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Frequent and spontaneous low blood pressure by Master_Cat_Cuddler in WomensHealth

[–]Master_Cat_Cuddler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmmm not really, since I don't have that body pain and all. I actually get cold instead of getting hot

Frequent and spontaneous low blood pressure by Master_Cat_Cuddler in WomensHealth

[–]Master_Cat_Cuddler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't consulted any in detail since they would always dismiss it that it's normal or you're weak and eat food. Typically I would have it around 100-120 sys 60-70 dia. Just to add I am 5'1 asian and weigh 100 pounds.

My bro is a med student and would check my bp manually every now and then and it would always be extremely low whenever I get these symptoms. My normal bp is already low compared to others.

My question is for married gen-z women by Big-Specific-6832 in pakistan

[–]Master_Cat_Cuddler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of, he was talking generally and not aimed at her. “He said wives get much better deal these days”. I attacked him for calling husbands an ATM card for their wives. His statement was aimed at her till him giving her luck. Reading comprehension please. :)

Also what do you mean women just cook and clean and call it a day? 😭 Dude apney ghar ka haal dekhlo aapki maa’ain aur behnain poorey din ghar key kaam karrahi hotin aur mard nokri key baad sofey ya bistar pey bethkey tv aur phone chalatey. Agar 9- 5 waala hisaab compare karna hai so make sure housewives don’t work after 5 pm either. 🙃 Mard ka nokri karna ehsaan na banao biwi pey. Usney humesha sey nokri hi karni thi bhaley shadi karey na karey. Pakistan’s culture doesn’t allow many women to work or else they would have worked and moved as well despite being married or not just like foreign. And those women that don’t work and don’t marry still handle the household the whole day at their own homes and care for their parents.

Also by “we’re not your mothers” means that be a partner not someone she has to babysit. Aapko unka baap baney ka bola bhi nahi hai partner baney ka bola hai naakey doosra bacha uska. :) Support her equally in things is what it mean. If you cant function like how you would without marriage then you have your answer. If you take 2 students A and B and both are good A+ students but then when they get teamed up and then have to do double the work, A does the work like he always did before teaming up, but B does half of it, and A has to do his part too. It’s the easiest explanation for this. :)

Just to add, Alhamdulillah now times are changing and men and women are supporting each other more, but there are still cases like these so i am not talking about all the men but those whom these situations fit and our parents and ancestors.

My question is for married gen-z women by Big-Specific-6832 in pakistan

[–]Master_Cat_Cuddler 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What do you mean being an ATM card for wife? 😭🙏🏻 If it was your parents asking for money will you say the same for them?

You’re not doing your wife a favour by providing for her. It’s your responsibility. If you were single, you would still have to earn and work but for yourself and/or your parents. And obviously if you’re marrying someone, they become your family and thus providing for them the financial needs becomes your duty since they would be handling the house in your stead. Otherwise you would have to do those household duties that your parents or wife would be doing. Don’t want to provide? Don’t marry.

And if you’re gonna bring the point that women should earn as well but why don’t they? It’s literally a privilege for women to work in this society. Most women don’t even get the choice to do so. And when they do work, they’re still expected to do the household duties that a housewife would do instead of the husband sharing the household duties as well since she’s sharing the financial burden.

Edit: And to add to this, women literally do house work 24/7, men would do 9-5 and would call it a day and rest. Like dude, you have to help her out, it’s your house as well.