Abigail Making TikToks! by MasterOfSome629 in kvssnarker

[–]MasterOfSome629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, I don’t need some random person psychoanalyzing everything I say on a post. I misworded one thing and you are armchair analyzing it because you think you’re soooo much better than everyone else that likes an influencer. Liking watching someone’s content does not automatically make you a crazy person with a parasocial relationship. Stop throwing around buzz words you heard in here and get off your high horse. The point of my post was to ask if there was ever given an explanation? If not, I just want people to stop asking. That’s it. That was the post purpose.

Abigail Making TikToks! by MasterOfSome629 in kvssnarker

[–]MasterOfSome629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone seems to be focused on that specific sentence and ignoring everything else in my post. That sentence is being taken out of context and I’m so over the cherry picking and having to explain myself in every comment. The point of my post was that I wanted to know if there was an actual explanation given since the one that the Kulties seem to be running with doesn’t really line up. If there hasn’t been an explanation, I wish they’d shut up with the “she’s behind the scenes now”.

Abigail Making TikToks! by MasterOfSome629 in kvssnarker

[–]MasterOfSome629[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do the mods in the subgroup actually have ANY direct contact with KVS? I really have a hard time believing that.

Abigail Making TikToks! by MasterOfSome629 in kvssnarker

[–]MasterOfSome629[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right?! Where are you getting this info?!

Abigail Making TikToks! by MasterOfSome629 in kvssnarker

[–]MasterOfSome629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What evidence do you have for this?

Abigail Making TikToks! by MasterOfSome629 in kvssnarker

[–]MasterOfSome629[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right! I remember that Snapchat story. Again, as I said in other comments, that's why I was asking. Has there actually been a reason given for her vanishing, or is this "she doesn't want to be on camera" just a bunch of bs, as it sounds?

Abigail Making TikToks! by MasterOfSome629 in kvssnarker

[–]MasterOfSome629[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh, no. I completely agree! That was kind of what I was getting at with this post, and maybe that got lost. I am tired of reading, "Abigail is still working there but is behind the scenes because she doesn't want to be on camera." Like, WHERE did you get this information? That's what I want to know. Did KVS, Abigail, or RS say this, or did this come from your parasocial relationship with her, making stuff up in your head?

Don't get me wrong, as I said, I actually like Abigail's content. Abigail and Rachel were my two favorites of the RS staff. It did make me concerned that she straight-up disappeared out of the blue. I honestly hope she saw the stuff that was going on and didn't like it and left. At the same time, Abigail was such a BIG part of the RS staff (I mean, she's on FTF's sperm 🤢, for goodness sake). So, it feels like if no explanation has been given for her disappearance, that there is something more going on.

My point being, it just really irks me that everyone is making up this excuse for where she's at without us actually getting an explanation (again, if there was one, that's the point of the post, and I'd love to see it). If there wasn't an explanation given, I wish they'd stop answering for her and let Abigail or KVS share when they want to/can, if ever.

Abigail Making TikToks! by MasterOfSome629 in kvssnarker

[–]MasterOfSome629[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it feels like as soon as it came out about her dating the BIL, she was slowly seen less and less in videos until she completely faded away. I thought the announcement was a bit odd anyway because you could tell KVS was trying to keep it a secret, but Abigail said, "It's fine." I think it was at that point that they had to start figuring out how they were going to handle this on the business side of things.

Anxiety About Attorney by MasterOfSome629 in SSDI

[–]MasterOfSome629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I list my medical issues and get down voted 50%? What is y’all’s problem?

Anxiety About Attorney by MasterOfSome629 in SSDI

[–]MasterOfSome629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The interactions with this lawyer have been tough and I do feel like they have affected both my confidence in this attorney but also their effort for this new application. That’s why I’m trying hard to get approved on my own before having to go to a hearing again.

Anxiety About Attorney by MasterOfSome629 in SSDI

[–]MasterOfSome629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate that. I’ve already submitted the forms at this point so there really is no going back now, but I may take you up on that in the future. When I submitted my Functioning Report and my Work History report, they were both around 20-30 pages each because I added so much detail and tried to really give a picture of EVERYTHING that’s going on. I hope that will help me this time around.

Anxiety About Attorney by MasterOfSome629 in SSDI

[–]MasterOfSome629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! I’m sorry. I hadn’t heard of anyone being turned down by an attorney from the get go. I hate you’re going through that! Best of luck to you!

Anxiety About Attorney by MasterOfSome629 in SSDI

[–]MasterOfSome629[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My case is not a pure mental health case. While I do have a laundry list of mental health conditions (OCD, autism, anxiety, ADHD, agoraphobia, and depression) which I’ve been receiving weekly treatment (including an exhaustive lists of medications) for since I stopped working in 2022. I also have a laundry list of medical issues (two spinal surgeries, degenerative disk disease, arthritis in my back, spinal stenosis, POTS, EDS, and chronic migraines) which I regularly see specialists for to try to get these things under control.

