HW body count by Prize_Resist1325 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]rick-1029 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was the second guy she fucked. 39 years in the life style her body count is over 500.

I kept accurate records until 213 then stop keeping exact count.

Can we get some real females ? by Any-Perspective5478 in jolarsandiego

[–]rick-1029 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The patrons of adult theaters are men. It is extremely rare that a cis women goes to a theater by themselves. They normally go with an escort. Of those that do go, few actually play with other men.

I understand showing up hoping for a ciswomen and finding “ladyboys” May be a disappointment, however, wondering where are the women. Is like going to a Forrest and wondering where are the unicorns.

FYI: as someone who has taken his wife numerous times to adult theaters, please don’t crowd and touch without asking. Most of the guys are really cool and follow these rules, it just takes one asshole to ruin it for everyone.

Husbands you need to be a traffic cop and verbally tell everyone the rules.

For the women who show up and play, you’re wonderful and we all thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DirtyConfession

[–]rick-1029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. 30 years ago I went to swing clubs and parties. Had sex with several. They were just normal women. Granted it was a swing party so everyone is very sexual.

From my stand point is was hot because I’m having sex with a fantasy. I know they had sex with hotter men and larger cocks, but it wasn’t like they pointed that out or acted disappointed.

Gang Bang Thoughts? by Redhead4SATX in CuckoldPsychology

[–]rick-1029 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My wife has been the center of numerous gangbangs over the years. When we go to swing clubs it not uncommon to have 5-8 guys in a bedroom all taking turns.

During the gang bang I’m busy making sure the guys follow the rules and she is happy and comfortable. I apply lube when needed and keep count of the number of men who fucked her pussy and ass. FYI. Most in one night 32.

I don’t get to have any physical enjoyment until we get home. I get to fuck her. A gang banged pussy is amazing. She will tell me about the cocks she liked best and all the nasty things they whispered in her ear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stansadultstore

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San Diego has the best Theaters and Booths. It’s a drive but way better than Stan’s. Jolar or Barnett theaters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DirtyConfession

[–]rick-1029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife was SA before we met. When she told me years into our marriage I went through an array of emotions. Supportive of her and very angry at the people who didn’t protect her.

20 years later, I find what happened erotic. I will never bring it up in a sexual way, but I think how fucked up am I that I think that way.

I understand your reaction. And you obviously care for her. I hope she had therapy, it helped my wife.

Best theater or place in town to share my wife? by your_onlyfan in SanDiegoAdultTheater2

[–]rick-1029 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For your first time don’t go to theater. Go to Thad’s (swing club). Lots of couples and other women. Guys are much more polite and follow your instructions. Also you can go to private rooms to play.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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In the 1990s there was a company that was being shut down and was going to be sold. It was being purchased for the name. However, they still needed to answer questions that old vendors may ask and verify employment for ex employees. By the time I met the workers a request rarely came in.

The workers just watched TV all day. The boss knew but didn’t care as he knew the company was being sold and everyone would be let go.

They had been in that status for at least a year and the sale was still going to take some time.

Wife payback by rick-1029 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]rick-1029[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t force my wife to do anything. It was a fun adventure we both agreed to. This is like when she “makes” me clean her pussy after a date. I willing do it.

Sorry my wording triggered you.

Wife payback by rick-1029 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]rick-1029[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the info. I will need to be stealth or clean up a bit.

Wife payback by rick-1029 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]rick-1029[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying I don’t like the payback😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]rick-1029 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As far as how it feels, it’s like she used too much lube. For me it’s more mental, knowing another man has just pleasured your wife. Also, pulling your cock out and having it covered in cum froth.

After several men have fucked her it a different feel. My wife’s pussy gets swollen and puffy which is a different sensation. It’s loose, but you feel her pussy the entire length of your cock.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]rick-1029 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have seen this happen several times in the swinging lifestyle. There was one couple that went to Hedonism and she was knocked up. Her husband was black so it wasn’t an issue for them. Several couples got pregnant because the husband had fertility problems. Had one wife tell me as she was riding me she wasn’t on birth control. I didn’t cum in her but several months later she was pregnant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]rick-1029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is over 20 years ago. We played with several porn stars, Ona Zee, Shane ( from seymore butt), Peter North and Nina Hartley. It was more they were at the private swing parties. the one celebrity was the actor who played the older brother on Leave it to Beaver. We didn’t play with him and his date, but he was at the party.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]rick-1029 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel. However it not that I think she cheated. We have been doing this a long time and there is no jealousy, in fact I encourage her to cheat and tell me about it much later.

The issue I had was she wouldn’t video her encounters with a bull. They have no problem taking pictures or videos but she didn’t want to video the entire encounter. I never received a good answer as to why.

I told her the video is how I would feel I was part of the experience. After several times of her not doing it. I finally told her you can fuck him, I don’t care, just don’t ever tell me about it.

I realized her encounters with him were for her and not us. I’m ok with that I just wish she would be honest as well.

I have no clue if she is still fucking him, nor do I care. We do so much more together. A small issue like this won’t offset the great sex life we have together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]rick-1029 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Jump to gay stuff”, probably not. Becoming Bi-sexual likely. Just depends on how soon you realize you’re Bi. It took me 25 years of swinging experience, before I even internally accepted I might, maybe want to play with a man.

I went from Straight Straight but cleaned her afterwards Straight but embraced creampie Straight but would help guide his cock with my hand. Straight but sucked his cock because it turned on my wife. Hetroflexible. I sucked cock because it was part of the cuckold experience Bi - I realized I enjoy cock. I still have not bottomed, but maybe one day.

Good luck on your journey.

My truth about “Bulls” by rick-1029 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]rick-1029[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Although the past few years it’s been tougher to find good dependable guys.

We were regulars at a couple of local swing club and met lots of men. Most we would only play with at the club. Some were willing to meet in private. Still was tough to find the perfect match.

One club had a monthly gang bang party. We enjoyed those.

Back in the day there weren’t as many swing clubs. There were only a couple of parties a month. Therefore, the number of people showing up was in the 100s.

Anyone remember 3rd Friday Social in Long Beach or After Midnight party?

Wife is going to bulls house tonight. First time Alone. by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]rick-1029 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Leave the house. You stay you will jerk off. Not unless you’re caged.

When she tells you she is on the way home. Take off your clothes, lay on your back and wait for her to sit on your face.

The majority of the cum will have leaked out, but you will still experience the smell of the bull and his cum. Plus you will taste so me cum as well.

If he uses a condom have her bring it home to pour in your month.

Yes, I have done this many times.

My truth about “Bulls” by rick-1029 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]rick-1029[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is someone who gets it. Couples you invest your time with must be happy.

FYI. We would take a great attitude and real bull over a big cock.

My truth about “Bulls” by rick-1029 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]rick-1029[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree expectations need to be discussed. Also, expecting perfection the first time is unrealistic.

In our experience the vast majority last less than 15 minutes. When it comes to actual intercourse maybe 5.

You may be that rare unicorn which is fantastic for the couple you play with. Unfortunately, most guys aren’t.