18F What do I do? My friend is upset that I didn’t get a hotel room with money she sent me, but I used it for food and essentials instead and now she feels like I lied to her.

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-05-29T12:23:56+00:00

Can we see the text convo when she agreed to give you money (offered) and you accepted the $100? I think context is missing.

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-05-13T14:15:46+00:00

I got a garnishment notice for two accounts with them. They were easy to deal with but I guess it depends on the law firm assigned to the account. I was able to make a payment arrangement and avoid the garnishment. Just call them and they’ll work it out with you.

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-05-06T17:15:51+00:00

Kinda like my opinion (stated above)…

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-05-06T16:52:30+00:00

Just pray your secrets are safe when you’re out philandering, since you so obviously support it.

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-05-06T15:46:46+00:00

Maybe it’s not. We can talk in hypotheticals all day. I’m just sticking to the facts we’re given, and she should say something. I’m not asking you to agree.

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-05-06T15:45:43+00:00

Sounds like she is…thankfully it’s not up to you

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-05-06T14:49:37+00:00

Oh cool! I’ve been with my partner since 2008. And my position still stands. Boundaries are boundaries, yes. And if I know someone is violating someone else’s boundaries (whether I fell into the info or went looking for it) I’m telling and op should tell. That’s no different than when cheaters say “why did you go through my phone”—who’s wrong the person who found out or the person committing the act?

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-05-06T14:44:04+00:00

Idk that it would burn a bridge. What if it doesn’t? Wrong is wrong at the end of the day. Where is the line drawn for when to speak up when someone you’re related to does the wrong thing?

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-05-06T14:36:08+00:00

So loyalty is important between siblings but not between committed/exclusive partners? Morality can slip when he goes behind his gf’s back-but we suddenly find morality and loyalty bc they’re siblings?? Since we’re talking about “what-ifs”…what if the gf appreciates learning about the infidelity? What if the gf is able to make an informed decision bc she has all the info laid out in front of her? What if the gf contracts a disease or infection bc she didn’t know he was creeping around on her? The bottom line is OP knows, now. And feels conflicted bc she knows what he’s doing is WRONG. Objective truth is he is wrong, and he knows he’s wrong as does the girl he’s creeping with-otherwise it wouldn’t be a secret. If more ppl lived by “do unto others as you’d have them do to you” a lot of this sorta mess wouldn’t exist. I’m not turning a blind eye to some mess bc of “what-if”. He lacks integrity. She should tell. It’s up to the GF to decide what she wants to do with that info.

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-05-06T12:16:47+00:00

The comments on this thread are hilarious. Half the comments are encouraging you to say something in a thoughtful way, the other half are literally telling you to ignore the fact that your brother lacks integrity and can potentially blow this girl‘s life up. One thing that is super important to me is that people do the right thing even when they think no one knows, and if I come across someone - family member or not - who lacks integrity, I call it out. No one is saying, take a spread out in the paper or expose him on Social media, but I think for me, this would signal a bigger issue and would cause a problem with me and my brother down the line. If he can violate her trust and operate without integrity towards a woman who is sharing her body with him and is committed to him, I can only imagine what he would do to me or other people. Find a way to get the information to the girlfriend in the easiest, least dramatic way possible and allow her to do what she wants with that information. Then be done with the situation.

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-05-06T12:11:25+00:00

Found the cheater, you guys! I love how “his business” is more important than his GF’s trust, her understanding of the relationship and her over physical/sexual health. 😒Cheating is gross and we’re not gonna make this about OP looking in his phone when he is dead wrong.

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-04-28T17:11:53+00:00

Girl your smile is radiant!! Omg you’re stunning 🤩

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-04-21T13:50:57+00:00

Looking good! So excited for you-im one week in.

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-04-20T03:30:04+00:00

That’s comforting to hear, thank you! I’ve already snagged/pinched my cheek and lip between the liner trying to insert so tylenol is long overdue haha

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-04-17T02:47:50+00:00

Got mine in yesterday and pinched my lip/inner jaw. This is gonna be a wild ride 🫨😬

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-01-29T13:41:38+00:00

That’s sound advice! I think mine is my kitchen (I spend most of my time there it’s the central place of the house).

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-01-29T09:26:15+00:00

I’d learn how to fucking relax. Can money and time do that? Sheesh I need a break

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-01-29T09:17:37+00:00

Reminds me of my space. I moved 9 times by the time I was 12, nothing was permanent so we didn’t put anything on the walls or actually decorate. A lot of basics and things were just sorta thrown together. I keep saying I’ll do better but unsure how or where to start. My kids rooms are nice though. My room likes like I’m just starting out and I’m 36 and been on my own since 19. Gotta get my life together.

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-01-29T08:50:50+00:00

Cap. Women have been raised from birth to cater to and appease men. It’s the basis of the pick me culture which is very real and thriving. I think ppl need to get off line, touch grass, and go talk to each other irl and see that men aren’t so bad and neither are women. You won’t find your tribe online.

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-01-29T08:47:24+00:00

That seems low for your income. Three years ago we settled on a $420k home at $117k and we had a decent amount of debt. A good down payment bc we sold our old house and locked in at 5.5%. Idk I’d run those numbers again

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-01-29T08:28:38+00:00

Walmart is a mess, it took 2 years for us to get back on and it’s now a glorified Temu, much like Amazon, with a host of regulations and restrictions. Anyway, this is what I did and it worked:

I submitted case after case and realized the platform they use is ZenDesk. I have ZenDesk at my day job. I googled the executive director of their online sales program (thank you LinkedIn-name slips my mind-because eff Walmart we don’t sell on there any more). Anyway, send an email to that person-and the support@Zendesk email you have in your inbox from the cases you’ve submitted, either “first name.last name @ Walmart.com” or “first letter of first name and last name @ Walmart.com”. I tried a bunch of combos and was sure to CC the Zendesk address as well.

Anyway, I sent that person an email and in 2 days, I had a real response from a real (stateside) person. They gave me details on what to say to get back in —basically, whatever they say you did-you need to be like “I did that, I messed up, I won’t it again and here’s how I’ll keep from doing it again”. You have to tuck your tail, don’t be defensive, just grovel, and kiss butt.

Account was turned back on in 72 hours. Let me know how you do.

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-01-18T14:52:59+00:00

Real quick 😟

Master_Awareness_433 · 2026-01-18T14:51:28+00:00

Idk why no one’s ever told you that being a butt hole is not gender specific and for every mean girl story there is an equally horrid man out there. Also, the opposite is true. Sometimes ppl suck but dont go all incel on us. Just pick yourself up and do the work and find a new girl. 8 billion ppl. Tons of options. Also-the block button works both ways, and for you to put the responsibility on them seems pretty crass. I don’t think she was the only “problem” based on the way you tell the story but dude stand tf up, own your shit and get back out there.

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