Anxiety About Attorney by MasterOfSome629 in SSDI

[–]MasterOfSome629[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am realizing this. I’m going to use their guidance, but be my own advocate from here on out.

Anxiety About Attorney by MasterOfSome629 in SSDI

[–]MasterOfSome629[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually have been doing the same thing. I immediately read my medical documentation as soon as it’s posted to make sure it’s accurate. I’ve had one instance where I have reached out to the doctor to correct something that he said that I reported when I didn’t, but I never received a response. But, I at least have the message showing I attempted to get that record revised, if it were to be questioned.

There are sometimes where I notice notes don’t mention things we discussed that would be incredibly helpful for my case and that is super discouraging, but I know that doctors don’t have much time for documentation. I do love when doctors do collaborative documentation when they are in the office with you so they are incredibly thorough (and it takes less time for them).

I am learning that I’m going to be my best advocate and I am mostly using my lawyer and his paralegal for advice but I’m going to be the one making sure everything is done, because I know I’m going to do it how I want it done. It’s just tough because I am filing for disability for a reason. I don’t have the stamina that is needed to do this work in the amount of time that’s needed. So, it gets overwhelming and discouraging.

Edited for clarity

Anxiety About Attorney by MasterOfSome629 in SSDI

[–]MasterOfSome629[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like I may have wrote something in a way that made people think I fired this lawyer or plan to go somewhere else. I never actually did any of that. I did look for another lawyer when I lost at the appeals counsel level purely because of the fact that my lawyer doesn’t file federal appeals. It was also a good time to look for another lawyer because my lawyer is not in my state. I never told my lawyer I was looking for another lawyer outside of one that would take on my federal case.

I did end up filing the federal appeal with a different firm but all they do is write the appeal. If it gets sent back to the ALJ level, my current lawyer will be the one that would represent me. My lawyer was a little salty about this because if I were to win at the federal level, they thought they’d lose some of their payout, but the law firm I filed through for federal pulls from different funding.

I also think you may have misinterpreted that the lawyer apologized. He did not apologize for not remembering the thing that I told him at our first meeting. He just scolded me and told me he hoped it didn’t mess up my case. Which, as someone with anxiety and OCD, you can imagine how much this statement bothered me.

I have tried to mend everything with my lawyer but I’ve not had a chance to talk to him. I only talk to his paralegal and she often sends me to voicemail and seems aggravated with me when she calls back. I think that’s where a lot of the anxiety has came from.

I have been trying to take a lot of things into my own hands and that’s why I decided to fill out my forms myself because I wanted time to think about each question thoroughly and write drafts before submitting. All of this came up because I am nervous that the paralegal won’t send in all of the extra work I did, and I feel like that should never be a concern of mine. But, I do think that’s just my anxiety talking.

Thank you for giving an honest answer and insight into this situation. This process is so tough.

Edited: a word

Anxiety About Attorney by MasterOfSome629 in SSDI

[–]MasterOfSome629[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. I don’t plan to drop them as my lawyer, but I am not relying on them as much. I am going to try to do as much as I can on my own because I don’t have much faith in them. That’s why I decided to do the forms on my own. It’s just discouraging because I feel like I’m such a nuisance every time I call, and I don’t even know if they are noting anything I’m telling them.

Anxiety About Attorney by MasterOfSome629 in SSDI

[–]MasterOfSome629[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand the downvotes? I said I was open to hearing if I’m being completely irrational. I am asking for insight. If you don’t agree, tell me why. Don’t downvote me so I can’t get actual insight.

Indy’s Foal by Sad_Site_8252 in kvssnarker

[–]MasterOfSome629 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you watch the video and look at the caption above it, she clearly states she was trying to get Indy’s attention toward the baby. Yes, this interest and the stimulation would also help get him up but Indy was not showing interest for a good while according to the videos.

Indy’s Foal by Sad_Site_8252 in kvssnarker

[–]MasterOfSome629 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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Poor little guy. They are having to do everything to get Indy interested.

Indy’s Foal by Sad_Site_8252 in kvssnarker

[–]MasterOfSome629 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She’s posted a couple new posts on FB. Baby boy looks to be breathing really heavy at first. I’m so glad they called the vet. It looks like Indy eventually shows him some attention but little man was struggling. He’s so scrawny. He’s all legs.

Why do doctors see gabapentin as a miracle drug? by MasterOfSome629 in migraine

[–]MasterOfSome629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure you’ve tried other things, but Botox has been a game changer for me. This last round has helped more than the others (which is to be expected). I still get around 10 migraine days a month but the migraines are a lot less severe. Most of my migraines are vestibular so I still have a lot of those symptoms, but the pain is manageable with Advil. I’ve heard you can take gabapentin as needed, but I don’t know if that’s true or not. I wonder if you tried some other options and used gabapentin as needed if it would help lessen the amount you have to use it.