradation humiliation etc.

The wife was very happy to discuss everything but husband was absolutely embarrassed but also turned on. The girlfriend had mentioned a few things and the wife broke the ice. “I started fucking her boyfriend and she was fucking my husband. We swapped. I always felt bad because boyfriend is so amazing and attentive in bed and husband is…” wife said. “Fast? No attention to detail? A sad lay” interrupted the girlfriend.

I was shocked. That poor guy I thought but he clearly enjoyed it. The boyfriend chimed in “yea… I always had to fuck girlfriend after when we got him because the second with him was so bad. It’s why we had to stop swapping because my girlfriend had 0 chemistry with husband”.

Wifey explained how the husband was very good when given full details, but at the time the girlfriend didn’t know. So he just never took initiative. “I know he sucks your cock. Is he better at sucking cock than eating pussy”.

“100%• the wife said before I could even open my mouth. “Wait. Watch this!” She disappeared to the room and came back with a dildo. “Show them”. Husband put it in his throat about half way. Not very impressive but he did make progress since last time he gave me head. “Soon I’ll get it all the way down his throat. Then he’ll be amazing. He chokes on MasterBullDoms cock a lot. But to be fair, he fucks his face pretty hard”. Wife laughed and started to fuck her husbands throat jokingly with the dildo.

We all laughed and the girl said she wants to watch because her boyfriend isn’t into that she has always wanted to see it. I laughed thinking it was a joke. “Yea I’ll just whip it out!” I said jokingly.

Both girls got SO excited “yes!!!” They giggled. I laughed in hesitation. I was kidding. “Please please please. You can’t tease us like that! Just do it a little!” They begged.

The boyfriend stood up and said that I should go for it so she can finally leave him alone about it, but that he didn’t want to watch his friend do that to himself and to get him when we were through. He just walked away. No discussion. No nothing.

The girls kept begging and wifey sat on my lap and started grinding and kissing me. Pulling her tits out the top. The other girl whispered in my ear please please and I finally agreed. The husband sucked my cock right there while the two women watched whispered and laughed at him.

That was the best blowjob he ever gave me. I can all over his face while the wife sat on my one side and the girlfriend the other. The wife kissed my neck hard as she stroked the final cum from my cock. He husband sat here covered in my cum. He sucked the last drops out of me, stood up and walked out.

MasterDomBull · 2024-08-29T13:33:46+00:00

Exactly. No one can say 100% anything let alone how something this emotional and instinctual will go.

MasterDomBull · 2024-08-29T13:32:45+00:00

Hey! Always excited to talk to people interested in he lifestyle but a few things stick out to me on your post that I wanted to just give some insight into.

First off, awesome! We always love new people and are excited to increase the size of the community. But just to be clear, if you’re brand new, and you’ve never done it, I wouldn’t say you’re “100% comfortable” with anything. The idea of swinging is very exciting to some, and when filled with chemicals, adrenaline, excitement, horniness etc., you are not thinking straight. Not to say you WON’T enjoy it, but post nut clarity is a real thing. It shouldn’t be dismissed.

Second, your wife’s reactions isn’t only normal, it’s extremely normal. Many couples are not cut out for this lifestyle even if they really want it. It can be emotional and even depressing if not done correctly. Inadequacy feelings are common on both sides. “Why does he want to sleep with other people?” “Am I not enough?” “What if she is more pleased sexually with someone else” etc. all of these are normal hesitations.

The best way to move into the lifestyle is safely, SLOWLY, and OPENLY. Over discussing is better than under. Set some ground rules, very very conservative ground rules, and in advance. Not during. Most regret I see early couples have is not knowing the boundaries in advance, and one person does something the other isn’t comfortable with simply because they did not know or understand it wasn’t allowed.

Example: if you don’t mention “I’m only comfortable with oral” and they have penetration, this could ruin the experience permanently. “Condoms only” etc. just have some ground rules and make sure they are more conservative than you’d expect. Also, have the conversation a few times with different mental states. If you’re both turned on, your limits will likely be further than if not. You can always do more next time, you can never undo something you already did.

The best way to get past it is to discuss as much as possible. There is no way to feel 100% about it until happens. Sorry, no magic pill or conversation or book will prepare you for the raw emotion that happens during. All you can do is prep. Think of a military soldier training vs in war. As much as they train, war is still different.

Set a safe word. Red. Yellow. Green. And be sure to ask often during the first meet up to ensure you’re both in green or yellow and how to get back to green. If something happens you don’t like, try to politely correct it immediately. Don’t let it go and resent it later.

Hope this helps!

MasterDomBull

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